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re: Never date older women
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:24 am to Warmouth
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:24 am to Warmouth
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An older woman looks have faded.
Well first of all, sir frick off. Some of us millennials are aging just fine and aren't hurting tooooo bad in the looks department. Geez.
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An older woman is not going to give you kids.
Not everyone wants kids. I don't know why some people can't get over this fact.
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An older woman is emotionally damaged.
My emotional damage and abandonment issues started weeeeellll before the age of 30!
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She will believe she has been wronged by men in the past and you will be compared to them.
Or you could find a grown-up who has healed and grown from past relationships. My ex and I make it a point to not speak badly of each other or the relationship to others. We both chose to accept it, and then grow individually and learn from the mistakes we each made.
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Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:26 am to CrystalPreserves
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She loves the financial security.
Serious question. Better for the ladies to answer because I have no idea:
What is a 50 year old super fit “ trophy wife “ REALLY thinking about her 73 year old physically- declining husband ?
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:26 am to Warmouth
He’s not wrong. The older ones are still crying about their mommy and daddy issues.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:27 am to LSUGrrrl
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And this board bitches about women being overly reactive and emotional. I’ve got a string of bookmarks waiting to be bumped after the first football game melt
Checkmate lol.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:28 am to Lsupimp
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REALLY thinking about her 73 year old physically- declining husband ?
Money and any other answer is complete bullshite.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:29 am to danilo
He’s not wrong. The older ones are still crying about their mommy and daddy issues.
Everything these days revolves around peoples emotions.
Its sad and we know whos pushing it.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:30 am to Lsupimp
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What is a 50 year old super fit “ trophy wife “ REALLY thinking about her 73 year old physically- declining husband ?
In most of these situations, she’s just running out the clock.
Sad, but both of them signed up for a transactional relationship, and you get what you sign up for.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:32 am to HoustonChick86
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An older woman is emotionally damaged.
My emotional damage and abandonment issues started weeeeellll before the age of 30!
Amen. Abandonment issues present strongly in the 20s when women still are emotionally immature.
OT men: Young women these days are compete sluts with daddy issues.
Also OT men: Older women are emotionally damaged and you should only date young women.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:32 am to LSUGrrrl
There are a bunch of cat lady threads over there. It got moved before anything really happened.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:33 am to Lsupimp
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What is a 50 year old super fit “ trophy wife “ REALLY thinking about her 73 year old physically- declining husband ?
I know ONE that’s been married for 25 years a genuinely loves him deeply. I’ve met many more than one who live an almost completely separate life outside of sharing a bed. It’s a miserable existence.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:37 am to Lsupimp
23 years is quite a spread and I am sure that it's pretty rare.
I have an older husband (not 23 years, but more than 10). I know several other couples with this same situation or close. All of us work to stay in great shape. I am keeping my husband young and he works at it. As I said previously, choose carefully. Some people don't value physical fitness as much as others.
Some of these other comments are ludicrous.
I have an older husband (not 23 years, but more than 10). I know several other couples with this same situation or close. All of us work to stay in great shape. I am keeping my husband young and he works at it. As I said previously, choose carefully. Some people don't value physical fitness as much as others.
Some of these other comments are ludicrous.
This post was edited on 8/1/24 at 9:44 am
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:44 am to Dadren
I mean, I'm fit and not unfortunate-looking.
I could be in a relationship with a woman in her forties.
But one day (possibly) I'll be 82 and she'll be 62.
That'd be pretty terrible for her and I probably wouldn't know her name.
I could be in a relationship with a woman in her forties.
But one day (possibly) I'll be 82 and she'll be 62.
That'd be pretty terrible for her and I probably wouldn't know her name.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:47 am to Lsupimp
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What is a 50 year old super fit “ trophy wife “ REALLY thinking about her 73 year old physically- declining husband ?
No, I just can't. Yuck.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:48 am to HoustonChick86
Exactly.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:50 am to Dadren
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In most of these situations, she’s just running out the clock.
Sad, but both of them signed up for a transactional relationship, and you get what you sign up for.
Marcus Aurelius - Do Not Chase Women (youtube) excerpts from The Meditations and other works.
Every man should listen to this before marriage and read The Meditations before they intend on getting married.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:52 am to kciDAtaE
You've got 16,000+ posts and you got hooked by gaucho? Be better.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:53 am to LSUGrrrl
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Amen. Abandonment issues present strongly in the 20s when women still are emotionally immature.
I feel like its the exact opposite of what he is saying if you find the correct person.
Like I had all those issues, but didn't realize it until I was in my later 30s. So cause plenty of avoidable problems. Life is a lot better now that I've put in the work to fix those issues. But I did have to admit I have a very clingy attachment style because of my past and learn to sit in my own discomfort of being alone sometimes. It isn't always fun, I can promise you that.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:53 am to jizzle6609
Try the Bible.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:58 am to N2cars
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Try the Bible.
Thats first.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:58 am to HoustonChick86
I had the same experience. I can’t believe that people dated me in my 20s. I didn’t really see my issues until we had a kid and, yes, I had to confront my issues internally. It’s part of becoming an adult and it’s uncomfortable as hell. It’s also why I view most 20 something year olds as “kids” because most haven’t yet faced any real life challenges that provide the insight and and experience needed to relate with adult interactions.
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