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re: Parents of the OT: Did you tell your kids the truth about Santa and if so, at what age?

Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:38 pm to
Posted by Larry Gooseman
Houston
Member since Mar 2014
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Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:38 pm to
My mother telling me was probably my most vivid memory as a 6yo.
Posted by HT713
Galations 4:16
Member since Jan 2011
10028 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:38 pm to
when I have kids one day I'm gonna' homeschool them and not tell them about things like christmas or birthdays or the internet or soda

ain't tryna waste all my money
Posted by Post It Bandit
Member since Mar 2008
3129 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:41 pm to
I don’t know about Santa, but I’d like to choke the mf’er who came up with elf on a shelf
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
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Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:41 pm to
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My wife and I told our kids from the start that St. Nicholas was a real person but that Santa Claus is a symbol of the holiday. We’ve asked that they respect the other kids though.

I did this because I had a horrible childhood and when I was a young parent other young parents at the church we went to who had great parents told me how devastated they were to find out their parents lied to them. Mine were so awful that the fact that they lied about Santa never even was a thought in my mind.
This post was edited on 12/5/19 at 4:42 pm
Posted by Quintona
Member since Mar 2019
739 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:46 pm to
We never told our kids that there's a fat guy with flying reindeer sliding down chimney's with toys made by elves at the north pole, if that's what you mean.

We do much like what another poster said: "My wife and I told our kids from the start that St. Nicholas was a real person but that Santa Claus is a symbol of the holiday."

My parents were pissed and think we've robbed them of part of their childhood. After a few rounds of that I reminded them that they had their chance to raise kids, now it's our turn.
This post was edited on 12/5/19 at 4:50 pm
Posted by ezride25
Constitutional Republic
Member since Nov 2008
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Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:46 pm to
I always tell them the truth.
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:47 pm to
I have a 15 month old that we are pumped to eventually do Santa with, but my wife's sister is a home-schooling weirdo church lady that never did Santa with her 3 kids because it was not Christian or some bullshite.

Of course her kids all each have some weird form of social anxiety or ineptitude. They're very sweet kids, but man, they've got almost no chance of being normal teenagers.

If one of them ruins Santa Claus for my kid(s), I will fricking lose it. Just because your parents hate fun doesn't mean our kids need to have it ruined.

:stepsoffsoapbox:


Also, sidenote, they are practitioners of FIRE. Finanical Independence Retire Early. They live in a tiny shoe box, rarely use HVAC or heat, buy nonperishable food in crazy bulk, etc.

These people are bizarre. But hey! They're going to retire early I guess!
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
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Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:49 pm to
quote:

We never told our kids that there's a fat guy with flying reindeer sliding down chimney's with toys made by elves at the north pole, if that's what you mean.



For religious reasons? Or because you hate fun? Or both?
Posted by Prominentwon
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Member since Jan 2005
95032 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:49 pm to
I let them figure it out themselves. My first two daughters figured it out and asked me. I wasn’t going to lie to them and try to convince them otherwise.

My 7 year old is the only one left. When he starts asking questions, I’ll answer honestly. Won’t go out of my way to tell him he doesn’t exist.
Posted by NorthGwinnettTiger
Member since Jun 2006
53284 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:49 pm to
Kid is 10 and she's starting to 2nd guess, but hasn't said anything. Just ready for this fricking elf in my house to die already.
Posted by High C
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Member since Nov 2012
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Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:50 pm to
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My wife and I told our kids from the start that St. Nicholas was a real person but that Santa Claus is a symbol of the holiday. We’ve asked that they respect the other kids though.

I don’t believe in lying to my kids even for something as benign as Santa


They’re your kids, but damn, seems like you’re trying to force young children to think like adults.
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:52 pm to
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I don’t believe in lying to my kids


Hey daddy, what is this rubber, lumpy, pink tube thing I found in mom's bedside table?

Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53541 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:52 pm to
We didn't say anything. At some point she was like "come on guys, I'm 9. You don't think I know there's no Santa?"
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
56275 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:52 pm to
I just avoided this
quote:

We never told our kids that there's a fat guy with flying reindeer sliding down chimney's with toys made by elves at the north pole, if that's what you mean.
but my kids woke up to a shite ton of gifts under the tree Christmas morning that were not there the night before. No name on the from tag. My kids are all now in their 20s and bring their SOs over for the marathon opening session that now includes them. I dont buy their love with tons of $$$ but I buy one big gift that they wouldn't buy for themselves and tons of treats and practical gifts. Like stuff for their houses (example: new towels, luggage, pots- everyone wants new ones but it is no fun paying for them)
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:53 pm to
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Kid is 10 and she's starting to 2nd guess, but hasn't said anything. Just ready for this fricking elf in my house to die already.


10 I bet he knows.

I never did elf on a shelf growing up and have no idea how it works. Same with my wife. None of our friends do it with their kids either. I think I'm off the hook on that one.

How does that game even work?

Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:55 pm to
Also, my dad used to sprinkle white ashes from our fire place around his shoes to make footprints and eat half a cookie and drink the milk.

I CAN'T WAIT TO DO THAT shite!!

This post was edited on 12/5/19 at 4:57 pm
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53541 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:56 pm to
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I never did elf on a shelf growing up and have no idea how it works. Same with my wife. None of our friends do it with their kids either. I think I'm off the hook on that one.

Keep it that way. I'd never heard of it until my wife started getting me to help her with it. It's a pain in the arse to remember to move the stupid elf.
This post was edited on 12/5/19 at 4:57 pm
Posted by rich4pres
Knoxville
Member since Dec 2016
11278 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:56 pm to
My son is still too young but we already have it planned out. We are just gonna let them believe as long as possible. Christmas is always more fun while you still believe.
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:57 pm to
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Christmas is always more fun while you still believe.


It really is. It is magical. Rushing to bed so the morning comes quicker. Thinking there is a magical person that will visit your living room.

I can't wait to see that look of wonder on my kid's face.
Posted by Lugnut
Wesson
Member since Nov 2016
1515 posts
Posted on 12/5/19 at 4:57 pm to
Hot Damn....Same shite every fricking year!!

No I don’t
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