re: Never date single moms.

Saw some pics on FB of a guy I know from my fun job’s local scene and he was hanging with a new girl. They were working together. Then a few weeks later wedding pics showed up and the last few pics were him, her, and a toddler. Very young.

I was thinking, no man, no. I guess some folks don’t mind raising up some dude’s little bastard.

yep

It's a mixed bag in this

This is stupid. It's all about the woman and what kind of person she is. Don't pick up women at bars and curb stores and that's a good start.

I married a woman with two kids. Just yesterday we celebrated our 11th anniversary and we've literally NEVER had an argument. Both of her kids are grown now. One has given us two beautiful grand daughers and the other just finished his Masters in Mechanical Engineering. Both are wonderful children and always have been.

How about don't try to make a house wife out of a dirt road whore and you'll be ahead of the game.

Ladies - never date a single father! His kids will always come first. Them and his ex-wife/baby mamma who he still puts on a pedestal because she is The Mother of His Children. He will be broke because of the child support payments. He probably also gives her extra money outside that when she asks and probably goes over to her house to do chores and maintenance “for the kids.” He will likely spend Christmas and the kids’ birthdays with her “for the kids”, too. You will not be invited because it makes her uncomfortable.

His phone will always be ringing with her calls and texts for “coparenting.” She still wants to control him and will resent your relationship. She will poison the kids against you and that will suck, because your new man will need you to babysit them while he is at work or doing other things. They will tell him how mean you were when you watched them and he will get mad at you. You will also be expected to babysit whenever the babymamma calls and offers to allow him to see them “extra” because she needs a break. You will probably be notified last minute and your dates will be cancelled because The Kids Come First. Remember, Ladies. It’s not about YOU. It’s about the kids!

Honestly, this is pretty true also.

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well that’s no fun

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no shite, where's the fun in that??

morning whitey

Single moms are by a case by case basis.

Tattoos are an auto DQ

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but how else will she remember all of their birthdays?

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I never thought of that

I don't want to date a woman who puts me over her children.

I do agree with the ATM thing though. I just ended something before it started because she was expecting me to pay for all of her kids stuff or just to give them money to have.