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re: I was adopted and at my fathers grave site had a stone with all of his children
Posted on 8/30/14 at 12:30 pm to wal marks
Posted on 8/30/14 at 12:30 pm to wal marks
That is a mean thing to do to you and I'm sure it was intended to hurt you. When someone is so hateful and spiteful, the natural reaction is to retaliate.
It is really hard in that situation to RESPOND rather than REACT.
The response that will give you power is to:
FORGIVE THEM..
Holding a grudge is pointless.
Honor your father by treating everyone like you want to be treated.
It's amazing how freeing forgiveness is. Nothing anyone else does can take away your connection with your father.
It is really hard in that situation to RESPOND rather than REACT.
The response that will give you power is to:
FORGIVE THEM..
Holding a grudge is pointless.
Honor your father by treating everyone like you want to be treated.
It's amazing how freeing forgiveness is. Nothing anyone else does can take away your connection with your father.
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Posted on 8/30/14 at 12:30 pm to ShermanTxTiger
You definitely should be mad When I first read the title I thought you meant your bio father, but this dude raised you since birth. He's your father and your shitty fricking sister should be beat.
Posted on 8/30/14 at 1:27 pm to tylercsbn9
Dude did not say whether his late father's wife (his mother) was a second wife and not the mother of the other siblings. I suspect as much at this time.
Posted on 8/30/14 at 1:34 pm to wal marks
quote:
There is a spot for me on there but my count of a sister has always hated me I didn't realize till now how bad
Pay to have it carved yourself.
Like a boss...
Posted on 8/30/14 at 1:39 pm to makersmark1
quote:
FORGIVE THEM..
Holding a grudge is pointless.
Honor your father by treating everyone like you want to be treated.
It's amazing how freeing forgiveness is. Nothing anyone else does can take away your connection with your father.
Well said.
Posted on 8/30/14 at 3:25 pm to wal marks
quote:
should I be mad?
Yes .... but you can have it added. That will REALLY piss off sis.
This post was edited on 8/30/14 at 3:29 pm
Posted on 8/30/14 at 3:26 pm to wal marks
That sucks man, get a sharpie and fix the problem. Or maybe they are just pissed because he loved you more
Posted on 8/30/14 at 8:25 pm to wal marks
So who's responsible for the names on his tombstone? Adopted or not you're still his son. Is there some animosity among your siblings?
Posted on 8/31/14 at 1:48 am to wal marks
I've never seen a headstone with the children of the deceased engraved on it. Can't even recall seeing one with the spouse's name on it. But these days you never know.
Posted on 8/31/14 at 2:12 am to wal marks
That would hurt. I probably couldn't help but be mad.
Posted on 8/31/14 at 2:15 am to vjp819
My grandfather has his children's names on his. Maybe it's an older generation thing. He would be 94 if he were still alive.
Posted on 8/31/14 at 2:18 am to wal marks
In some cultures, being adopted is a stronger unbreakable bond than blood-children.
Posted on 8/31/14 at 2:31 am to wal marks
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my count of a sister
There's one in many a family.
Posted on 8/31/14 at 2:36 am to wal marks
quote:
There is a spot for me on there but my count of a sister has always hated me I didn't realize till now how bad
Spray paint your name on there. i would.
Posted on 8/31/14 at 6:47 am to CT
quote:
Do you have a Dremmel?
+1 but do a John Hancock on that bitch.
Posted on 8/31/14 at 7:39 am to makersmark1
quote:
It is really hard in that situation to RESPOND rather than REACT.
The response that will give you power is to:
FORGIVE THEM..
Holding a grudge is pointless.
Honor your father by treating everyone like you want to be treated.
It's amazing how freeing forgiveness is. Nothing anyone else does can take away your connection with your father.
All of this.
Posted on 8/31/14 at 8:46 am to Methuselah
quote:my first thought as well after reading OP. I have never seen the deceased's kids names listed on a headstone.
I don't think many headstones even list the names of the deceased children.
Posted on 8/31/14 at 8:55 am to WaltTeevens
Im a idiot.. i read it as you are adopted but at your birth fathers grave there was a stone.. you meant at your adopted fathers grave there is a stone 
i would be pissed at the siblings not my father. As long as he loved me and treatsd me like his own i wouldnt be mad at him.
i would be pissed at the siblings not my father. As long as he loved me and treatsd me like his own i wouldnt be mad at him.
Posted on 8/31/14 at 9:01 am to tigerfan 33
I am sure this entertained you.Posted on 8/31/14 at 9:01 am to kywildcatfanone
Actually the best response may be no response at all. The sister will be looking to get some sort of entertainment value out of your anger over this.
If you ignore it, she will be denied it. You know the truth. And I would never EVER EVER sell that land.
If you ignore it, she will be denied it. You know the truth. And I would never EVER EVER sell that land.
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