re: Need some advice from anyone who's been thru a divorce

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Good morning everyone. Thanks for all the advice the past few pages, I appreciate it.

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Schedule B that we both agreed to, she owes me child support. However the amount was insignificant so I waived it. We split almost all expenses.

Anytime you can agree outside of a court fight everyone comes out better.

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Well, that's a different story.

see the links I posted. That device magnetically attached to the frame on her vehicle and the box will waterproof it. Battery will last about a week before it will need to be recharged. Service will run around $45 a month. You won't be using it for long tbh. My ex actually had someone at a shop find the one on her vehicle but the damage had already been done. She even tried to have me arrested for having it on her vehicle. Sheriffs office laughed her arse out of the building.

If you keep reading there are other factors that can lean in his favor if she's already dating someone new.

That is crazy man. Much respect to you for getting thru something like that. I could not imagine having to see those types of pics of your wife. Just wow.

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I could not imagine having to see those types of pics of your wife

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You could forward all pics to me. I'll let you know what on them.

That really sucks man. Though obviously it would be best for all involved if the two of you could somehow work it out, if she's not willing to fight for it there's not much you can do.

Just really try to civil in front of the kid, and never bad mouth his mama. My parents got divorced when I was 11, and the two years between then and when my mother died from cancer were absolutely the worst years of my life.

I've had to let that sink in over the years. Even though I would give anything to have my mother back, there's no doubt my life got much simpler and more stable after she passed away.

The only other advice I have to give is to be sure to shoulder your portion of the responsibility for the divorce. That doesn't mean it's all or even mostly your fault or anything, but either you chose the wrong woman or drove a good woman away. If you can really face that part, you'll be better able to handle everything else. At least, that's what I've come to believe after talking to my dad and other divorced friends over the years.

Good luck buddy.

Quit discussing your legal issues with non lawyers. Especially in writing.