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Posted on 1/3/19 at 12:49 pm to Wtodd
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2 things: 1st your friend is a hypocrite and 2nd, there's nothing for him to forgive about her....she didn't do shite to him.
Why is he a hypocrite for not wanting to date a former drug addict stripper? You even said he has nothing to forgive her for, so he's not being hypocritical based on Christians forgiving
Posted on 1/3/19 at 12:49 pm to MissyTiger
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I stripped for abou two months while in college because I was beyond broke and desperate to get my head above water.
Spinoff of the year possibility here
Posted on 1/3/19 at 12:49 pm to GreyWhiskers
Why does he have to forgive her? She did it before she knew him. And IF it comes down to forgiveness? Sure. Forgive her. But why should he get grief from you for not wanting to be married to a former stripper/drug addict?
Posted on 1/3/19 at 12:50 pm to GreyWhiskers
Can he forgive her for her shortcomings in the past and still not pursue a relationship with her?
Posted on 1/3/19 at 12:53 pm to jchamil
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Why is he a hypocrite for not wanting to date a former drug addict stripper?
He's judging her bc of the things she did earlier in her life......and this is the only reason he's not dating her
Posted on 1/3/19 at 12:54 pm to Wtodd
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there's nothing for him to forgive about her....she didn't do shite to him.
Agree.
Also agree that he may want to move on because he feels like he would otherwise be disrespecting late wife.
This was not a one-time mistake/lapse kind of thing that qualifies for "forgiveness." He either doesn't care about her past or he does. That's his option and OP-mcjudgyface should quit throwing stones while living in a glass house.
Posted on 1/3/19 at 12:55 pm to GreyWhiskers
your friend sounds like a pious a-hole
This post was edited on 1/3/19 at 1:50 pm
Posted on 1/3/19 at 12:55 pm to Wtodd
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He's judging her bc of the things she did earlier in her life
think "judging" is being misused, at least as far as him judging her, probably more like, in his judgement, probably not wise to get serious with someone with that much baggage and potential downside
This post was edited on 1/3/19 at 12:56 pm
Posted on 1/3/19 at 12:56 pm to Wtodd
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He's judging her bc of the things she did earlier in her life......and this is the only reason he's not dating her
How do you know he's judging her? Maybe he doesn't think less of her as a person, but he just has a stance about not dating former sex workers
Posted on 1/3/19 at 12:57 pm to GreyWhiskers
You found a religious person who is also a massive hypocrite? Shocked, I tell ya.
Posted on 1/3/19 at 12:59 pm to Wtodd
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He's judging her bc of the things she did earlier in her life
well, that's all we really have to judge people by.
Posted on 1/3/19 at 1:00 pm to GreyWhiskers
I don't understand. You don't mention about him being some preachy person about forgiveness...Also, what is he supposed to forgive her for? She didn't do anything to him. It's a personal choice of his to continue to pursue a relationship with somebody who has some serious baggage. This has nothing to do with faith and everything to do with facts and statistics. Would you want to get involved with someone with a troubled past where there may be a good chance that this person's problems from the past may resurface? I sure wouldn't.
Posted on 1/3/19 at 1:03 pm to GreyWhiskers
quote:Because God won't have to put up with her potential relapse and the character traits that lead her to such poor decisions. You can forgive but still not want to stay involved. You're friend's choice is not unwise.
if God forgave her, why couldn’t he?
Posted on 1/3/19 at 1:04 pm to GreyWhiskers
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She’s a recovering drug addict (10 years sober) and in her younger days (she’s 56), she was a stripper for a short time.
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I told him straight up, if God forgave her, why couldn’t he?
He doesn't have to forgive her. But it is his god given right to uphold his standards and not have an ex-stripper as a significant other who will be bumpin and grindin all over the geezers at the old folks home
Posted on 1/3/19 at 1:04 pm to SUB
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Would you want to get involved with someone with a troubled past where there may be a good chance that this person's problems from the past may resurface? I sure wouldn't.
You're such a judgmental hypocrite
Posted on 1/3/19 at 1:04 pm to GreyWhiskers
Pics of whore convert?
Posted on 1/3/19 at 1:05 pm to Jim Rockford
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She doesn't have anything for him to forgive. She never did anything to him, if I read the OP correctly. He just can't get over something she may have done before they ever met.
Now, if he decides they're not compatible, no harm no foul. But it sounds like he's being all judgey, which is pretty much contraindicated in his chosen belief system.
I agree with all of this...was just responding to his idea that because God forgave, his friend should forgive.
Posted on 1/3/19 at 1:06 pm to GreyWhiskers
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Don’t preach forgiveness if you’re not willing to forgive.
He can forgive her for her past. Doesn't mean he has to get serious with her. Your stance is fricking stupid.
Posted on 1/3/19 at 1:06 pm to GreyWhiskers
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I told him straight up, if God forgave her, why couldn’t he?
how the frick does god forgive someone? How do you know what god is thinking with regards to her?
Hell, could you not say god is punishing her through your friend b.c of her past.
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