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re: Just made one year without having sex :Update pg 19:

Posted on 1/21/19 at 7:53 pm to
Posted by KemoSabe65
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Member since Mar 2018
6422 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 7:53 pm to
Married and 2-1/2 years wiIthout and I’m good with it.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138178 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 7:54 pm to
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Married and 2-1/2 years wiIthout and I’m good with it
. Aaaaahhhhh

frick all that..... or not
Posted by liz18lsu
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
17907 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 7:54 pm to
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faking it till you make it


Best advice. I am not ugly, but not traditionally "hot". I am small, so seen as weak (5'0 tall). I walk in to a room, not with an attitude, but with humor and kindness. Sometimes I am scared, but I own it, and play to the room. People like me, because I make them comfortable, compliment, laugh and make people feel good about themselves. Yes, easy for a women, but I have found myself attracted to men over the years who I just felt attracted to because of some quality that was intriguing.

ETA: After I faked confidence, the response GAVE me confidence
This post was edited on 1/21/19 at 7:56 pm
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53112 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 7:57 pm to
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Married and 2-1/2 years wiIthout and I’m good with it.

Without sex? Are you 80?
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
120267 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 7:57 pm to
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You help him out.



I do know a few single women, but I am not going to text them and be like "hey, this dude on a message board just started a thread about not having sex in a year. He is single. Want me to hook yall up?"
Posted by arcalades
USA
Member since Feb 2014
19276 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 7:57 pm to
If a man wants to get laid, the only things stopping him is setting the bar too high or just no effort. There are all kinds of mediocre, lonely women out there, and all a guy has to do is talk to them and listen. May have to settle for a chubby woman, but like they say, there's good p and there's great p.
Posted by vtdad
WV side of Bluefield,WV
Member since Dec 2009
1006 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 7:57 pm to
on a 7 yr. drought myself. Sex is 20% friction and 80% imagination.
Posted by Sampson
Drusilla and Jefferson
Member since Mar 2012
25031 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 7:59 pm to
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I’m 5’8”


I have a hot chick friend who digs the little guys. She’s very wholesome, funny smart etc.. You come across as a dude who has his shite together and priorities in line. Let me know and I’ll make it happen.
Posted by Loaner1231
Member since Jan 2016
3903 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:02 pm to
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I do know a few single women, but I am not going to text them and be like "hey, this dude on a message board just started a thread about not having sex in a year. He is single. Want me to hook yall up?"


Come on baw. Make it happen and I’ll get you a year supply of Meguiar’s wheel cleaner and tire black.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
104387 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:04 pm to
My looks are at best average and I'm extremely introverted IRL. Despite all that, I found someone. They're out there. If I can do it anyone can.
Posted by Loaner1231
Member since Jan 2016
3903 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:06 pm to
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Are you confident, without being cocky or cheesy?


Eh, probably not the most confident individual at the moment. Like I said earlier, the ex absolutely wrecked me with the divorce. I fought really hard to make her happy, made a lot of sacrifices, and every time something she was complaining about was remedied a new complaint would crop up in short order. Even though I was miserable most of the time, when she decided to end things I fought my arse off trying to keep it together.

I’m not timid or outwardly afraid as far as I’m aware, just not braggart.
This post was edited on 1/21/19 at 8:10 pm
Posted by arcalades
USA
Member since Feb 2014
19276 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:08 pm to
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What is wrong with you people? You have no willpower. I once went 28 years without having sex. And then again for seven years.
Sex feels a lot better than will power
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
72915 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:08 pm to
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Despite all that, I found someone.
You two...

Need darker curtains and USE THEM!


Posted by Tester1216
South Louisiana
Member since Jul 2018
22149 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:10 pm to
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women don't need to have game All you need is any inkling of eagerness


Something something beats eager?

Posted by arcalades
USA
Member since Feb 2014
19276 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:12 pm to
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Sounds like his priorities are him kids



Without question.
This is obviously understandable but you still need adult companionship. Almost every human on the planet does.
Posted by Halftrack
The Wild Blue Yonder
Member since Apr 2015
2763 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:12 pm to
I have had more sex since my divorce than any other time in my life.
Posted by BlindTiger7
Houston
Member since Sep 2016
2988 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:13 pm to
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Loaner1231


Get yourself out there. Congrats on the no secks
Posted by liz18lsu
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
17907 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:17 pm to
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I’m not timid or outwardly afraid as far as I’m aware, just not braggart.


That is a good quality. I know this sounds easy, but let go of the ex and any emotional/mind control she had. You weren't in a good relationship and sounds like a shitty woman. At least for what you both needed. Getting back out there is scary, but it will happen. Don't dwell. Be a great father and deal with your ex in a respectful way, even if she doesn't deserve it. Good things will...come
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
85403 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:17 pm to
If I ever divorce (50/50) after 25 years -I would never support a woman or allow her to have any control of my life. So if that means long periods without sex, so be it. I’d rather be celibate than put another woman on a pedestal .
This post was edited on 1/21/19 at 8:19 pm
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98767 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 8:18 pm to
Hey liz wanna have sex?
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