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re: Question for the recovering TD boozers

Posted on 12/14/18 at 11:31 pm to
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 12/14/18 at 11:31 pm to
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I'd smoke weed if I could instead but it's unfortunately still pretty taboo in a lot of industries


I can, and it's legal here but I've been holding off for right now. Compulsive personality
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53814 posts
Posted on 12/14/18 at 11:32 pm to
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Compulsive personality

My problem as well. I smoked a lot as a younger guy and it was just nothing like alcohol for me.
Posted by SouthernImmigrant
NELA
Member since Jul 2018
624 posts
Posted on 12/14/18 at 11:33 pm to
Depending on your level of use it could be highly unsafe to try to stop on your own.
If you’re drinking daily you’re succeptable to seizures and hallucinations.
I recommend looking into an inpatient detox program to be medically detoxed and possibly inpatient treatment if you can afford it and have the time.
If you can’t, inpatient detox for a week followed with intensive out patient and AA.
None of this will cure you but it will help you learn some tools to deal with your problem.
If you need to be pointed in the right direction, I can post an email and will be glad to do what I can.
Edit: As far as the family situation goes, it’s really not them, it’s you. When you’re in a good place mentally and “spiritually fit”, you can be around these things and go anywhere with no problems.
Rburgendy20@gmail.com I will be glad to do what I can, can recommend a couple of outpatients around La.
This post was edited on 12/14/18 at 11:41 pm
Posted by northshorebamaman
Mackinac Island
Member since Jul 2009
38562 posts
Posted on 12/14/18 at 11:33 pm to
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I've been holding off for right now.

Same here but thanks for reminding me to grab my bowl.
Posted by jpainter6174
Boss city
Member since Feb 2014
6752 posts
Posted on 12/14/18 at 11:38 pm to
I don’t get it, honestly I drink every day as much as the next guy but when I want to stop, I stop... drank 12 pack every night use to have a cooler next to the couch until the wife said I was drinking to much and I quit for 2 months just to prove I could if I wanted to... wish you the best and hope you can put your mind to whatever your want to do and do it!
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
39555 posts
Posted on 12/14/18 at 11:38 pm to
So you drink like, in the morning and at I appropriate times?
Posted by Canada_Baw
Member since Dec 2017
2489 posts
Posted on 12/14/18 at 11:38 pm to
Woodworking, bowling, golf, running

When I need to dry out I fully, and totally commit myself to a hobby. I organize the schedule so I don’t have the time nor the ability to find a drink.

If you drink you organize your entire life around activities where it’s available.

Stop at liquor store on way home from work and get a sixer for example.

Find a place you enjoy where it’s not available and wait 2 weeks. When you want to take that same route home from work try another and look for an activity not a booze store.



Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 12/14/18 at 11:39 pm to
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was just nothing like alcohol for me.


Yeah weed never did much for me but alcohol, woah..
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53814 posts
Posted on 12/14/18 at 11:40 pm to
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I don’t get it, honestly I drink every day as much as the next guy but when I want to stop, I stop..

Unfortunately it doesn't work that way for some people. It's kind of hard to explain. You are pretty lucky that it does for you.
Posted by Chief Hinge
There and Here
Member since Sep 2018
3237 posts
Posted on 12/14/18 at 11:41 pm to
You know where you are with this issue. You can fix it. You want to fix it. So fix it.

Dig deeper than you are comfortable digging.
Posted by lsuguy13
RIP MATT
Member since Mar 2004
9509 posts
Posted on 12/14/18 at 11:41 pm to
What city are you in? And drop your email if you want I’ll shoot you an email this weekend to touch base to see diff options.
Posted by Canada_Baw
Member since Dec 2017
2489 posts
Posted on 12/14/18 at 11:45 pm to
Replacing a fricked up state with another fricked up state is not the answer. Except that it is. The dopamine receptors in the ol’ Noggin don’t open quite right if you’ve drank for too long... a cold shower, a long run (only if your heart can take it), a simple sober walk. Anything to release a little adrenaline will pop those frickers open... the first time or two will feel like shite. But in 2 weeks, a month, w/e it takes the reward is beyond comprehension
Posted by Canada_Baw
Member since Dec 2017
2489 posts
Posted on 12/14/18 at 11:47 pm to
I’m also pretty sure there’s a reason they serve coffee at AA meetings
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53814 posts
Posted on 12/15/18 at 12:00 am to
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Yeah weed never did much for me but alcohol, woah.. 

I guess what I meant, Roger, is that weed never gave me the compulsive impulses that I had with alcohol. Anything can be abused, but marijuana never had that that same compulsion with me.
This post was edited on 12/15/18 at 12:06 am
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49099 posts
Posted on 12/15/18 at 12:11 am to
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Unfortunately it doesn't work that way for some people. It's kind of hard to explain. You are pretty lucky that it does for you.


That's not normal? I get fricked up for 1-3 days in a row and won't drink for 4-5 days because I feel like a loser fat frickin drunk.

Maybe I'm not so fricked up!
This post was edited on 12/15/18 at 12:12 am
Posted by Canada_Baw
Member since Dec 2017
2489 posts
Posted on 12/15/18 at 12:14 am to
Check back in 12 years
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49099 posts
Posted on 12/15/18 at 12:14 am to
quote:


I quit drinking for years. I'm fairly comfortable having a few beers now but not more than 3-4 on the weekends. I'd smoke weed if I could instead but it's unfortunately still pretty taboo in a lot of industries

You big faqqot. You need a divorce.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49099 posts
Posted on 12/15/18 at 12:15 am to
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Check back in 12 years

I'm 43. Is this a joke? I'm drinking way less than 10 yrs ago. If anything I'll be a sober ole goat at 54.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53814 posts
Posted on 12/15/18 at 12:17 am to
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That's not normal? I get fricked up for 1-3 days in a row and won't drink for 4-5 days because I feel like a loser fat frickin drunk

If you can go days without drinking than you are good Mikelbr. It's the bananas up the chute that I'd go to rehab over
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
52804 posts
Posted on 12/15/18 at 12:17 am to
What age were you when you did the dildo thing? Trying to decide if you're a role model or not
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