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People looking for the "One" (aka: your soulmate)?

Posted on 4/21/16 at 11:15 pm
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
59570 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 11:15 pm
Have you found he or she? If you haven't do you think you ever will? Think I found her, then divorced her, but I still had three great kids from her. Now I don't give a fuq about the "one".

Just want to here some stories good or bad
This post was edited on 4/21/16 at 11:18 pm
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 11:16 pm to
She left me for another guy unfortunately

Pretty depressing when I think about it
Posted by genuineLSUtiger
Nashville
Member since Sep 2005
77214 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 11:17 pm to
It's a myth. People weren't meant to marry or stay with one person for life. It's not normal or healthy. Religion created this fairy tale BS. It's why the divorce rate is fifty percent and infidelity is rampant in the other fifty percent but they stay together for convenience.
Posted by Hugo Stiglitz
Member since Oct 2010
72937 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 11:17 pm to
Had one I thought could be but she turned out to be a manipulative sociopath.
Posted by ManBearTiger
BRLA
Member since Jun 2007
22670 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 11:18 pm to
There are billions of people on this planet and an unfathomably large number of combinations to couple them off into.

There is no "one," there is only a near universal proclivity towards self-affirmation.
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
33900 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 11:18 pm to
quote:

She left me for another guy unfortunately

Pretty depressing when I think about it



I don't think that's the "one" Walt. That's just a whore
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 11:19 pm to
That's absurd man
Posted by TheAlmightySmash
New Orleans
Member since Jun 2014
5493 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 11:19 pm to
quote:

She left me for another guy unfortunately

Pretty depressing when I think about it


frick her, she's a whore. the whole idea of a soul mate is a crock of shite. give me a girl who cooks and doesn't have a bunch of "guy friends" and i'll show you a wife.
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25427 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 11:20 pm to
quote:

It's a myth.


True.

quote:

People weren't meant to marry or stay with one person for life. It's not normal or healthy. Religion created this fairy tale BS.


There are biological reasons why humans were meant to stay together for an extended period of time if not life. After that it becomes a question of stability and security.
Posted by jpbTiger
Tampa FL
Member since Dec 2007
5039 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 11:20 pm to
quote:

Just want to here some stories good or bad


Found mine. Can't imagine life without her -been married for almost 20 years now. Most aren't as lucky as me though, so you're going to get a lot of jaded posts and negativity here......
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 11:20 pm to
Will you guys please not call her a whore

Thank you
Posted by ManBearTiger
BRLA
Member since Jun 2007
22670 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 11:22 pm to
quote:

There are biological reasons why humans were meant to stay together for an extended period of time if not life. After that it becomes a question of stability and security.



True, but this was more relevant when people were only living into their 30/40's.

The extension of our lifespans has introduced a great deal of stress on the tradition.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
71188 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 11:23 pm to
You cannot find "the one" if you are searching for them.

One only finds and/or recognizes "the one" when they are embracing life, living to the fullest.

Become the person you want to be, live the life you want to live, and "the one" will find you.
Posted by Tigerlaff
FIGHTING out of the Carencro Sonic
Member since Jan 2010
23181 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 11:24 pm to
quote:

She left me for another guy unfortunately

Pretty depressing when I think about it



They only stay out for one dance, Walt. You have to pay extra if you don't want them to give a dance to the next guy.
Posted by TheAlmightySmash
New Orleans
Member since Jun 2014
5493 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 11:25 pm to
quote:

Found mine. Can't imagine life without her -been married for almost 20 years now.


preach! 20 is a milestone so I hope she at least sucks your dick or something.
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
59570 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 11:26 pm to
I know there are some success stories out there. Good for you
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25427 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 11:26 pm to
quote:

Will you guys please not call her a whore

Thank you



Posted by saint amant steve
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2008
5695 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 11:26 pm to
quote:

Have you found he or she?


Nope.

quote:

If you haven't do you think you ever will?


With my personality...I'm skeptical. Unless I can convince myself to wait things out and play the odds, I'll probably wind up being just as miserable as the rest of you betrothed folks.

Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 11:26 pm to
Yeah, my second S/O. My drinking and her bipolar disorder fricked it up.
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25427 posts
Posted on 4/21/16 at 11:29 pm to
quote:

True, but this was more relevant when people were only living into their 30/40's.

The extension of our lifespans has introduced a great deal of stress on the tradition.




It has more to do with procreation and long childhoods of our species. If anything our childhoods have gotten longer, and there is more concentration on our children's upbringing with more required education to survive and thrive in society.
This post was edited on 4/21/16 at 11:31 pm
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