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I know a lot of young women who cook and bake, whether they work outside their home or not. It's a lot less expensive and healthier.
We were both raised by parents who started out poor and taught us to avoid debt and pay as you go. In the 39th year of our marriage, we own our home & vehicles and pay off the credit card every month, so no debt.

However, I understand the difficulties younger people face. We bought our house at the bottom of the market, vehicle prices exploded after we bought our current vehicles, and it was a lot easier to pay for college out of pocket in the seventies. It’s a different world than when I grew up.
A few days ago. My husband likes the way his clothes feel when they dry on a clothesline.
Went to high school and college in the seventies. No gender dysphoria among the students. Richard Raskind "Renee Richards" was the only one I had heard of. He was the one who made it possible for subsequent "male to female" athletes to compete with women, in his case, in tennis.
I, too, have been thinking that might be happening. I hope so.
You're better off asking that question here: LSU Women's basketball
The people who care about WBB gather there.
The Methodist church rarely has open spots on game day now because they sell season passes. You can find out about the Presbyterian church here.

re: To all Baton Rouge "leadership"

Posted by Carolhdg on 9/3/25 at 10:58 am to
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White (Non-Hispanic): 55.4%
Black or African American (Non-Hispanic): 34.8%

Where are you getting your demographics? Every source I've seen says the black & white percentages are the opposite of what you've posted.

re: Sushi recommendations

Posted by Carolhdg on 9/2/25 at 11:02 am to
Volcano rolls are usually good at most of the restaurants where I've tried it. Try a deep fried roll for a change; those are really good.

re: 2025 Hummingbird Season

Posted by Carolhdg on 9/2/25 at 9:54 am to
If you've only got one or two coming to your feeder, I really like these: LINK They're very easy to clean.
If you've got several, you'll need one with a jar.
It depends on the maturity of the child. All four of mine started waking themselves up and getting dressed sometime during elementary school.
Otoh, my sil was still waking up her two children and nagging them to get dressed in college (she worked there, and they rode in with her).

re: Anyone not afraid of death?

Posted by Carolhdg on 8/26/25 at 3:54 pm to
I'm not afraid of death. I'm 68, so a lot closer to it these days. My lack of fear comes from my faith. Being closer to the end has made my faith stronger; I pray more, especially for other people, and am enjoying studying the Bible daily. The Psalms and the New Testament are filled with wisdom that is comforting.

re: Not Another Marriage Thread

Posted by Carolhdg on 8/25/25 at 12:27 am to
I did. There's no one else I'd rather be with on a desert island. 39 years and can't imagine being without him.
The sidewalks in my neighborhood are used daily by many people, including me. They're my main venue for walking. There's too much traffic for me to be comfortable walking on the road. The sidewalks from my subdivision to the store are also well used.
They may be a waste of money in some places but not where I live.
He and his organization were a tremendous blessing to me in the eighties and nineties while we were raising our young family. The things I learned from him that were the most helpful were to give my husband 30-60 minutes to wind down when he got home from work before talking to him about stuff, and saving my long winded conversations for close girlfriends while getting to the point quickly when I did talk to him. There were occasions when longer conversations were needed, but those were the exceptions and not the rule. That advice has worked for 39 years of marriage.
No divorces among our grandparents and parents. We're still going strong after 39 years. .

re: Wtf is a duala?

Posted by Carolhdg on 8/18/25 at 11:18 am to
I did not want my mother in the room when I was giving birth; thankfully she didn't want to be there either. I wish I had had a doula though.

re: Wtf is a duala?

Posted by Carolhdg on 8/18/25 at 8:52 am to
Doulas aren’t always paid; any woman who has given birth and is willing can do it. I was the doula for my brother and his wife both times she gave birth. I gave her emotional support, let him know what was normal and what wasn’t, and let her know what was going on at each stage of labor (I had given birth four times myself). I also stayed out of the way of the labor & delivery nurse and didn't give medical advice.
My sil was awesome; gave birth without medication both times. I also ran the video camera for them. It really isn’t a leftwing thing; I know plenty of conservative women who have been doulas or had doulas.
We lived in Central in 2016, on what had always been high ground. I remember looking at the radar on the morning of the 12th and telling my husband that the system wasn’t moving. I recommended that we go to the store for some essentials that afternoon, which we did. On the way back we had two inches of flood water on our street already.
The next day we were surrounded by water, no way out. Our ditch was overflowing, and across the street I couldn’t see our neighbor’s yard, but our house was in no danger thanks to the road which kept the water away from us.
We didn’t get out until Monday. Thankfully 90% of our friends and family weren’t flooded, but I had two friends and a cousin who lost everything. My husband helped a friend’s mil by redoing the bottom four feet of her home; thankfully it was small. It took several weeks.
Our yard guy had to borrow our boat to get his wife and her cats out of their trailer in the Shenandoah area; his trailer was a total loss.