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Posted on 7/1/14 at 1:10 pm to MapGuy
It doesn't apply to every situation....but it does apply to some Mappy.
Posted on 7/1/14 at 1:11 pm to CocomoLSU
Posted on 7/1/14 at 1:11 pm to GeauxTigerTM
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After asking what other parents do, mind you.
It's almost as if she was looking for validation on not being considerate enough to pick up a phone and ask.
No doubt. This was either a thread to rile nurse up or a thread to validate being a shitty (well, at least inconsiderate) person.
Or a little of both, most likely.
Posted on 7/1/14 at 1:11 pm to tgrbaitn08
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Go back and read my post. I said 25 years of adulthood. Let's say my balls dropped when I was 13. You do the math genius.
Please excuse me for missing that. I still don't understand what you're getting so upset about here or what it is you think I've done that's so high and almighty or whatever.
Posted on 7/1/14 at 1:12 pm to lsunurse
quote:I feel certain that anyone who has posted in the last nine years already knows that fact. You've posted it, what, four times in this thread alone?
I've only been a pediatric nurse for almost 14 years
Posted on 7/1/14 at 1:12 pm to LouisianaLady
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I know he's a sweetie who can act a little trashy in person too..
Hey at least I don't have Basile genes
Posted on 7/1/14 at 1:14 pm to Salmon
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but even IRL, if you are having any type of discussion about parenting and you tell a non parent "I'm sorry, you don't have kids, you probably don't understand" and they lose their shite
it's just odd to me
FWIW, that depends on the discussion IMO. If it's come common sense shite, then that statement is completely meant to degrade and piss the other person off. "I never let my kid play with forks next to the electrical outlets...but YOU WOULDN'T UNDERSTAND BECAUSE YOU DON'T HAVE KIDS."
Obviously it certainly would apply a lot of times though.
Posted on 7/1/14 at 1:14 pm to lsunurse
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you are just more charming than me coco
Touche'.
Posted on 7/1/14 at 1:15 pm to Salmon
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but even IRL, if you are having any type of discussion about parenting and you tell a non parent "I'm sorry, you don't have kids, you probably don't understand" and they lose their shite
To be fair, telling anyone they "don't understand" about anything (non-children-related stuff) comes off as condescending. Doesn't mean you're trying to be, but that's how people take it.
It's more polite to just decide internally that you don't find value in their opinion.. IMO
Posted on 7/1/14 at 1:15 pm to Salviati
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I feel certain that anyone who has posted in the last nine years already knows that fact. You've posted it, what, four times in this thread alone?
Posted on 7/1/14 at 1:15 pm to yellowfin
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Hey at least I don't have Basile genes
Posted on 7/1/14 at 1:16 pm to LouisianaLady
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To be fair, telling anyone they "don't understand" about anything (non-children-related stuff) comes off as condescending. Doesn't mean you're trying to be, but that's how people take it.
oh I know
but literally any other experience you can use the "if you haven't done it you can't offer your opinion" line and everyone agrees with it
but not parenting...god not parenting
Posted on 7/1/14 at 1:16 pm to CocomoLSU
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"I never let my kid play with forks next to the electrical outlets
go on..
Posted on 7/1/14 at 1:17 pm to Salmon
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but not parenting...god not parenting
Meh, I don't have to have a dick in my arse to know it's not my thing.
Posted on 7/1/14 at 1:18 pm to LouisianaLady
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To be fair, telling anyone they "don't understand" about anything (non-children-related stuff) comes off as condescending. Doesn't mean you're trying to be, but that's how people take it.
Most reasonable people don't take offense to this, if a surgeon told me I didn't understand how to repair an acl I wouldn't be offended
If an attorney told me I didn't understand some obscure law I wouldn't be offended
Posted on 7/1/14 at 1:19 pm to Salmon
quote:I don't know. My cool friends talk to me about their kids all the time. I don't try to act like I really know what I'm talking about when I'm offering advice but mostly I just listen. There are some people who act all high and mighty about it and even before I've even said anything, they tell me that I just don't understand. Are you that person? They suck. I don't like them. I never once said that I understand. I never said anything, shite. Those are usually the same people that complain a lot.
but even IRL, if you are having any type of discussion about parenting and you tell a non parent "I'm sorry, you don't have kids, you probably don't understand" and they lose their shite
it's just odd to me
Posted on 7/1/14 at 1:19 pm to Salmon
I do understand what you're saying, though. Parents vs. non-parents = ridiculously extreme on both sides.
Posted on 7/1/14 at 1:19 pm to LouisianaLady
Maybe one day you and jones can make a basile/West Bank baby 
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