- My Forums
- Tiger Rant
- LSU Recruiting
- SEC Rant
- Saints Talk
- Pelicans Talk
- More Sports Board
- Coaching Changes
- Fantasy Sports
- Golf Board
- Soccer Board
- O-T Lounge
- Tech Board
- Home/Garden Board
- Outdoor Board
- Health/Fitness Board
- Movie/TV Board
- Book Board
- Music Board
- Political Talk
- Money Talk
- Fark Board
- Gaming Board
- Travel Board
- Food/Drink Board
- Ticket Exchange
- TD Help Board
Customize My Forums- View All Forums
- Show Left Links
- Topic Sort Options
- Trending Topics
- Recent Topics
- Active Topics
Started By
Message
re: Just told a chick her husband cheated on her
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:07 pm to Jake88
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:07 pm to Jake88
Trust me, those who know me would not be afraid to say anything.
OP had no business inserting himself/herself into someone else's relationship, that someone else he/she admitted to not knowing.
OP had no business inserting himself/herself into someone else's relationship, that someone else he/she admitted to not knowing.
2
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:13 pm to Rouge
Bs. He didn't do any of that. The husband did. Wtf. This board is retarded.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:14 pm to Red Stick Tigress
quote:
OP had no business inserting himself/herself into someone else's relationship, that someone else he/she admitted to not knowing.
If it was his women getting the cheater's shaft, then it is his business.
If not, then if he has this knowledge, it should be shared either directly with her or someone close to her albeit with some tact.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:16 pm to RougeTiger
quote:
I really wish I would have just contacted the cheater instead, and essentially gave him the choice to do the right thing or not
Who are you to this couple? Do you have a stake in this in some way? I don't agree with cheating but I'm not buying the doing the right thing bs. Obviously you didn't know what the situation was on the other side. I think it's pretty shitty to assumed something and then acted upon it.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:18 pm to Rouge
quote:
kids
Marriage
Families
OP left carnage in his wake, and he is bragging on a semi-anonymous forum
bullshite
That was done by the parties doing the cheating.
He didn't do that. All he did was expose it. Again, my suspicion is that he did it for his own selfish reasons, but he didn't do any harm and he didn't do anything wrong.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:19 pm to jmcs68
quote:
Who are you to this couple? Do you have a stake in this in some way? I don't agree with cheating but I'm not buying the doing the right thing bs. Obviously you didn't know what the situation was on the other side. I think it's pretty shitty to assumed something and then acted upon it.
I would cheat on you on purpose. Just to prove a point....
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:19 pm to Jake88
quote:
So, if those who know you are too skittish to tell you, you'd prefer to remain ignorant and continue to believe that the "extra moisture" is hers.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:22 pm to ell_13
quote:
'd prefer not to be cheated on
In this scenario, you were already cheated on...very recently.
quote:
or for my SO to come clean
In this scenario, your SO was actively hiding her actions trying to keep them from you.
quote:
or be told by a friend
Your friends didn't know or if they did, they didn't care enough to tell you.
quote:
and then not to know at all before some stranger randomly pops up with a pic of my SO with some other guy because he/she wants to start some shite against my SO
So, the real question is would you rather the above not happen if it meant you wouldn't know. You'd rather be ignorant while your SO continues to sleep around. Then you could hope the information comes to you on your own time or from someone you are closer to.
You are fooling yourself. The woman lashed out to him because she didn't like the news...not because she didn't want to hear it from him. It was an irrational response because she was hurt.
This post was edited on 8/13/15 at 8:23 pm
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:22 pm to Tiger Bawlz
quote:
Just to prove a point....
Someone beat you to it.
But what would be your point other than being a a-hole?
This post was edited on 8/13/15 at 8:22 pm
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:22 pm to RougeTiger
If you didn't know her, then why did you bring her world crashing down like that?
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:23 pm to RougeTiger
Hater.
Why are you so concerned about her life. Tend to your own affairs.
Why are you so concerned about her life. Tend to your own affairs.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:24 pm to moneyg
quote:
That was done by the parties doing the cheating.
Could be incorrect (eta. Speaking in absolutes by using completely is not good idea in this scenario)
Sounded like a could have been well prior to this incident
This post was edited on 8/13/15 at 8:27 pm
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:26 pm to jmcs68
quote:
Someone beat you to it.
But what would be your point other than being a a-hole?
Damn. Beat me to telling you that in this thread? Sorry, I don't read through the entire thread.
ETA: Point being that you love the a-hole...
This post was edited on 8/13/15 at 8:28 pm
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:27 pm to Rouge
quote:
Completely incorrect
Sounded like a could have been well prior to this incident
It's completely correct. And, I didn't see where this happened a while back, but I don't think it matters at all. If time healed the act, then learning of an act that occurred a long time ago wouldn't be a big deal either.
He caused no harm.
This post was edited on 8/13/15 at 8:29 pm
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:29 pm to Tiger Bawlz
quote:
ETA: Point being that you love the a-hole...
Obviously not enough to tolerate cheating.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:30 pm to Rouge
quote:
Could be incorrect (eta. Speaking in absolutes by using completely is not good idea in this scenario)
You edited.
The person who cheated is the one responsible for any negative consequences.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:31 pm to moneyg
quote:tell that to those people crying tonight
He caused no harm.
Man made a mistake
Who was op to decide that he did not deserve chance to repent prior to destroying a family?
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:32 pm to moneyg
quote:If my SO is cheating on me... and I don't know about it... we obviously have problems already whether I'm in denial of them or not. I don't need some stranger throwing himself in the middle of it just out of spite when he doesn't know shite about my life or my wife's life other than this one piece of information. If he knows me, then yes, I'd want to know from him. Other than that, know way he knows enough about me or the situation to think it's a good idea to put this out there like he did.
the real question is would you rather the above not happen if it meant you wouldn't know. You'd rather be ignorant while your SO continues to sleep around. Then you could hope the information comes to you on your own time or from someone you are closer to.
You are fooling yourself. The woman lashed out to him because she didn't like the news...not because she didn't want to hear it from him. It was an irrational response because she was hurt.
This post was edited on 8/13/15 at 8:33 pm
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:32 pm to Amazing Moves
I've shared all the information I can without revealing the identity of anyone involved. The girl who he cheated on his wife with is a girl that I am very close with. Not my wife or anything like that. Sure, I may have crossed a boundary by doing so, but I still feel that I did the right thing, albeit I could have handled it a little differently.
About to board a long flight home, g'night OT--you ruthless mfers
About to board a long flight home, g'night OT--you ruthless mfers
Posted on 8/13/15 at 8:35 pm to ell_13
Upvoted
Page 9 of 23
Back to top
Follow TigerDroppings for LSU Football News