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re: Online dating biggest fears.

Posted on 7/31/21 at 3:57 pm to
Posted by el Gaucho
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Posted on 7/31/21 at 3:57 pm to
If women don’t want to get murdered they should stop going on dates with dudes with tattoos. Easy enough
Posted by TheeRealCarolina
Member since Aug 2018
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Posted on 7/31/21 at 4:30 pm to
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women don’t want to get murdered they should stop going on dates with dudes with tattoos. Easy enough


Military exception. My best friend is probably the best guy I know and he has 3 navy related tattoos.
Posted by idlewatcher
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Member since Jan 2012
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Posted on 7/31/21 at 5:13 pm to
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For men, one of them has to be going to pick up a girl and getting jumped, and I don’t mean the good kind of jumped


Seems to happen here a lot on the gay apps. Dude thinking he’s getting his pole smoked only to get his arse kicked instead. Yikes.
Posted by goldennugget
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Posted on 7/31/21 at 5:15 pm to
When I lived in Iowa I matched with a girl on Tinder and I met her at a restaurant bar and she was there with her kid. I noped out of there in a hurry.

The girl not disclosing she is a single mom is my biggest fear.
Posted by LSU Coyote
Member since Sep 2007
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Posted on 7/31/21 at 5:15 pm to
Not properly securing a captive.
Posted by goldennugget
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Member since Jul 2013
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Posted on 7/31/21 at 5:16 pm to
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Fat chicks have mastered the art of hiding their fatness with filters and angles



This is why I don't swipe right on them unless I know 100% sure from their photos she isn't fat. If its only cropped face pics, not happening.

With that being said, if I match I do a little bit more research to make sure she isn't using 5 year old pictures and has blown up since. Find her instagram and social media accounts before agreeing to go out, I've saved myself from this several times because she uses pictures from college when she was thin and has gained 50 pounds and a 2nd chin since then.
Posted by goldennugget
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Posted on 7/31/21 at 5:17 pm to
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A woman with a dong would be my biggest fear if I was an online dater.



You guys must suck at being able to identify transgenders. It's not hard.
Posted by goldennugget
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Posted on 7/31/21 at 5:18 pm to
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Not really. If I see a woman without a full body pic on her profile especially when she has 5 or more pics, I assume she is fat, swipe left and move on. Right now any women with 5 or better body is going to have some sort of bikini/beach photo on her profile.



If you got it, flaunt it is a virtue women live by. If they have a good body, they won't hide it on their social media/online dating profiles. They will show it off.
Posted by Rocco Lampone
Raleigh, NC
Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 7/31/21 at 5:19 pm to
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A woman with a dong would be my biggest fear if I was an online dater.


We got a bigot over here!!!
Posted by adamau
Member since Oct 2020
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Posted on 7/31/21 at 5:21 pm to
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Not properly securing a captive.


Posted by supadave3
Houston, TX
Member since Dec 2005
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Posted on 7/31/21 at 5:24 pm to
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If you got it, flaunt it is a virtue women live by. If they have a good body, they won't hide it on their social media/online dating profiles. They will show it off.


100%.
Posted by TheeRealCarolina
Member since Aug 2018
17925 posts
Posted on 7/31/21 at 5:31 pm to
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The girl not disclosing she is a single mom


This. It tells me one of 3 things:

1. You’re not looking for anything serious so that information isn’t relevant. This one isn’t necessarily a bad thing if I’m just looking to smash a time or two.

2. She’s uncomfortable/ashamed that she has a child or children and she doesn’t or never had a husband. I mean if you have 2 kids by 2 separate men and you weren’t married to either of true fathers before conception, then you don’t make good decisions at all.

3. She’s a habitual liar and no one needs that in their life.
Posted by goldennugget
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Member since Jul 2013
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Posted on 7/31/21 at 5:39 pm to
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1. You’re not looking for anything serious so that information isn’t relevant. This one isn’t necessarily a bad thing if I’m just looking to smash a time or two.



I feel like I have outgrown the casual hookups that these apps provide. There was once a time and place for that but it gets boring after a while and its natural to want something with a bit more substance.

I haven't used these apps since before COVID though. San Diego was frustrating since over half the profiles served to you were spanish speaking women that lived in Tijuana and if you aren't into latina women(I am not) then it definitely was not your scene because most of the USA side profiles shown to you were hispanic as well. It was rare to see white women on there. Never even bothered in Las Vegas because I knew I wasn't going to be living there long term and didn't want to meet someone that would tempt me to anchor myself there. Now that I moved to Fort Worth and am almost settled in I will probably be firing up these apps again pretty soon.
Posted by el Gaucho
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53122 posts
Posted on 7/31/21 at 5:40 pm to
Idk man single moms are crazy there’s a reason the dude left them
Posted by el Gaucho
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Posted on 7/31/21 at 5:42 pm to
Nugget you remind me a lot of myself

You don’t happen to play guitar and invest in penny stocks do you?
Posted by goldennugget
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Member since Jul 2013
24514 posts
Posted on 7/31/21 at 5:47 pm to
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Idk man single moms are crazy there’s a reason the dude left them



I could never raise another man's kid... people hate when I say that but its true.

People respond with things like "What if she was with a jerk who was mean to her?!?!? It's not her fault!" Yes it absolutely is. She chose to have a kid with a guy who was a jerk or a deadbeat, which shows she makes poor long term decisions.

If you date a single mom you will always, at best, be #3 in her life after her kid and the father of her kid.

Another one... "What if her husband died and she is a widow? That's not her fault!". Concept is still the same - you'll never be able to measure up. You will always be nothing more than a replacement. There are billions of women on this planet surely you can find one who hasn't been married and hasn't had kids yet.

My sister was trying to set me up with a girl we went to high school with and have known since elementary school who had 2 kids with 2 different dads by the time she was 17 years old. My sister was saying "She is ON FIRE for Jesus these days and has completely turned her life around!" and I don't care. Maybe a guy who is on fire for Jesus that is OK with taking on a woman with that kind of baggage can step up but it ain't going to be me.
Posted by goldennugget
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Member since Jul 2013
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Posted on 7/31/21 at 5:47 pm to
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You don’t happen to play guitar and invest in penny stocks do you?



No to both
Posted by el Gaucho
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Posted on 7/31/21 at 5:55 pm to
Yeah man I’d take a couch off the side off the road but I wouldn’t stoop low enough to date a single mom
Posted by Mr. Elvert
Dallas
Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 7/31/21 at 6:11 pm to
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My sister was saying "She is ON FIRE for Jesus these days and has completely turned her life around!" and I don't care.


RUN
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 7/31/21 at 6:13 pm to
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Online dating

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