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Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:51 pm to
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10702 posts
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:51 pm to
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I found out I’ve been getting jodied by a Puerto Rican
I’m really sorry to hear this. She doesn’t deserve you anyway. Wishing you nothing but the best and an even better future without her.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
45718 posts
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:51 pm to
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I've been with my wife for 16 years so being single


26 for me, but we went exclusive at the end of '89.

OP, how do you know he is Puerto Rican? Either you saw his passport or had conversations with somebody specifically aboot him. Either way, how did you learn it?
Posted by Mud_Till_May
Member since Aug 2014
9685 posts
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:54 pm to
Tell us how you feel.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53237 posts
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:56 pm to
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OP, how do you know he is Puerto Rican? Either you saw his passport or had conversations with somebody specifically aboot him. Either way, how did you learn it?

The Puerto Rican guy isn't the OP. That's a fricked up situation though. Honestly, I'd bail even with the kids in play. There are some things that I wouldn't be able to get past.
This post was edited on 7/5/20 at 1:03 pm
Posted by tigerbandpiccolo
Member since Oct 2005
49437 posts
Posted on 7/5/20 at 1:14 pm to
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8) She has a window of opportunity to wreck your credit. Don’t let her.


THIS. Had an 820 credit and that is no longer the case. It is absolutely sick how someone can do that to you in two months. Don’t be surprised what someone will do to hurt you, even when it’s to their own detriment, as well.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
45718 posts
Posted on 7/5/20 at 1:16 pm to
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The Puerto Rican guy isn't the OP


Oops. There are a lot of evil women stories melting together.
Posted by Dusted
Member since Jul 2020
49 posts
Posted on 7/5/20 at 1:18 pm to
OP, hang in there. I’ve been through 4 of these now and they get a little easier every time. My last one was only 3 months in when she dropped the hammer on me. She’s dating some Air Force chick now stationed at Barksdale. Just remember it’s not your fault. They have something wrong with them such as my last being a lesbian.
Posted by Mr Perfect
Member since Mar 2010
17836 posts
Posted on 7/5/20 at 1:19 pm to
how can someone else hurt your credit?
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
106532 posts
Posted on 7/5/20 at 1:21 pm to
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how can someone else hurt your credit?


If there are shared accounts, credit cards, etc. jointly shared one person over spending or not paying the bills will wreck your shite quick.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53237 posts
Posted on 7/5/20 at 1:23 pm to
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OP, hang in there. I’ve been through 4 of these now and they get a little easier every time. 

I'm not intending to offend you but after 4 I'd give up baw. You either choose partners poorly or are not a good spouse.
Posted by Mr Perfect
Member since Mar 2010
17836 posts
Posted on 7/5/20 at 1:23 pm to
damn that's wild to me
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
216319 posts
Posted on 7/5/20 at 1:24 pm to
It’s a shame you work so hard for something and have someone screw it up for you...... sorry PICC....... if you want me to I will find him and kick his arse, or worse.... just let me know......
Posted by Dusted
Member since Jul 2020
49 posts
Posted on 7/5/20 at 1:25 pm to
That’s what happened to me with the 2nd. She paid bought 2 plane tickets and a week long vacation on my card and took the guy she was leaving me for then called me right before stepping on the plane and told me she wanted a divorce.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
106532 posts
Posted on 7/5/20 at 1:28 pm to
Yeah, my SO got fricked on two medical bills in his name for their daughter (they were all on his insurance too) that she claimed she had been paying on but didn’t. And a credit card that she maxed out before he could get it shut off.
Posted by TigerMatt225
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2015
153 posts
Posted on 7/5/20 at 1:32 pm to
Facebook I believe. And to fallguy she has absolutely checked out and that guy is her boyfriend. My wife has a fricking boyfriend
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
195270 posts
Posted on 7/5/20 at 1:33 pm to
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how can someone else hurt your credit?


when you're married their debt is yours


my ex fuked me big time with this
Posted by Dusted
Member since Jul 2020
49 posts
Posted on 7/5/20 at 1:39 pm to
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I'm not intending to offend you but after 4 I'd give up baw. You either choose partners poorly or are not a good spouse.

I did give up for the past couple years but I’ve recently reconnected with my first wife and one true love. The main reason the 2nd and 3rd didn’t workout is because I still haven’t gotten over the first. I kept trying to see new women and move on because I thought there was no way we could ever be together again. She moved to Europe for the past 8 years but she moved back around Christmas and we’ve been seeing each other again. I’m trying not to get my hopes up but it’s really hard because I’ve been hoping for this scenario for almost a decade.
Posted by tigerbandpiccolo
Member since Oct 2005
49437 posts
Posted on 7/5/20 at 1:39 pm to
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If there are shared accounts, credit cards, etc. jointly shared one person over spending or not paying the bills will wreck your shite quick.


This. Not paying the bills they were responsible for and me not finding that out until collection agencies began calling my phone. Once that happens the account is already derogatory.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53237 posts
Posted on 7/5/20 at 1:41 pm to
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Facebook I believe

Has probably ruined more marriages than anything in history.
Posted by tigerbandpiccolo
Member since Oct 2005
49437 posts
Posted on 7/5/20 at 1:44 pm to
And sabotaging in other ways. Like going to the former martial domicile (where no one was living) that was for sale, purposely wrecking it (in disgusting ways) that sent potential buyers’ realtor calling mine to share how disgusted their buyers were. Like I said. They’ll do things to hurt you even to their own financial and emotional detriment.
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