Started By
Message

re: One "normal" thing you'll never allow your kids to do. Defend your position.

Posted on 8/13/25 at 11:27 am to
Posted by justaniceguy
Member since Sep 2020
6499 posts
Posted on 8/13/25 at 11:27 am to
I don’t give a shite about the studies personally. Males are doing worse than females under the age of 30 in every way possible.
Posted by DaleGribblesMower
Member since Dec 2013
6664 posts
Posted on 8/13/25 at 11:27 am to
Witchcraft? You people are…something. Do your kids get to trick or treat on Halloween?
Posted by justaniceguy
Member since Sep 2020
6499 posts
Posted on 8/13/25 at 11:27 am to
Phones are now banned at every single school in Texas
Very based.
Posted by When in Rome
Telegraph Road
Member since Jan 2011
36156 posts
Posted on 8/13/25 at 11:28 am to
Per Grok:

quote:

As of June 2025, 26 states and Washington, D.C., have laws or policies banning or restricting cellphone use in K-12 schools, with 22 of these enacted in 2025. The states with active laws or executive orders banning or restricting cellphone use include:Alabama
Alaska
Arizona
Arkansas
California
Florida
Georgia
Indiana
Iowa
Kentucky
Louisiana
Minnesota
Nebraska
Nevada
New York
North Dakota
Ohio
Oklahoma
Rhode Island
South Carolina
Tennessee
Texas
Utah
Vermont
Virginia
West Virginia

Additionally, states like Illinois, Maine, Massachusetts, Michigan, Missouri, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, and Wisconsin have legislation pending as of May 2025. Mississippi and Wyoming are the only states without any statewide cellphone policies in schools. Policies vary, with some states enforcing "bell-to-bell" bans (no phones throughout the school day), while others limit use during instructional time or require districts to set their own rules. Exceptions often include emergencies, medical needs, or educational purposes.


Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
85354 posts
Posted on 8/13/25 at 11:30 am to
All the schools around here have bell to bell bans on all smart devices, including watches and Kindles.

Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
58082 posts
Posted on 8/13/25 at 11:32 am to
quote:

i would say the phones help more than they hurt.
hmmm - im not sure if smartphones help more with socialization more than they hurt

Good things may have come from it, but many bad things too
quote:

saying kids need to socialize less and not have internet access until college is dumb as frick and puts the kid way way behind
kids need to stay away from bad socialization- just like when mom told us to stay away from the troublemakers before smartphones existed but I think a kid would be ok without internet before college - they have time to catch up once they leave high school and enter college - it’s a learning curve for sure but I haven’t seen a kid that wasn’t exposed not be able to catch on quickly
quote:

not to mention not even possible since homework is almost exclusively on the internet through the portals now.
many, many homeschoolers school without internet - the homeschool program we use even has an option if you want to be technology free
quote:

yea because anti social people send their kids their.
lol - there are plenty of anti social people everywhere
quote:

so many of yall are setting your kids up for failure being rigid AF.
hmmm, don’t necessarily agree with this either -kids have way too many choices nowadays and parents need to be parents
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
36237 posts
Posted on 8/13/25 at 11:33 am to
quote:

All the schools around here have bell to bell bans on all smart devices, including watches and Kindles.

They are completely banned from campus at my kid's school.
Posted by justaniceguy
Member since Sep 2020
6499 posts
Posted on 8/13/25 at 11:34 am to
Smartphones have obviously killed socialization, to say otherwise is completely absurd. I’m not sure how anybody could possibly believe otherwise.
Posted by Klark Kent
Houston via BR
Member since Jan 2008
72798 posts
Posted on 8/13/25 at 11:37 am to
quote:

lsu777


Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
85354 posts
Posted on 8/13/25 at 11:38 am to
Cool.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
58082 posts
Posted on 8/13/25 at 11:39 am to
quote:

Smartphones have obviously killed socialization,
it’s killed it the way we knew it -it’s a different type of socialization now

Different doesn’t necessarily mean better or worse.

But so many kids cannot converse - there’s no way smartphones are better for society. Sure it makes things convenient, but at what cost?
Posted by Deep Purple Haze
LA
Member since Jun 2007
67624 posts
Posted on 8/13/25 at 11:40 am to
quote:

but at what cost?


