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re: Married Couples & Engaging in Relations With Others

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Posted by MightyYat
StB Garden District
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:03 pm to
We had a pretty public outing on here a few years ago of a swinging couple. I wish I could remember their user names.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59323 posts
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:03 pm to
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would you say married couples who agree to have multiple sex partners are more likely to gain from it than not?

That totally depends on the type of people they are.

I don't think my relationship would gain anything, but that doesn't mean that is the case for everyone.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
99037 posts
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:03 pm to
swinging sounds awesome until you get to the part where the other dude bangs your wife
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
118270 posts
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:03 pm to
Is it only white people that do this? You don't hear about black peoples doing this sort of thing.
Posted by CadesCove
Mounting the Woman
Member since Oct 2006
40828 posts
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:03 pm to
I'd like to meet the chicks who fricked a lot of you people up. There are some sad, cynical MFers around here.
Posted by Gradual_Stroke
Bee Cave, TX
Member since Oct 2012
20917 posts
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:04 pm to
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Is it only white people that do this? You don't hear about black peoples doing this sort of thing.






They do gangbangs with all dudes and one chick instead
Posted by junkfunky
Member since Jan 2011
36663 posts
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:05 pm to
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If you are openly engaged in these activities, you should expect a shitty outcome.


You talking about all sex or just the butt stuff. That adverb is throwing me off.
Posted by Hog on the Hill
AR
Member since Jun 2009
13494 posts
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:05 pm to
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Why get married if you are having sex with other people. Marriage is about being with someone you love. I dont want my wife sleeping with anyone else, she is mine. I love her. Marriage is about two people becomming one, growing old together, experiencing life together. My wife is my other half, i wouldnt want to share that with anyone else, what good can come of that.
That's true for you, but that's not true for everyone. Some couples begin dating with the understanding that they want to have sex with other people sometimes. They often have specific rules, like "don't ask don't tell" if they don't want to hear about the other people. Or sometimes they're very open about it, and genuinely feel happy for the other person if they're getting laid. Sometimes they have a strict rule that if you have sex with someone else, you have to involve the other partner (threesomes only, for instance). It just depends on the couple.

The key is that sex does not equal love, and love does not equal sex. Some people are into that idea, some people absolutely are not. You sound like you are not, but some people are.

Personally, it's not for me, but I believe that there are couples who can make it work. And I know for a fact that some people make it work, because I know couples like that who have been together for decades while having sex with other people.
Posted by oleyeller
Vols, Bitch
Member since Oct 2012
32611 posts
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:05 pm to
im sorry some people in here dont have what i do. Laugh and joke all you want but i enjoy nothing more than comming home after work and spending time with my wife. i guess some of you are not so lucy and dont understand.
Posted by Hog on the Hill
AR
Member since Jun 2009
13494 posts
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:06 pm to
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Is it only white people that do this? You don't hear about black peoples doing this sort of thing.
You do in cities. In NYC, people of all backgrounds do this.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
99037 posts
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:07 pm to
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Is it only white people that do this? You don't hear about black peoples doing this sort of thing.


black people don't really get married
Posted by Arkapigdiesel
Faulkner County
Member since Jun 2009
15771 posts
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:07 pm to
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I'd like to meet the chicks who fricked a lot of you people up. There are some sad, cynical MFers around here.

I've been married for 13 years bruh. My old lady is a good one. As a matter of fact, she's cooking me supper for tonight as I'm typing this.

I just wanted to post a pic of flowers and butterflies as a response to your OP, because, this is the OT.
Posted by terd ferguson
Darren Wilson Fan Club President
Member since Aug 2007
114938 posts
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:07 pm to
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swinging sounds awesome until you get to the part where the other dude bangs your wife


Cucks
Posted by Hog on the Hill
AR
Member since Jun 2009
13494 posts
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:07 pm to
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im sorry some people in here dont have what i do. Laugh and joke all you want but i enjoy nothing more than comming home after work and spending time with my wife. i guess some of you are not so lucy and dont understand.
Some people have very intimate, loving relationships, AND they frick other people. I'm glad you are happy with your marriage, it sounds fantastic, but please realize that your definition of love and marriage does not work for everyone else.
Posted by lsuhunt555
Teakwood Village Breh
Member since Nov 2008
39043 posts
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:07 pm to
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One of the two is going to get their feelings hurt. No getting around it.


Thats the way I see it. Someone is going to be less excited about their spouse fricking someone else and eventually that will catch up. And I'm sure there are instances where people do this and live happily every after, but those instances are the minority.
Posted by terd ferguson
Darren Wilson Fan Club President
Member since Aug 2007
114938 posts
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:08 pm to
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Is it only white people that do this? You don't hear about black peoples doing this sort of thing.


black people don't really get married


Yeah they just collect different last names for all their children. It's like swinging only for single people... and you have to get pregnant.
This post was edited on 3/14/16 at 3:09 pm
Posted by CadesCove
Mounting the Woman
Member since Oct 2006
40828 posts
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:08 pm to
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I just wanted to post a pic of flowers and butterflies as a response to your OP, because, this is the OT.


I didn't have an OP. Enjoy your dinner.
Posted by Teddy Ruxpin
Member since Oct 2006
40994 posts
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:08 pm to
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This article list the top 10 reasons people get divorced. I actually thought finances were #1 (if not #1, it was higher than #7)



This isn't listing them by order of which one is the most common reason down to the tenth most common. Its just the Top 10.
Posted by oleyeller
Vols, Bitch
Member since Oct 2012
32611 posts
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:08 pm to
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The key is that sex does not equal love, and love does not equal sex. Some people are into that idea, some people absolutely are not. You sound like you are not, but some people are.



no i am not, and im not talking about swingers in general. I get the idea of it. Im just saying why even be married? Why "settle down" id you want to live that lifestyle.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
122527 posts
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:09 pm to
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I was surprised at the level in a small town, always thought it was a big city thing



In small towns, everyone knows everyone so I would think that people have bigger "social circles" in small towns than in cities. I know cities are much more populated, but since many people often move to the city, they leave the "close knit group" they grew up with behind and usually develop a smaller group of close friends.
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