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re: I'm struggling and this is probably the worst fricking place to vent but I'm doing it anywa
Posted on 9/27/18 at 6:24 am to Tdogg78
Posted on 9/27/18 at 6:24 am to Tdogg78
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Perhaps try focusing on her?
this is the opposite of what you should be doing.
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Women are attention whores
only weak ones with issues.
don't speak to her for 3 weeks. like, no communication at all. then ask her to meet, and calmly ask to meet to talk about what's going to happen with the baby. at this point, she'll either tell you she messed up and she wants to be with you, or she won't.
it's really that simple, don't complicate it or in any way try to convince her to be with you.
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Posted on 9/27/18 at 6:30 am to GeauxTigerNation
That's what you deserve for having a kid before you get married.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 6:34 am to TheMailman
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That’s what you deserve for having a kid before marriage
You should have been more responsible and PIIHB
Posted on 9/27/18 at 6:38 am to TheMailman
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That's what you deserve for having a kid before you get married.
since OP failed to take precaution, he deserves to be separate from the mother of his child? i fail to comprehend this line of reasoning.
in this case, it's better to never be married and be friendly and nice to each other than it is to be married and hate each other's guts.
I agree OP and ol gal should have been more responsible, but it doesn't really matter now.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 6:38 am to GeauxTigerNation
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Had a death in the family from a drug problem . I'm dealing with that okay but frick me.
Going through the same, over a year later and it’s worse than ever for me. Sucks man, I feel your pain. Hope you find some peace
Posted on 9/27/18 at 6:39 am to GeauxTigerNation
Abortion or adoption is your best choice.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 6:41 am to MrSmith65
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Abortion
Good call
Posted on 9/27/18 at 6:46 am to GeauxTigerNation
Keep your head up man...both of them.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 6:48 am to MrSmith65
Heard a female family court judge here in south LA speak at a gathering last week. At one point she spoke on some brain science research that the publishers or researchers used family courts to run studies on.
The incidence of violence, predisposition to crime, mental illness, diabetes and suicide is all traceable back to the family unit and how many parents are in it. But divorce wasn’t what created the single child rearing parent which led to the issues.
It was one parent checking out. In Louisiana, 90% of custody cases end with the Mom taking domicilary rights. So it ain them. Our antiquated social views that Momma raises them best forces their buy in. No, it’s usually Daddy. She admitted Moms usually give them hell until they cut the check and check out.
So take that with a grain of salt. May have been a glorified stump speech from that female judge. But don’t be the Dad that checks out. Find a way to be involved in your kids life. Be that 2nd parent. Not just an every other weekend babysitter and source of supplemental income for the next 20 years or so.
Good luck.
The incidence of violence, predisposition to crime, mental illness, diabetes and suicide is all traceable back to the family unit and how many parents are in it. But divorce wasn’t what created the single child rearing parent which led to the issues.
It was one parent checking out. In Louisiana, 90% of custody cases end with the Mom taking domicilary rights. So it ain them. Our antiquated social views that Momma raises them best forces their buy in. No, it’s usually Daddy. She admitted Moms usually give them hell until they cut the check and check out.
So take that with a grain of salt. May have been a glorified stump speech from that female judge. But don’t be the Dad that checks out. Find a way to be involved in your kids life. Be that 2nd parent. Not just an every other weekend babysitter and source of supplemental income for the next 20 years or so.
Good luck.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 6:49 am to Bullfrog
Bingo. Court papers in route
Posted on 9/27/18 at 6:49 am to GeauxTigerNation
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The woman I love is pregnant with my kid and she immediately did a 180 and all of a sudden no longer wants to be with me.
She knows that kid will come out a different race, not your kid baw
Posted on 9/27/18 at 6:50 am to GeauxTigerNation
Play the he who cares the least card for a while. Ignore calls and texts for a month or two and don't try any communication with her. Obviously not forever as now you have a connection forever with the child.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 6:52 am to GeauxTigerNation
While it's not always the best thing, I'm glad I'm a sociopath and have never wanted to reproduce or be with someone to share a life.
It seems nauseating and exhausting.
I'm fine being alone all the time and wouldn't have three seconds to bother with people's feelings.
Sorry for you but not sorry.
It seems nauseating and exhausting.
I'm fine being alone all the time and wouldn't have three seconds to bother with people's feelings.
Sorry for you but not sorry.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 6:56 am to GFunk
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90% of custody cases end with the Mom taking domicilary rights. So it ain them. Our antiquated social views that Momma raises them best forces their buy in. No, it’s usually Daddy. She admitted Moms usually give them hell until they cut the check and check out.
And yet women initiate the overwhelming majority of divorces. It is them, and our overly feminized society. Don’t be a white knight.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 6:57 am to GeauxTigerNation
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The woman I love is pregnant with my kid and she immediately did a 180 and all of a sudden no longer wants to be with me.
Hate to tell you this, but that probably isn’t your kid she’s carrying.
Make sure you get a paternity test.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 6:57 am to Pahnew
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She knows that kid will come out a different race, not your kid baw
In all seriousness, it could very well be the case that the kid isn’t the OP’s.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 6:57 am to Pahnew
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Kid will come out a different race
Boom!
Her sudden change of heart is directly related to her recent cock-gobbling. You fell in love with a filthy whore.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 6:59 am to The Goat
Posted on 9/27/18 at 6:59 am to GeauxTigerNation
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GeauxTigerNation
Follow up questions.
How old are you?
How old is she?
What reason is she giving you for leaving? (I cannot believe that she just threw up the duces one day out of the blue).
My guess (as others have said) is that she’s probably a little freaked out (particularly if she or both of you are young). Maybe it’s in her head, maybe it’s somwthing you’ve said or done, maybe even inadvertently.
Posted on 9/27/18 at 7:00 am to StupidBinder
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