re: "I was the other woman. Now I'm the wife"

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quote: but they still need to be just as hot as the one you're cheating on...or close Doesn't always work that way, though you would think it would. Many times people are looking in totally different things from "the other woman" (or man) than they are the spouse.



The rush is pretty strong, It's something difficult for people to just stop doing.

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It's the illicitness of it that makes it attractive in the first place. It's forbidden fruit. It's clandestine, dangerous, and has to exist in the shadows. The shadows conceal the problems, because it's a "hurry up and come, and then go." Situation. You don't see all the flaws in a person that way. You don't have to deal with their shite. It's the high of riding the moment that you know won't last.

That isn't no lie. My ex wife cheated with her high school boyfriend 2 years ago while he was married (they are now divorced). The dude is still banging his ex and my ex doesn't want to believe it. Crazy, people don't realize if he cheats with you, he will cheat on you.

Sounds like an awful awful woman. I wish her misery and misfortune.