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re: My buddy’s nephew dropped out of the army...is he a coward?

Posted on 8/26/18 at 6:08 am to
Posted by DannyB
Bagram, Afghanistan
Member since Aug 2010
6141 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 6:08 am to
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I thought once you signed on the dotted line you belong to them for X years.


You do not belong to them until you take the oath. Signing doesn't mean shite.
Posted by Rock the Casbah
Member since Dec 2014
940 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 6:16 am to
I’ve got a son joining the Army and I certainly don’t want him getting killed due to a guy that’s not committed to the effort - for whatever reason.

It’s cool - no harm no foul.
Posted by dbuchanon
Member since Nov 2014
20603 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 6:29 am to
quote:

My buddy’s nephew dropped out of the army

Define "dropped out"

quote:

.is he a coward?

Probably
Posted by mdomingue
Lafayette, LA
Member since Nov 2010
41743 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 7:26 am to
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Any true patriot would die for their country imho


So you disagree with George S. Patton



And yes, I realize it's not quite the same thing, just looking for an excuse to post the image.
Posted by GeeOH
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2013
13376 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 7:30 am to
He is a pussy

quote:

he was afraid to go to war


That part is what the kid made up so he could remain a quitter
Posted by ctiger69
Member since May 2005
31030 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 7:53 am to
Private Santiago is dead, and that is a tragedy. But he is dead because he had no code. He is dead because he had no honor. And God was watching.
Posted by Man4others
Member since Aug 2017
2439 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 7:55 am to
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agree with this, personally. I think people who avoid war are pussies. Especially like in the 60’s and your name was called. Any true patriot would die for their country imho


My dad was drafted and got a deferment because he was one of 5 out of 200 in his draft class that had a college degree. He didn’t want to be drafted again and not get a deferment so he joined the FBI instead. I would consider joining the FBI to avoid going to fight in Nam smart
Posted by CGSC Lobotomy
Member since Sep 2011
81611 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 8:12 am to
If the individual in question is a DEP (Delayed Entry Program) loss, and it's at least a month before that individual is supposed to ship to basic training, it's not that frustrating for those who work in recruiting and retention.

The ones that REALLY pissed me off when I was a recruiting commander were the ones that enlisted with a ship date of over a year out, who were just fine every time that I or one of my recruiters/station commanders called them, then THE DAY BEFORE THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO SHIP decide they've changed their mind.
Posted by Ricardo
Member since Sep 2016
6157 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 8:14 am to
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Posted by CGSC Lobotomy
Member since Sep 2011
81611 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 8:18 am to
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If he quit before finishing basic, then he's saving everyone a lot of time, money, and frustration not having to deal with an unmotivated person.


He's not saving any money in that case. The funds are already locked in and allocated for a training slot a month in advance. If someone washes out, the money is still spent. If someone decides at the last minute not to ship, the training slot is simply not filled and the money is still spent.

It costs on average about $250,000 to put one recruit through basic training from start to finish including that individual's pay.
Posted by go ta hell ole miss
Member since Jan 2007
14436 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 8:20 am to
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Slightly taken aback, I wondered if this was a respectable move on his part or if avoiding military service is cowardly and unpatriotic. What says the OT? Is being a draft dodger the biggest coward move you can make or is It kind of badass?


Did you go to war? If so, it’s a fair question. If not, you never know until you walk a mile in someone else’s shoes.
Posted by GetmorewithLes
UK Basketball Fan
Member since Jan 2011
22011 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 8:21 am to
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nephew dropped out of the army because he was afraid to go to war. Slightly taken aback, I wondered if this was a respectable move on his part or if avoiding military service is cowardly and unpatriotic.


No different than most people who never enlist. Just good that he realized it before he got deployed.
Posted by CGSC Lobotomy
Member since Sep 2011
81611 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 8:25 am to
Also, on the subject of Army Recruiting: USAREC (U.S. Army Recruiting Command) already factors in an assumption that 10% of all recruits who enlist at MEPS (Military Entry Processing Station) never ship to basic.

The 2-star command EXPECTS 10% to quit before they even leave for basic training. Think about that.

My command made great strides by reducing the loss rate of over 12% when I arrived in command to just above 7% when I left.
This post was edited on 8/26/18 at 8:26 am
Posted by DustyDinkleman
Here
Member since Feb 2012
19053 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 8:27 am to
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My buddy and I were sitting around watching the Cowboys preseason game last weekend



This part of your story need not be shared. Adds noting to the story.
Posted by Choctaw
Pumpin' Sunshine
Member since Jul 2007
77774 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 8:29 am to
One does not just "drop out" of the military. It's not a frat rush
Posted by CGSC Lobotomy
Member since Sep 2011
81611 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 8:31 am to
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You do not belong to them until you take the oath. Signing doesn't mean shite.


You STILL don't belong to them until you actually get on the plane to leave for Basic Training/OSUT. DEPs quit all the time for a variety of reasons.

Some truly want to serve, but enlist under an open profile. Then that quack Dr. Wong at USAREC decides the day before they are supposed to ship that they are medically unfit to serve and someone like me has to tell them we can no longer let them enlist.
Posted by Ricardo
Member since Sep 2016
6157 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 8:32 am to
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Posted by CGSC Lobotomy
Member since Sep 2011
81611 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 8:33 am to
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One does not just "drop out" of the military. It's not a frat rush


You do if you are going active duty and never ship to basic. However, if you join the guard or reserves, you can actually face some serious consequences if you fail to ship to basic and the unit refuses to release you. Depending on how petty the unit is, especially a guard unit, you can be fined and even serve jail time depending on the state.
Posted by CGSC Lobotomy
Member since Sep 2011
81611 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 8:34 am to
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It still is saving the government money having him quit in basic than a few months into his enlistment


You can't save money that is already spent. That's my point. The rest of your post stands as written. Also, Basic Training/OSUT is, on average, 22-25 weeks. That's "a few months into the enlistment".
This post was edited on 8/26/18 at 8:35 am
Posted by Choctaw
Pumpin' Sunshine
Member since Jul 2007
77774 posts
Posted on 8/26/18 at 8:34 am to
quote:

You do if you are going active duty and never ship to basic.


Than you were never in the military
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