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Let's talk about crushes

Posted on 12/17/24 at 9:31 am
Posted by FootballFrenzy
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Posted on 12/17/24 at 9:31 am
Who was your first? Tell us about him/her, how you met, what happened, etc.

My first was a fellow trumpet player at band. She was 16, I was 14. I'd sat next to her for a year before I finally worked up the courage to speak to her. She was a ton of fun to talk to and was really nice. She had great tone quality, so I was impressed by that.

I never hung out with her outside of band. Eventually she graduated (from the organized homeschool band lol) and moved away.

They say a little piece of your heart is lost forever to every person you love or have a crush on. As a young man, my experience in romance is very limited, but I know I'll never forget that blonde trumpet player, as cheesy as that may sound.

So, what about the rest of the fine people on tO-T Lounge? What's your story?
This post was edited on 12/17/24 at 10:03 am
Posted by Ping Pong
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Posted on 12/17/24 at 9:33 am to
Thanks for reminding me of the pain
Posted by FootballFrenzy
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Posted by HogPharmer
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Posted on 12/17/24 at 9:34 am to
Your mom.
Posted by StrongOffer
Member since Sep 2020
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Posted on 12/17/24 at 9:35 am to
I guess I'm not a romantic. My current girlfriend is honestly the first time I've ever been in love. Lots of girls I was very attracted to but personality and morals goes a long way with me.
Posted by WhuckFistle
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Posted on 12/17/24 at 9:37 am to
Posted by AmosMosesAndTwins
Lake Charles
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Posted on 12/17/24 at 9:37 am to
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She was 16, I was 14. I'd sat next to her for a year before I finally worked up the courage to speak to her.


quote:

Eventually she graduated (from the organized homeschool band


So you wanted to frick your sister?
Posted by FootballFrenzy
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Posted on 12/17/24 at 9:37 am to
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My current girlfriend is honestly the first time I've ever been in love.

Love and crush are two different things, but that's cool.
Posted by FootballFrenzy
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Posted on 12/17/24 at 9:38 am to
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So you wanted to frick your sister?

I didn't want to have sex with her at all.

"Organized homeschool band" means a band composed of homeschoolers who get together to do band.
Posted by LemmyLives
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Posted on 12/17/24 at 9:38 am to
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Eventually she graduated (from the organized homeschool band


So you wanted to frick your sister?


That joke was also on page 1 in this same thread in the SEC OT.
Posted by HoustonChick86
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Posted on 12/17/24 at 9:40 am to
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My first was a fellow trumpet player at band

All I could think of past this point was "this one time at band camp" and then I couldn't take the rest of the post seriously.
Posted by FootballFrenzy
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Posted on 12/17/24 at 9:40 am to
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That joke was also on page 1 in this same thread in the SEC OT.


Yep. Unfortunately, the OT is a lot less active than the Lounge, so I figured I'd see if I could get more responses over here.
Posted by FootballFrenzy
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Posted on 12/17/24 at 9:40 am to
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All I could think of past this point was "this one time at band camp" and then I couldn't take the rest of the post seriously.

Posted by StrongOffer
Member since Sep 2020
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Posted on 12/17/24 at 9:40 am to
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Love and crush are two different things
That's fair. I guess that's where my head went when you mentioned a piece of your heart dying. That's not true of anyone for me.
Posted by SidetrackSilvera
Member since Nov 2012
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Posted on 12/17/24 at 9:40 am to
Cindy Mancini

Posted by FootballFrenzy
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Posted on 12/17/24 at 9:42 am to
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That's fair. I guess that's where my head went when you mentioned a piece of your heart dying. That's not true of anyone for me.

Well, it doesn't die, but it does stay with that person forever.

That's why monogamy is good (besides the whole God commands it thing).
Posted by Jon A thon
Member since May 2019
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Posted on 12/17/24 at 9:42 am to
Girl I was 100% friend-zoned by. Granted everyone was. She came from a very religious family and was only ever going to get married to someone within their tight knit group. Never dated anyone while in high school, even within the religious group. Valedictorian, very pretty, friendly and we got along very well. We were relatively close within school, but no one outside of that religious group really got to hang out with her outside of that.

Kept in touch sporadically while in college then out of the blue got an update from her that she was married. We were like Junior's in college. I had gotten over it by then, but remember I was studying in the library on campus and just packed up and went to the bar with friends. Was never something that was going to happen, but still kind of stung when I found out she got married.
Posted by Zendog
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Member since Feb 2019
5702 posts
Posted on 12/17/24 at 9:43 am to
2nd grade. Megan. She hated me and liked my friend. I told the friend we're going to fight for her. Three days in a row after school I met him on the street going to his house. I think it ended up just being three wrestling matches.

Third grade, she hated me even more. Nothing but dirty looks from her. She even told the teacher I was cheating when I wasn't.

Fourth grade, at the very end of the year she told me she liked me but was moving. Her new school was about ten miles away.

Sixth grade. She was gone but I convinced our principal to start up a sixth grade basketball team and play against Valley View, at their place. We got our arse kicked and she didn't show up

P.S. Megan if you're reading this I still have the hots for you!
This post was edited on 12/17/24 at 9:44 am
Posted by FootballFrenzy
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Posted on 12/17/24 at 9:43 am to
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Girl I was 100% friend-zoned by.

Posted by AmosMosesAndTwins
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Posted on 12/17/24 at 9:43 am to
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I didn't want to have sex with her at all.


I’ve never trusted sister frickers and I’m not starting today.
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