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re: OT Parents: At what age did you start letting your kid stay home by themselves?

Posted on 8/12/23 at 8:16 pm to
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
117769 posts
Posted on 8/12/23 at 8:16 pm to
My 8 year old scrambles her own eggs.

At some point, we’re all too big for the nest.
Posted by A Menace to Sobriety
Member since Jun 2018
29419 posts
Posted on 8/12/23 at 8:26 pm to
12 was when me and my siblings would be the age where we stayed by ourselves.
Posted by Gee Grenouille
Bogalusa
Member since Jul 2018
5066 posts
Posted on 8/12/23 at 8:29 pm to
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Mom is worried about her daughter being a slut


If the mom is this controlling she will probably be a slut.
Posted by pelicanpride
Houston
Member since Oct 2007
1317 posts
Posted on 8/12/23 at 8:57 pm to
It depends on maturity, but I let my 8 (almost 9) year old stay at home alone for extended periods of time. I don’t think it’s ever been two hours, but I wouldn’t have a problem with that. He has the ability to call us, and we know our neighbors, so he could get help quickly if he really needed it. I was staying home alone at his age, and I lived out in the middle of nowhere.

What is the mom worried is going to happen?
Posted by 3nOut
Central Texas, TX
Member since Jan 2013
29135 posts
Posted on 8/12/23 at 8:59 pm to
We just let my son house/dog sit for the first time overnight at 16. We haven’t left them home alone even though they both have cell phones and my oldest drives.

This was in a pretty rural town for him doing that I was staying by myself when I was 16 and my sister was 18. But I also grew up in the country.

We live in a downtown so I’m not that keen on it. 99.99999% of the time nothing bad ever happens but we have our share of crackheads and vagrants walking the streets.

ETA: we’ve let them stay home by themselves for extended hours while we’re out of town but not overnight.
This post was edited on 8/12/23 at 9:01 pm
Posted by Tantal
Member since Sep 2012
14300 posts
Posted on 8/12/23 at 9:03 pm to
12. Although I was staying home by myself all day during the summer at 8.
Posted by Carolhdg
St George, LA
Member since Nov 2022
96 posts
Posted on 8/12/23 at 9:06 pm to
12 for all four of my children.
Posted by SPT
Member since Jun 2014
1109 posts
Posted on 8/12/23 at 9:16 pm to
My child is 12 and just stayed home all summer alone. We do have cameras outdoors completely covering the house though
Posted by scrooster
Resident Ethicist
Member since Jul 2012
38022 posts
Posted on 8/12/23 at 9:23 pm to
My girls all at 13 ... my boy, I never really allowed him to stay home by himself because, first of all, all of his sisters were between 12-16 years older than him (so they could run interference) and, secondly, because by the time he was 15 or so and his sisters were away I couldn't trust him not to try to bring home these little country gals his age to tap them.

The local gals corrupted him early ... he went to his first HS prom his freshman year with a senior and that was that. I had to watch his arse. He would have turned my home into a brothel.

He's a good kid though, great kid actually.
Posted by Nephropidae
Brentwood
Member since Nov 2018
2414 posts
Posted on 8/12/23 at 9:27 pm to
9-11 year old for small errands… maybe an hour at most. a lot of trust in them and the neighborhood.
Posted by Trapped in time
Member since Mar 2023
147 posts
Posted on 8/12/23 at 10:09 pm to
9 year old girl and we will leave her alone for about 1.5 hours or so occasionally. Will work up for more. Have cameras at door and she is very cautious. One of my main jobs is to make sure she can eventually survive without me, so we are working towards independence slowly. I have too many cousins living at home in their 40s who never leave.
Posted by TigerBaitOohHaHa
Member since Jan 2023
542 posts
Posted on 8/12/23 at 10:27 pm to
I was 10 when I started babysitting (real babies sleeping in a crib/bottles/diapers, etc) This was early 80's. I was a 70 year old trapped in a 10 year old body, tho.. a new puzzle would have been a wild evening for me.

Flash forward to to present day: We just left our 15yr old son at home for two days/over night for the first time and it did not go well. No parties at house, but some very serious shite went down at 3am outside of home. It could have happened while we were there, but we will never know. He cannot be trusted, perhaps ever.
Posted by ELVIS U
Member since Feb 2007
9965 posts
Posted on 8/12/23 at 11:25 pm to
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Posted by geauxpurple
New Orleans
Member since Jul 2014
12776 posts
Posted on 8/12/23 at 11:35 pm to
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Posted by slutiger5
Parroquias de Florida
Member since May 2007
10692 posts
Posted on 8/12/23 at 11:37 pm to
Prolly 4 weeks, maybe 5, but I knew they had the foresight at that time.
Posted by LSUSkip
Central, LA
Member since Jul 2012
17789 posts
Posted on 8/12/23 at 11:56 pm to
My daughter is 10, and really mature for her age. I've started leaving her if I have a quick errand and she doesn't want to go. I'm talking 15-20 minutes tops. My neighbors work from home and all of her grandparents are 5 minutes away, so there's backup in the event I get in a wreck and can't get right back or something. I'm thinking next school year I'll feel okay about leaving her and her sister at home if I have to leave for a meeting or something. Currently I'll bring them to their grandparents after school if needed.
Posted by tunechi
Member since Jun 2009
10205 posts
Posted on 8/13/23 at 12:00 am to
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but some very serious shite went down at 3am outside of home. It could have happened while we were there, but we will never know. He cannot be trusted, perhaps ever.


Well??
Posted by Prominentwon
LSU, McNeese St. Fan
Member since Jan 2005
93811 posts
Posted on 8/13/23 at 12:07 am to
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Mom is worried about her daughter being a slut. I remember girls wanting to be diddled by some of the neighborhood kids when they were left at home at 13 or 14. Glad I was able to assist.


For fricks sake man. Jesus
Posted by LSU Grad Alabama Fan
369 Cardboard Box Lane
Member since Nov 2019
10509 posts
Posted on 8/13/23 at 7:34 am to
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For fricks sake man. Jesus



Posted by Solo Cam
Member since Sep 2015
32748 posts
Posted on 8/13/23 at 7:39 am to
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Mom got upset two weekends ago when I started showing the kid how to cook with the stove (supervised). She claimed I’ve now shown her “how she can burn the house down”.
Yeah, you might be dating a c*nt
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