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Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:03 pm to OweO
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would you say married couples who agree to have multiple sex partners are more likely to gain from it than not?
That totally depends on the type of people they are.
I don't think my relationship would gain anything, but that doesn't mean that is the case for everyone.
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:03 pm to OweO
swinging sounds awesome until you get to the part where the other dude bangs your wife
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:03 pm to MightyYat
Is it only white people that do this? You don't hear about black peoples doing this sort of thing.
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:03 pm to Arkapigdiesel
I'd like to meet the chicks who fricked a lot of you people up. There are some sad, cynical MFers around here. 
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:04 pm to BRgetthenet
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Is it only white people that do this? You don't hear about black peoples doing this sort of thing.
They do gangbangs with all dudes and one chick instead
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:05 pm to Brageous
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If you are openly engaged in these activities, you should expect a shitty outcome.
You talking about all sex or just the butt stuff. That adverb is throwing me off.
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:05 pm to oleyeller
quote:That's true for you, but that's not true for everyone. Some couples begin dating with the understanding that they want to have sex with other people sometimes. They often have specific rules, like "don't ask don't tell" if they don't want to hear about the other people. Or sometimes they're very open about it, and genuinely feel happy for the other person if they're getting laid. Sometimes they have a strict rule that if you have sex with someone else, you have to involve the other partner (threesomes only, for instance). It just depends on the couple.
Why get married if you are having sex with other people. Marriage is about being with someone you love. I dont want my wife sleeping with anyone else, she is mine. I love her. Marriage is about two people becomming one, growing old together, experiencing life together. My wife is my other half, i wouldnt want to share that with anyone else, what good can come of that.
The key is that sex does not equal love, and love does not equal sex. Some people are into that idea, some people absolutely are not. You sound like you are not, but some people are.
Personally, it's not for me, but I believe that there are couples who can make it work. And I know for a fact that some people make it work, because I know couples like that who have been together for decades while having sex with other people.
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:05 pm to CadesCove
im sorry some people in here dont have what i do. Laugh and joke all you want but i enjoy nothing more than comming home after work and spending time with my wife. i guess some of you are not so lucy and dont understand.
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:06 pm to BRgetthenet
quote:You do in cities. In NYC, people of all backgrounds do this.
Is it only white people that do this? You don't hear about black peoples doing this sort of thing.
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:07 pm to BRgetthenet
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Is it only white people that do this? You don't hear about black peoples doing this sort of thing.
black people don't really get married
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:07 pm to CadesCove
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I'd like to meet the chicks who fricked a lot of you people up. There are some sad, cynical MFers around here.
I've been married for 13 years bruh. My old lady is a good one. As a matter of fact, she's cooking me supper for tonight as I'm typing this.
I just wanted to post a pic of flowers and butterflies as a response to your OP, because, this is the OT.
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:07 pm to yellowfin
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swinging sounds awesome until you get to the part where the other dude bangs your wife
Cucks
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:07 pm to oleyeller
quote:Some people have very intimate, loving relationships, AND they frick other people. I'm glad you are happy with your marriage, it sounds fantastic, but please realize that your definition of love and marriage does not work for everyone else.
im sorry some people in here dont have what i do. Laugh and joke all you want but i enjoy nothing more than comming home after work and spending time with my wife. i guess some of you are not so lucy and dont understand.
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:07 pm to SouthMSReb
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One of the two is going to get their feelings hurt. No getting around it.
Thats the way I see it. Someone is going to be less excited about their spouse fricking someone else and eventually that will catch up. And I'm sure there are instances where people do this and live happily every after, but those instances are the minority.
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:08 pm to yellowfin
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Is it only white people that do this? You don't hear about black peoples doing this sort of thing.
black people don't really get married
Yeah they just collect different last names for all their children. It's like swinging only for single people... and you have to get pregnant.
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Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:08 pm to Arkapigdiesel
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I just wanted to post a pic of flowers and butterflies as a response to your OP, because, this is the OT.
I didn't have an OP. Enjoy your dinner.
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:08 pm to OweO
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This article list the top 10 reasons people get divorced. I actually thought finances were #1 (if not #1, it was higher than #7)
This isn't listing them by order of which one is the most common reason down to the tenth most common. Its just the Top 10.
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:08 pm to Hog on the Hill
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The key is that sex does not equal love, and love does not equal sex. Some people are into that idea, some people absolutely are not. You sound like you are not, but some people are.
no i am not, and im not talking about swingers in general. I get the idea of it. Im just saying why even be married? Why "settle down" id you want to live that lifestyle.
Posted on 3/14/16 at 3:09 pm to Itismemc
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I was surprised at the level in a small town, always thought it was a big city thing
In small towns, everyone knows everyone so I would think that people have bigger "social circles" in small towns than in cities. I know cities are much more populated, but since many people often move to the city, they leave the "close knit group" they grew up with behind and usually develop a smaller group of close friends.
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