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re: I'm struggling and this is probably the worst fricking place to vent but I'm doing it anywa

Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:01 am to
Posted by burdman
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2007
22585 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:01 am to
Sorry to hear about the rough times.

Make sure the kid is yours
Posted by Mr Personality
Bangkok
Member since Mar 2014
27364 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:02 am to
Posted by PortHudsonPlaya
Houston
Member since Jul 2017
3170 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:02 am to
I’d make sure the kid is yours and not just take her word for it. Seriously.
Posted by The Goat
Right here, Chief
Member since Nov 2006
3001 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:02 am to
Nah. She’s just a filthy whore. OP is just naive. Hasn’t had many girlfriends and therefore hasn’t had a girlfriend cheat on him before.


Posted by 13SaintTiger
Isle of Capri
Member since Sep 2011
18371 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:03 am to
Give the baby up for adoption .
Posted by Jimmydatiger
North Endzone
Member since Dec 2011
369 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:06 am to
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This post was edited on 6/6/20 at 11:59 am
Posted by tidalmouse
Whatsamotta U.
Member since Jan 2009
30706 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:08 am to
Hang tough.Pray over it.

God has a plan.Be the best Father you can be.
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
68469 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:09 am to

Jimmy, nicely done.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171949 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:13 am to
quote:

Why weren’t y’all married before before deciding to bring a baby into this world?


Exactly.

This shite is why “single parents” is the new ABC show.
Posted by StupidBinder
Jawja
Member since Oct 2017
6392 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:14 am to
quote:

Nah. She’s just a filthy whore. OP is just naive. Hasn’t had many girlfriends and therefore hasn’t had a girlfriend cheat on him before.


I’m not sure that we can make that assumption. The OP was really short on information. We don’t understand the nature or length of their relationship. Didn’t mention why she said she was leaving. Didn’t mention anything that he might have done or said. No arguments that preceded the split. Didn’t mention any other potentially odd behavior from the girl leading up to this.

It’s just as likely that the OP himself is depressed after the passing of his family member and she doesn’t know how to deal with that.
Posted by Martini
Near Athens
Member since Mar 2005
49603 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:18 am to
Punch her in the stomach then find another girl to put your wiener in.
Posted by lsu1919
Member since May 2017
3244 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:20 am to
quote:

Impossible. She would have never had the time, and the time of pregnancy timing is exactly what we thought it would be.


You came here for advice. So do yourself a favor and take some. Make sure that you are 100% the father by getting tested medically. Do it. It will hurt her feelings but honestly it sounds like that won’t make much of a difference at this point.

If you’re the father you know and can move forward. If you’re not the father you know and can run.

I know you think this is a bad idea, but it’s not. You’ll kick yourself in a few years for not doing this now.

DO NOT trust this woman if she just did a 180 on you. Usually if a women is worried about how a guy will react and the guy is happy then it makes the woman comfortable. Something is up.
Posted by Perrydawg
Middle Ga Area
Member since Jan 2014
5053 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:21 am to
quote:

Had a death in the family from a drug problem . I'm dealing with that okay but frick me.

The woman I love is pregnant with my kid and she immediately did a 180 and all of a sudden no longer wants to be with me.

This fricking sucks guys. Everything was great. I had it layed out and a future planned with this girl so I could give this kid the life I never dreamed if having as a kid but she's straight done with me.

I don't understand how someone could straight leave the father so easily. What's it going to be like attending doctors appointments with her, or delivering the baby. It's supposed to be a special moment, and I can't even imagine what it'll be like doing this separated.

I grew up wondering why my parents hated each other and my child is going to do the same. No matter what I say or do she won't give me a second anymore.

I seriously love this girl, and it looks like I'll never have her again. She's only 6 weeks in, and I'm supposed to be taking care of her. Me.

It hurts like a motherfricker . Everyone tells me she'll come around but I don't see it at all.

Vent over..fml


I am sure it has been said, but more than likely it aint your kid
Posted by Tiger Prawn
Member since Dec 2016
25034 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:21 am to
How long were you in a relationship with this woman for?

Bitches be crazy. But hormonal bitches be extra crazy. Maybe she’s just having a hard time adjusting to pregnancy hormone changes and will come around once she adjusts. But definitely get a paternity test to make sure its your kid. Seems sketchy for her to suddenly up and leave right after finding out she’s pregnant. She probably doesn’t want you in the delivery room and all your family in the waiting room only to be surprised when the baby comes out looking like Jody
Posted by stat19
Member since Feb 2011
29350 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:28 am to
Kiss her arse and she'll never come around.

Drop her arse, she'll be back.
Posted by Ricardo
Member since Sep 2016
6169 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:33 am to
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This post was edited on 6/14/20 at 9:29 pm
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
22281 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:36 am to
You know what would make it a whole lot better?

Posting some pics of this bitch!

(4 fricking pages and no pic request yet? WTF?)
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:37 am to
I just don’t understand how people in 2018 still can’t grasp how birth control works.

With all the different options available now...you would think more would get it.


ETA: You are also a complete fool if you 100% place your trust with just one single form of birth control. Condoms break, women forget the pill. Pull out with both of those and you better protect against an unwanted pregnancy.

Basically...if you don’t want a kid....always, always, always pull out.
This post was edited on 9/27/18 at 9:40 am
Posted by 13SaintTiger
Isle of Capri
Member since Sep 2011
18371 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:37 am to
quote:


I am amazed at he naïveté of some of the responses on here. You are facing $750,000 in pretax dollars in child support, tuition, healthcare, summer camps and ballet lessons over the next two decades. You will be fighting a female friendly legal system that doesn't give a single rats arse about the rights of the father because all men are abusive assholes. She has had her lifelong dream of childbirth and motherhood fulfilled without having to put up with a husband who,will tell her to quit wasting money and bother her for sex all the time. Lawyer up, minimize, in any legal way possible, the money you will have to pay her. Insist that the lawyer go balls to the wall for as much custody time with the child as possible because you can be assured that, no matter what any touchy-feely men wussies and women on here tell you, the child's mother will use every moment you are not with the kid trying to convince him/her that you are the biggest a-hole ever born. Fact.


Finally a voice of reason. Dude is fricked no matter what. It’s mind boggling that women have the power to do something like this.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32980 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:40 am to
It's probably not your baby and she knows it.

Do not sign that birth certificate without a blood test first.
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