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re: Is monogamy still a thing among 30 year olds?

Posted on 5/1/19 at 4:44 pm to
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
18831 posts
Posted on 5/1/19 at 4:44 pm to
quote:

There is this misconception that if you are married life is supposed to be always rainbows and sunshine.


I see people post this sentiment from time to time, but I don't think I know anyone who really thinks that is what marriage is like
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
40200 posts
Posted on 5/1/19 at 4:47 pm to
quote:

Your wife and I talked about it last time we were together and she disagrees with you.


You had to listen to her complain about me? I'm sorry...
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 5/1/19 at 4:48 pm to
Pisses me off married dudes are sleeping with single women. Dude got his leave some for the rest of us.
Posted by mylsuhat
Mandeville, LA
Member since Mar 2008
49834 posts
Posted on 5/1/19 at 4:48 pm to
I don't think so at all. I believe that due to the openness of sex talk and all is a big factor. It's not something thats unspoken or taboo to talk about. That leads to just better happiness between couples
Posted by hob
Member since Dec 2017
2342 posts
Posted on 5/1/19 at 4:53 pm to
I'd say based on your age that your friends are experiencing the 7-year-itch. The dust will settle after a while and then you'll see another round of divorces once the kids go off to college.

Posted by Halftrack
The Wild Blue Yonder
Member since Apr 2015
2763 posts
Posted on 5/1/19 at 4:59 pm to
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You had to listen to her complain about me? I'm sorry...


Lol. Yep. And that’s all that happened too. It was bad.
Posted by Landmass
Premium Member
Member since Jun 2013
24660 posts
Posted on 5/1/19 at 5:23 pm to
Causes:
-Both spouses working
-Social media
-Self-centered & entitled society
Posted by Tempratt
Member since Oct 2013
14903 posts
Posted on 5/1/19 at 6:22 pm to
Sure. They're not all trash.
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
Premium Member
Member since Jan 2005
79068 posts
Posted on 5/1/19 at 6:52 pm to
Cheating on your husband is trashy. You should shame the cheating hobags by posting their names and phone numbers here.
Posted by Odysseus32
Member since Dec 2009
9748 posts
Posted on 5/1/19 at 6:58 pm to
That's not what that show was about.
Posted by gizmothepug
Louisiana
Member since Apr 2015
8502 posts
Posted on 5/1/19 at 7:05 pm to
In today’s world you have to assume your on camera as soon as you step out of the house, people get caught up in the lust and forget that simple fact. Cheating isn’t something new, it’s just easier to do and also easier to get caught.
Posted by Diver Diva
Member since Apr 2019
386 posts
Posted on 5/1/19 at 7:34 pm to
I never cheated when I was married. But I can't say that about my ex-husband.
Posted by TDsngumbo
Member since Oct 2011
49104 posts
Posted on 5/1/19 at 7:39 pm to
I understand being attracted to someone else but to risk it all for pleasure just isn’t worth it. I took my wedding vows seriously and my wife did too. Yes we fight and yes we have rough times but we love each other unconditionally. We’re in the minority as well.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138152 posts
Posted on 5/1/19 at 7:40 pm to
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monogamy still a thing among 30 year olds?
I sure hope not
Posted by Tigerlaff
FIGHTING out of the Carencro Sonic
Member since Jan 2010
22070 posts
Posted on 5/1/19 at 7:53 pm to
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Publicly, yes. But in reality, well-to-do people have even more opportunities to cheat & be total pervs. They may be more discreet, but it’s still rampant, and always has been


Wrong. The poor do these things at astonishingly higher rates.
Posted by Donkeypunch
Georgia
Member since Jun 2007
1428 posts
Posted on 5/1/19 at 8:16 pm to
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Wrong. The poor do these things at astonishingly higher rates.


Long ago I had an old man tell me “don’t frick anyone with less to lose than you “.
Posted by dbuchanon
Member since Nov 2014
21021 posts
Posted on 5/1/19 at 8:20 pm to
Buy a pineapple shirt..
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11592 posts
Posted on 5/1/19 at 8:21 pm to
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Wrong. The poor do these things at astonishingly higher rates.


Cool. The affluent still get plenty on the side, no matter how much they publicly frown upon it.
Posted by LSUcajun77
New Orleans
Member since Nov 2008
23884 posts
Posted on 5/2/19 at 9:37 am to
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They said stop drinking and going out without your ole lady huh?


I know you’re joking.

FWIW I didn’t drink or go out without her.
Plenty issues can contribute to infidelity.

I, personally, have never physically cheated. I have made mistakes, but nothing I couldn’t overcome. I just chose to make the effort and understand my faults, with a professional.
What works for one, may not work for another. But you don’t know until you’ve tried it.

ETA: I should add I’ve never been married. Anything I was on both ends of was while dating.

Marriage is sacred and vows should be taken seriously. When problems arise, have the courage to reach out for help.

This post was edited on 5/2/19 at 9:42 am
Posted by Toadvine
Member since Aug 2018
47 posts
Posted on 5/2/19 at 10:10 am to
TL;DR

Yes, you dick.
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