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re: Is anyone else extremely paranoid about dating apps?

Posted on 4/6/17 at 5:48 pm to
Posted by rowbear1922
Houston, TX
Member since Oct 2008
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Posted on 4/6/17 at 5:48 pm to
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She's changed. She wasn't like this. I don't know what caused her to change, she doesn't think she has. I truly think she believes there is a man out there that is perfect and will do no wrong. Good luck.


Beta
Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
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Posted on 4/6/17 at 5:49 pm to
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LSUFanHouston


Sounds like a classic case of lost attraction on her end

Sucks but not much you can do

Also perhaps BPD
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
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Posted on 4/6/17 at 5:53 pm to
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Also perhaps BPD
not trolling when I say I think he vast majority of females are bpd
Posted by Lester Earl
3rd Ward
Member since Nov 2003
288169 posts
Posted on 4/6/17 at 5:54 pm to
GN when I say creepy I'm talking about betas like the OP who isn't too sure of himself in the online dating community.

Go find a hobby and grow something organically. If you are remotely desireable you should be able to attract women who partake in these same activities. And there is no real pressure to be this outgoing alpha. You use the guise of the activity to seal the deal
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
295122 posts
Posted on 4/6/17 at 5:55 pm to
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and is no longer the man the woman fell in love with


Everyone changes.

Some people just overanalyze this dating/relationship stuff
Posted by Rebelgator
Pripyat Bridge
Member since Mar 2010
40181 posts
Posted on 4/6/17 at 5:56 pm to
You need to be in a padded cell.
Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26013 posts
Posted on 4/6/17 at 5:57 pm to
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We need to hangout GN


I live closer to BR these days

I really don't know if people here on the OT would be surprised or disappointed in me if I hung out with them

If they envision me as some Super Chad who slays pussy by the gross probably disappointed. I'm not that successful

But if they envision me as a loser who can't get any female attention or have success with women I think they would be in for a huge surprise

I'm kind of in limbo right now. Still getting settled here, always busy, with busy weekends, have been out of town the last 2 weekends. Haven't gotten out there yet except for one night in a hotel. In the middle of a bulk so my body composition isn't where I want it to be. I don't shite where I eat so women I work with are off limits.

It's been hectic non stop since I got here so this weekend is my first free days I've had since getting here So I will just use the weekend to rest and be lazy. I'll get out there eventually though. I didn't even try the market in Seattle until about 10 months in, took me a couple months in Iowa before putting myself out there
Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26013 posts
Posted on 4/6/17 at 5:59 pm to
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GN when I say creepy I'm talking about betas like the OP who isn't too sure of himself in the online dating community.

Go find a hobby and grow something organically. If you are remotely desireable you should be able to attract women who partake in these same activities. And there is no real pressure to be this outgoing alpha. You use the guise of the activity to seal the deal


I agree with this. Best chance of meeting women is to do an activity where you can demonstrate your value via actions

In general though the term "creepy" is just covert speak for "not attractive enough".
Posted by Grateful Reb
Member since Apr 2011
8070 posts
Posted on 4/6/17 at 6:00 pm to
Da frick? Why don't you just do tinder? 99% of the chicks I've interacted with have been real. It's usually pretty simple to verify via their Facebook (since it must be linked to Facebook) or an instagram account (which almost every girl has and links these days.
Posted by Lester Earl
3rd Ward
Member since Nov 2003
288169 posts
Posted on 4/6/17 at 6:14 pm to
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general though the term "creepy" is just covert speak for "not attractive enough".


Not necessarily. There are good looking guys who flat out ruin any chance they have with by being socially inept. Sure they may attract girls but they will not be the ones that a well put together man would attract or want. They'll attract the selfie loving single moms who have no degree of self realization. Stimulate me physically, yea I see the appeal. But stimulate my physically mentally and emotionally and your life will change
Posted by Bamagirl15
Moody
Member since Nov 2016
389 posts
Posted on 4/6/17 at 6:28 pm to
The more of this I read I think I'm good with not dating lol
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43031 posts
Posted on 4/6/17 at 7:58 pm to
I'll go out with you if you look halfway decent. The only deal-breaker for me is a shitty personality. If that is the case, I'll make it a point to piss you off
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
148107 posts
Posted on 4/6/17 at 8:02 pm to
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If you are remotely desireable you should be able to attract women who partake in these same activities. And there is no real pressure to be this outgoing alpha. You use the guise of the activity to seal the deal


Straight up honey really I'm askin'
Most of these playas think they be mackin' but they be actin
Who they attractin' with that line, "What's your name what's your sign?"
Soon as he buy that wine I just creep up from behind
And ask what your interests are, who you be with
Things to make you smile, what numbers to dial
You gon' be here for a while, I'm gon' go call my crew
You go call your crew
We can rendezvous at the bar around two
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
77729 posts
Posted on 4/6/17 at 8:04 pm to
All clear on the high rise
Slow and go around Camp O'Keefe

No restrictions on the causeway

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Posted by Bestbank Tiger
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Member since Jan 2005
79001 posts
Posted on 4/6/17 at 8:08 pm to
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When you are 49, less overall selection but higher level of security and wisdom. Also, most 49 year old men don't wear 32 waist pants like they did in college. My college sweetheart gained 50 lbs since 1986. Women gain weight too usually.


Yep. I have to put more and more effort into maintaining a normal weight. Still wear 30 in pants though.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
148107 posts
Posted on 4/6/17 at 8:10 pm to
Live from the latter and bloom studios in the heart of the coooolest city
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
77729 posts
Posted on 4/6/17 at 8:18 pm to
Posted by 99BLKBRD
Member since Mar 2015
575 posts
Posted on 4/6/17 at 8:43 pm to
Funny how the females laugh at his post, but it's spot on. In fact GN has hit the ball out of the park on this thread.
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43031 posts
Posted on 4/6/17 at 8:51 pm to
Come down for FQF brah. The quarter is dripping with sexy chicks in sun dresses
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11592 posts
Posted on 4/6/17 at 9:05 pm to
I wasn't laughing, man. I've accepted my fate as a fuggo.
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