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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?

Posted on 7/19/21 at 8:44 pm to
Posted by dcbl
Good guys wear white hats.
Member since Sep 2013
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Posted on 7/19/21 at 8:44 pm to
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You posted his number


and promptly deleted it, but not before a couple of pathetic online losers reposted it multiple times

The purpose of this board is for it to be a place for anonymous conversations

I absolutely made a mistake, owned it quickly and did everything I could do to fix it

Taking this, or any thread and doxxing people or harassing them in real life is extremely low
Posted by bayourougebengal
Member since Mar 2008
7236 posts
Posted on 7/19/21 at 8:44 pm to
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dcbl

Serious question. Have you addressed with the wife how it looks that she A: gave her number to some guy, B: texted him 1st, C: was potentially giving the wrong vibes with no ring and whatever friendly convo?
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
33050 posts
Posted on 7/19/21 at 8:45 pm to
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Is he married?

He is not.
Posted by JudgeHolden
Gila River
Member since Jan 2008
18566 posts
Posted on 7/19/21 at 8:46 pm to
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harassing them in real life is extremely low


Kind of like asking him to PRAY you don’t report him or tell his wife?

I think the OT’s approach was more honorable.
Posted by josh336
baton rouge
Member since Jan 2007
83056 posts
Posted on 7/19/21 at 8:46 pm to
So the OP is the bigger a-hole in this situation
This post was edited on 7/19/21 at 8:47 pm
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
33050 posts
Posted on 7/19/21 at 8:46 pm to
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Taking this, or any thread and doxxing people or harassing them in real life is extremely low

I'm merely talking to him.

And as I said, he seems like a nice dude. It was an innocent mistake.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 7/19/21 at 8:47 pm to
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You have serious problems - being a jackass online is one thing, actually going after that guy in real life is fricked up



You lied about everything from the get go

You reap what you sow
Posted by Fun Bunch
New Orleans
Member since May 2008
130281 posts
Posted on 7/19/21 at 8:47 pm to
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Displaced


You are a massive piece of shite. There is something deeply wrong with you. Grow up.
Posted by bayourougebengal
Member since Mar 2008
7236 posts
Posted on 7/19/21 at 8:48 pm to
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Displaced

Has he mentioned her level of hotness?
Posted by SaintsTiger
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Posted on 7/19/21 at 8:48 pm to
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So I did a thing...

I've been texting the guy.

Turns out OP's story is true and there is nothing nefarious going on. She was at the pool and not wearing a ring. He says he had no idea she was married.

There was no prior or post contact other than what we've seen.

We can still judge the actions of op, but the other guy seems innocent. Sorry for the anticlimactic ending...


Wow. Since the horse is out of the barn you might as well post screenshots.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
33050 posts
Posted on 7/19/21 at 8:49 pm to
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You are a massive piece of shite. There is something deeply wrong with you. Grow up.



Also, the dude had an earnest response to my question about the pool board.

Apparently pool boards are a real thing in other places

It's such a ridiculous concept though.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
33050 posts
Posted on 7/19/21 at 8:49 pm to
Didn't ask. I'm not a creep.
Posted by SCLibertarian
Conway, South Carolina
Member since Aug 2013
42143 posts
Posted on 7/19/21 at 8:49 pm to
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You lied about everything from the get go

Call me crazy, but I think Displaced is actually talking to OP himself or someone in on this with him. None of this adds up.
Posted by bayourougebengal
Member since Mar 2008
7236 posts
Posted on 7/19/21 at 8:49 pm to
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Didn't ask. I'm not a creep.
Posted by josh336
baton rouge
Member since Jan 2007
83056 posts
Posted on 7/19/21 at 8:49 pm to
Is there really a “no alcohol” policy and waitlist for this pool? Or was that also a lie?
Posted by JudgeHolden
Gila River
Member since Jan 2008
18566 posts
Posted on 7/19/21 at 8:50 pm to
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Call me crazy, but I think Displaced is actually talking to OP himself or someone in on this with him. None of this adds up.


I dunno. It’s just crazy enough to be real.
Posted by Fun Bunch
New Orleans
Member since May 2008
130281 posts
Posted on 7/19/21 at 8:51 pm to
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Didn't ask. I'm not a creep.



Hahahaha. Ha.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 7/19/21 at 8:51 pm to
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Taking this, or any thread and doxxing people or harassing them in real life is extremely low


But you were ready to either fight him in public or report him to the Pool Board???

How pathetic is that??

A single guy chatting with a woman not wearing a wedding ring at the pool and he had no idea she was married, yet you lied about everything you posted


How low and pathetic is that??

You own that man an apology
Posted by JudgeHolden
Gila River
Member since Jan 2008
18566 posts
Posted on 7/19/21 at 8:52 pm to
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Apparently pool boards are a real thing in other places


So the worm has turned. Dude could now report OP to the Pool Board for starting this thread.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
33050 posts
Posted on 7/19/21 at 8:52 pm to
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Is there really a “no alcohol” policy and waitlist for this pool? Or was that also a lie?

I told the dude I was going to leave him alone after thanking him for humoring us. I have no reason to believe that op lied about this though.

If you read this and want to answer some questions though, you have my number!

My theory about the timeline is that he knew it was a bad look that his wife got the text after dark so he fibbed about the timeline out of insecurity.
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