re: Majority of single women are having trouble finding a partner who fits their standard

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So this girl has enough interest in you to go out on a date, then when she asks more about you to learn more you feed her made up bullshite for some reason. Sounds like a winning strategy!

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Try it. Next date you go on, dont give her one straight answer.

"what do you do for work?"

-"I robbed a bank a few years ago so im set for a while...im a spy so i cant really say...im a professional foot model"

"what do you do for fun"

-"I sneak into fancy parties and bullshite everyone until they kick me out"

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So when she asks "what do you do for work" "what are your hobbies" dont say "I work at a car wash and I build birdboxes" ...instead say something ridiculous and redirect back to her immediately. "Im a professional gigalo for all the country club grandmas and I am an amateur mind reader"

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This is why guys aren't dating. My friends have told me to lie and "don't be myself" in order to pick up girls. I don't want to. I like my personality and I like that I'm a good respectable dude. I'd rather be single and look for someone who actually likes me for me > fake everything about me to get a date with a girl who probably won't like the real me.

This isn't sustainable because these women now think this is who you are and the SECOND that you slip or show your real personality they dip or have reservations.

That's the exact issue I'm talking about. Men aren't allowed to just be themselves anymore and get the respect/ consideration from women. They want us to become their perfect attraction instead of naturally developing an attraction.

You can simp for a girl for a whole year and she can walk all over you, then the second you stand up for yourself they will legit leave and say "this isn't like you", "you've changed", "i don't feel comfortable with this".

They don't want to meet anyone half way, work through relationship issues, or hold themselves accountable. Instead of respecting a man's opinion for accountability they would rather just find a guy that doesn't hold them accountable or doesn't question them.

So guys are supposed to become fake people just for a chance to compete to be seen as "attractive" by women who fake everything about themesleves with unrealistic expectations.

We simply aren't playing the game or stooping to their level. What's the end game? You have women with completely fake personas now talking to guys with complete fake personas?

That's a walking divorce and you are taking out most of the true building blocks of a relationship. Honesty, trust, accountability, comfort, support, etccc.

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This isn't sustainable because these women now think this is who you are and the SECOND that you slip or show your real personality they dip or have reservations.

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That’s also terrible advice and some of the most loser cringe shite I’ve seen on this site.

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Watching you switch back and forth

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and yet he called me the hypocrite

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That’s also terrible advice and some of the most loser cringe shite I’ve seen on this site

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What do you mean by this? I also agree that faking your whole personality is the most terrible advice and cringe. Its also terrible for your own mental health and self esteem.

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So when she asks "what do you do for work" "what are your hobbies" dont say "I work at a car wash and I build birdboxes" ...instead say something ridiculous and redirect back to her immediately. "Im a professional gigalo for all the country club grandmas and I am an amateur mind reader"

Her first thought will be this short, deadass guy doesnt give a shite about impressing me...hes just teasing me....now I gotta know why

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Yes, every woman is just dying to go on a date with CringeLord 2.0 who can't even be arsed to answer basic questions about himself.

~mYsTeRiOuS~ my arse. Baby, you are watching too many pickup artist movies and idolizing people whose characters probably learned a lesson exactly against doing that at the end.

It's one thing to make a lighthearted joke when you're chatting up a strange woman beside you at the bar, but pretending you're Dog the Bounty Hunter on an actual date to come off as ~funny and intriguing~ is some bizarre shite.

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you bothered that 40 ish (what age am I exactly?) losers who have...zero... experience with women are giving dating advice?

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FIFY

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That’s also terrible advice and some of the most loser cringe shite I’ve seen on this site


What do you mean by this? I also agree that faking your whole personality is the most terrible advice and cringe. Its also terrible for your own mental health and self esteem

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So you never make jokes? You are always serious?

The point is not to make the girl actually think you are a gigilo to the elderly....she clearly knows you are joking. Its to stimulate fun conversation. If dudes are bummed that every first date is a "job interview" then dont let it be a job interview.

Its not to put on a fake personality, unless you really are an Amish stoic man at all times that never can let loose. If that is the case, yeah many girls arent gonna like that

Why be fake?

Be yourself, you are what you are...

(Vetteguy)