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re: Relationship Topic: Moving On From A Woman

Posted on 8/26/19 at 11:20 pm to
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 8/26/19 at 11:20 pm to
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To this day I still look at her and wonder what could've been though. I still have occasional dreams where we are together, in a relationship, cuddling, kissing.


frickin' yikes
Posted by ForeverEllisHugh
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2016
16154 posts
Posted on 8/27/19 at 2:30 pm to
First off you probably should have known that you were going to get insulted a lot on this board.

But my advice would be to show her that you’re aggressive/dominant; it’s what they want no matter what they say.

Invite her over, get a few drinks in both of you, and just go all in. A strong kiss, waist grabbing, throw her on the bed... it may not come naturally to you but it has a much better chance of working than the emo route
Posted by celltech1981
Member since Jul 2014
8139 posts
Posted on 8/27/19 at 2:31 pm to
quote:

Invite her over, get a few drinks in both of you, and just go all in. A strong kiss, waist grabbing, throw her on the bed


Trillhog alter?
Posted by ZappBrannigan
Member since Jun 2015
7692 posts
Posted on 8/27/19 at 2:33 pm to
Trillhog would have something about transaction costs thrown in about the alcohol.
Posted by ForeverEllisHugh
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2016
16154 posts
Posted on 8/27/19 at 2:35 pm to
quote:

Trillhog alter?


Is he the incest guy? Either way no.

He really wants this woman so instead of telling him to go chase tail I’m offering an idea to get her looking at him differently.
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
41251 posts
Posted on 8/27/19 at 2:36 pm to
No trillhog is the rape guy.

He told a story of how he had sex with a girl and it was rape
Posted by ForeverEllisHugh
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2016
16154 posts
Posted on 8/27/19 at 2:38 pm to
Oh okay.

Honestly the lines are a little blurred, but it’s likely that the girl in question sees the OP as somewhat unmanly. A strong sexual advance could catch her off guard and have her respecting him as a man.
Posted by sodcutterjones
Member since May 2018
1314 posts
Posted on 8/27/19 at 2:39 pm to
Your about to be 34 and haven't figured out the game yet?

I was a late bloomer but figured out the game women play at least by 23. And never ever be friends with them after they dump you, geez. Have fun letting her introduce you to her new boyfriends!

Your job is to not be friend zoned. Your post sounds sad.
Posted by terriblegreen
Souf Badden Rewage
Member since Aug 2011
11844 posts
Posted on 8/27/19 at 2:44 pm to
Two dates is nothing to get weird about. You didn't even kiss her. Move the frick on.
Posted by Muff
The dirty south.
Member since Oct 2014
548 posts
Posted on 8/27/19 at 2:46 pm to
incel
Posted by ZappBrannigan
Member since Jun 2015
7692 posts
Posted on 8/27/19 at 2:51 pm to
You know what the issue is nowadays?

None of you dumb fricks know how to grab a lass and swing her around the dance floor anymore.

A good firm hold and twirling, not stepping on her feet, little bit of grace involved and you got em melting.

Now it's all liquor her up, throw her on the bed. No romance and like a penny's worth of passion.

Posted by dgnx6
Member since Feb 2006
85534 posts
Posted on 8/27/19 at 3:07 pm to
Do you really ever forget? Probably not. You are still young and plenty of women will come a long that will help.

It's easy to just say, don't dwell. But don't, give others a chance.
Posted by Vols&Shaft83
Throbbing Member
Member since Dec 2012
70096 posts
Posted on 8/27/19 at 3:25 pm to
quote:

How do I close the book once and for all on us ever being together?


It's quite simple,

1. Find another woman

2. Get her consent

3. Put your penis in her vagina

4. ????


5. Profit
Posted by ForeverEllisHugh
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2016
16154 posts
Posted on 8/27/19 at 9:46 pm to
If he really thinks she could be the one he needs to get his penis in her vagina. He’s admitted to being a virgin so it’s not gonna be easy.

Maybe pop a baby blue so that’s one fewer thing to worry about.
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
41919 posts
Posted on 8/27/19 at 9:50 pm to
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How do I close the book once and for all on us ever being together?


Block her then delete contact info

Ghost her move on with life
Posted by WaltTeevens
Santa Barbara, CA
Member since Dec 2013
11517 posts
Posted on 8/27/19 at 10:04 pm to
quote:

To get to the point she messages me two days after the second date and says she liked hanging out with me but doesn't seem me as any more than a friend. Essentially I got "friend zoned". Since we do have some activities in common I took her up on her offer to still be friends. To this day I still look at her and wonder what could've been though. I still have occasional dreams where we are together, in a relationship, cuddling, kissing. Since then I have had no dating luck and really haven't fully moved on from her.


She probably just doesn't view you as a sexual partner, but the good news this that you can still salvage something out of this.

There was this barista that worked at the Starbucks near my college campus. She was short, a bit curvy, but just an amazingly gorgeous face. Every time I would go in for my Macchiato I would just melt when she handed it to me.

I couldn't tell if she was into me, but I knew I couldn't get her out of my mind. I, like you, was having the intense kissing/cuddling dreams every night about her. I'm talking toe-curling, mind-blowing cuddling.

One day, I was going to ask her out when she got off work (I had a dream about her work schedule, and it turned out to be accurate), but when she came outside, some guy in an orange IROC pulled up and she got in the car and started kissing and then drove off!

I was heartbroken, but I didn't let that stop me. The next three days, this guy came and picked her up after work. They'd make out for a couple minutes, then drive away!

On the fourth day I just couldn't take it anymore. So while the boyfriend was waiting in his car for her, I got into his passenger seat and said

"Don't talk-just listen. I really like that girl, but I know she doesn't like me back. So I'm making you an offer. The next time you have sex with her, text me, and I'll meet you behind you apartment. You let me smell your fingers, and I'll give you $50"

That next couple weeks was the best $800 I ever spent.


Posted by weagle99
Member since Nov 2011
35893 posts
Posted on 8/27/19 at 10:21 pm to
Bro you can’t wait 2 dates to at least kiss. You need to go for it earlier or you will get friendzoned.
Posted by SoulGlo
Shinin' Through
Member since Dec 2011
17248 posts
Posted on 8/27/19 at 10:24 pm to
When she sees you don't give a shite, you become more attractive.
Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
32640 posts
Posted on 8/27/19 at 10:34 pm to
The best way to get over a woman is to get under another one
Posted by johnnyrocket
Ghetto once known as Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2013
9790 posts
Posted on 8/27/19 at 11:09 pm to
Move on she is not into you in the way you want her to be.
You are a friend to her not a lover.
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