re: Need some good advice - 2020 is off to a rough start.

First off, I’m sorry you are going through this. Second, I want to share with you the words from the memorial mass for the Lafayette plane crash victims.

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We’re only five days out for things that will affect many of us for a lifetime. We hurt, we should hurt, we can hurt. It’s okay to hurt. It’s holy to hurt. And we allow ourselves to begin the grieving process and to move through over the course of months for some, years for others, a lifetime for others, we allow that to unfold and allow God’s Grace to take that human part of us that goes through the grieving process and touch it with the grace of His hope, a hope that everything will be put back together again

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Thirdly, I met your SO and you definitely need to get your shite together. She is beautiful, and it seems to me you out kicked your coverage with her. Figure yourself out and get help then get on your knees and pray she takes you back.

I miss him too, what do you think he’d tell you besides bragging about the Tigers? Dude, go have fun, live life to its fullest, and LIVE! It’s ok to hurt. It’s ok to be sad. But it’s also ok to have fun and make new memories with that beautiful ginger of yours!