$350
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
58082 posts
Posted on 8/13/25 at 11:41 am to
quote:

$350
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
36518 posts
Posted on 8/13/25 at 11:46 am to
quote:

One thing that hasn't come up that I would be curious to learn your opinion on generally for those of us planning for when our tiny kids get older....different restrictions for girls vs. boys? Seems like social media does more harm than good for girls in particular. Worst combo for this is girl with addictive personality. How do we safeguard phones without being too restrictive when it comes to this kind of case? I guess I am not familiar enough with the controls that are out there for parents. I always assumed kids would find a way around parental controls. Very curious about this.


i dont have girls, i have 3 boys but I will say the biggest thing i have seen with the girls is they need to have time away from social settings too and that very much includes the phone.

you have to watch depression in both boys and girls, but i have seen girls hole up and obsess over things on the phones and also seen where they are getting bullied and cant seem to get away from it due to the phone

I do feel like sports helps and especially lifting weights for both because it helps with confidence


but, and speaking as an outside observer, girls seem to be much more susceptible to societal pressure especially on social media


in the end the key is communication and spending time with them. talking everyday is key.

like my oldest can be a huge pain in the arse to get stuff out of, so sometimes I go play NCAA with him, just me and him and we talk or we talk when he is lifting weights in the garage. that seems to work with him

the other boys are open books

and my oldest will talk your head off on things outside of his personal life or school stuff, he just gets shy when it comes to that kind of stuff.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
36237 posts
Posted on 8/13/25 at 11:49 am to
quote:


Cool.

That was more in response to 777, who claims that you have to allow your kids to have phones at school because their coach is going to want to groupme them to change their practice schedule.

I wouldn't want a coach sending "texts" to my kid regardless, but I guess it's different and you care about that stuff less if you have boys.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
58082 posts
Posted on 8/13/25 at 11:50 am to
quote:

7th grader have phones and even have Instagram (i know crazy)
why does your 7th grader have Instagram?

Or even the 9th grader?

They post about themselves?
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
36518 posts
Posted on 8/13/25 at 11:52 am to
quote:

I am pretty anti social media in general (meaning Facebook and Instagram). I deleted mine 5 years ago and never looked back. But if the goal were moderation, how could it be done? The goal is raising kids with good values and habits without ostracizing them from their peers or creating a situation where they go crazy overboard on all this stuff when they get to college and suddenly find themselves free with no restrictions. I get this guy's point that it shouldn't be all or nothing but have real concerns about addiction when these devices and programs are designed TO addict kids.


so kids dont want facebook they want insta, tictok and snap

frick snap...dont let them have that shite, quick way to get into all kinds of shite and being bullied

tictok...man i have seen some shite. if you kid does get it, i would say no posting and frankly i wouldnt do it. rather my kid watch youtube shorts to be honest.

instagram depends on the kid and all post need to be monitored. it can be done but can get them in trouble too....monitor messages including deleted messages


honestly my kids watch a lot of youtube fishing videos and the youngest likes to watch baseball card unboxing and they do that a lot on the main living room tv.
Posted by justaniceguy
Member since Sep 2020
6499 posts
Posted on 8/13/25 at 11:52 am to
I was in about 9th grade when Instagram came out. Deleted it when I graduated high school. Best thing i ever did.
Apparently it is just a place to post memes now.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
58082 posts
Posted on 8/13/25 at 11:53 am to
quote:

I guess it's different and you care about that stuff less if you have boys.
and you shouldn’t care any less about that stuff if it’s boys - lots of weirdoes out there

Including coaches but sports is king so who cares if Coach Toby is asking Jaxxtynnn about his sore muscles at 2AM - it’s on GroupMe! Nothing wrong with that!
Posted by St Augustine
The Pauper of the Surf
Member since Mar 2006
70567 posts
Posted on 8/13/25 at 11:53 am to
Text, email for variable schedules. For the sports with daily practice (wrestling/jujitsu) they just tell them and expect them to remember if something changes. Wild I know.
Jump to page
Page First 13 14 15 16 17 ... 19
Jump to page
first pageprev pagePage 15 of 19Next pagelast page

Back to top
logoFollow TigerDroppings for LSU Football News
Follow us on X, Facebook and Instagram to get the latest updates on LSU Football and Recruiting.

FacebookXInstagram