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re: Marrying your first real girlfriend/ girl you had sex with

Posted on 4/22/16 at 8:00 am to
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134141 posts
Posted on 4/22/16 at 8:00 am to
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guys I know that married the first girl that would let them hit, usually end up being pu$$y-whipped monkey boys the rest of their lives.


Sounds like pussy-whipped monkey boys ( :racist: ? ) just happen to be the company you attract/keep
Posted by bigpetedatiga
Alexandria, LA
Member since Aug 2009
8775 posts
Posted on 4/22/16 at 8:05 am to
If a person has something good, why must they attempt to seek out something better?

If a man finds a good woman the first time around that makes him happy, shares his values, and is someone he wants to be with, then why should he leave that so that he can maybe experience some "wild" sex? So that he can have some crazy ex story to tell to strangers on a message board?

I mean i've never snorted crack, does that mean I am missing out on some great I was high on crack stories? I guess so, but I am okay with that.

I watch guys throw away their family, finances, and careers over sex all the time. I may get downvoted for this, but there is not a piece of arse that has been invented yet that would make me want to give up a great thing.

People always say that married guys are always trying to convince people how happy they are, but usually I find it's the other way around.

Posted by Bama and Beer
Baldwin Co, AL
Member since Oct 2010
85545 posts
Posted on 4/22/16 at 8:08 am to
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think younger people getting married these days look at like a hobby or getting a puppy.

"yeah i'll do this, until something cooler or better comes along"
sounds about right
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134141 posts
Posted on 4/22/16 at 8:27 am to
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If a person has something good, why must they attempt to seek out something better?

If a man finds a good woman the first time around that makes him happy, shares his values, and is someone he wants to be with, then why should he leave that so that he can maybe experience some "wild" sex?


I don't get this line of thinking, either. I mean, I was relatively sheltered growing up, and went to college with every intention of playing the field, but I realized how lucky I'd gotten right off the bat, especially when I saw so many of my peers having trouble with crazy exes and/or infidelity issues of one sort or another. Didn't see the point in throwing a good thing I had going away just so I could say I ran through X amount of women. If it worked for some guys, that's awesome for them. I know what worked best for the missus and I, though.

quote:

I watch guys throw away their family, finances, and careers over sex all the time. I may get downvoted for this, but there is not a piece of arse that has been invented yet that would make me want to give up a great thing.

People always say that married guys are always trying to convince people how happy they are, but usually I find it's the other way around.


Well said
This post was edited on 4/22/16 at 8:28 am
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 4/22/16 at 8:53 am to
i feel bad for any dude that hasnt had action from several different women i mean how will they know on what they are missing?
Posted by REG861
Ocelot, Iowa
Member since Oct 2011
38175 posts
Posted on 4/22/16 at 8:59 am to
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quote:
and I'm sure most of those marriages last a long time


Ah, no they don't.... Most that I'm aware of end poorly.


most couples i went to college with like that got divorced already. Dated in high school, came to school together, never reached out socially or had fun, moved away and realized they had never experienced life.

The only people who make it are the ones from some small town who stay in their bubble their entire lives.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134141 posts
Posted on 4/22/16 at 9:04 am to
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The only people who make it are the ones from some small town who stay in their bubble their entire lives.


Wife is from Houston. I'm from San Antonio but have lived all over (and outside) of the US

Posted by Bama and Beer
Baldwin Co, AL
Member since Oct 2010
85545 posts
Posted on 4/22/16 at 9:05 am to
I better edit that


Don't ever say something like that guys, even if you're kind of serious
This post was edited on 4/22/16 at 9:12 am
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
86227 posts
Posted on 4/22/16 at 9:09 am to
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i feel bad for any dude that hasnt had action from several different women i mean how will they know on what they are missing?


have you had sex with every ethnicity? age?

have you had sex with a man?

how do you know on what you are missing?
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134141 posts
Posted on 4/22/16 at 9:42 am to
Yeah, that's a landmine
Posted by cast away
Francis Street Hooligans
Member since Jun 2010
5507 posts
Posted on 4/22/16 at 10:06 am to
quote:

just happen to be the company you attract/keep

why do you think I quit trying to make friends?
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
Lurking the Tin Foil Hat Board
Member since Jul 2009
50742 posts
Posted on 4/22/16 at 10:11 am to
You can't be a connoisseur without trying more than one dish. You may like the first thing you try, but how do you know what you love without sampling the whole menu?
Posted by rugbyag
McKinney, Texas
Member since Sep 2011
1083 posts
Posted on 4/22/16 at 10:15 am to
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You can't be a connoisseur without trying more than one dish. You may like the first thing you try, but how do you know what you love without sampling the whole menu?


What if you've already had the best thing on the menu and realize you gave up filet mignon for bologna?

Been with my wife since I was 17. Will be 14 years this October. 2 kids, nice house, we travel. Wouldn't trade it for anything.
Posted by cast away
Francis Street Hooligans
Member since Jun 2010
5507 posts
Posted on 4/22/16 at 10:19 am to
a lot of people suffer from the "grass is greener" syndrome, no matter how green the grass is under their feet

also, people make stupid choices when alcohol is involved and the blood starts rushing to the wrong head

:notcastingstones:
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
Lurking the Tin Foil Hat Board
Member since Jul 2009
50742 posts
Posted on 4/22/16 at 10:19 am to
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What if you've already had the best thing on the menu and realize you gave up filet mignon for bologna?



I first dated my wife in Jr High. Went through the whole menu from late high school to mid-twenties. I've been married over twenty years. At no point have I had regrets about the time my wife and I were apart. Wouldn't change a thing.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134141 posts
Posted on 4/22/16 at 10:20 am to
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why do you think I quit trying to make friends?


Tou-mf'n-ché, goddammit
Posted by rugbyag
McKinney, Texas
Member since Sep 2011
1083 posts
Posted on 4/22/16 at 10:24 am to
Lucky to be able to go back to the best option after sampling.
I would bet most don't get that option.
Posted by King Slender
Member since Apr 2016
107 posts
Posted on 4/22/16 at 10:51 am to
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Statistically speaking your daughter who is a child of divorce and a questionable decision making father, is going to end up running through dick like a tractor through a corn field. So enjoy that.


Actually my daughter is now 17, has a 4.0 GPA, and is about to graduate from HS and start at LSU in the fall. She has not given me one single problem in her entire life. If there is a such thing as a perfect child, she's it. She's never had sex and wears a purity ring and lets any guys who ask her out know from the beginning that she's abstaining from sex until she's married. Her current boyfriend had a 35 on the ACT and is majoring in astrophysics or some shite and feels the same way about sex as she does. So in this case, the statistics you speak of were way off. Staying with her mother would have caused more harm than good -- we divorced when she was too young to remember, so she grew up with two loving homes instead of one, and that's all she knows.


My advice: test-drive several different cars before deciding to buy one.
This post was edited on 4/22/16 at 10:53 am
Posted by REG861
Ocelot, Iowa
Member since Oct 2011
38175 posts
Posted on 4/22/16 at 10:53 am to
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Wife is from Houston. I'm from San Antonio but have lived all over (and outside) of the US




I meant the people who date all through out high school, college, etc. Not your 'first' necessarily. And Im just speaking from my experiences.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134141 posts
Posted on 4/22/16 at 10:55 am to
Ah ok my bad
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