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re: I was 100% sure my wife was going to say "yes" when I proposed
Posted on 11/30/18 at 12:57 pm to tiggerthetooth
Posted on 11/30/18 at 12:57 pm to tiggerthetooth
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There are honestly a decent amount of good dudes in good relationships that get turned down.
True, but that's still their fault.
Asking a girl to formally marry you shouldn't be something that comes out of the blue. It should be well-established beforehand.
The actual proposal is really just a nice occasion to celebrate making the engagement official. It shouldn't be "the big moment" when you find out whether she wants to marry you or not. That question should've already been long-answered.
This post was edited on 11/30/18 at 1:06 pm
Posted on 11/30/18 at 12:57 pm to The Mick
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I was 100% sure as well.......
whoa... that just triggered a flashback of a scare I had with my gf in hs
Posted on 11/30/18 at 12:58 pm to DavidTheGnome
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I asked my ex wife right after fricking and I was still I her. Had the ring under the bed and pulled grabbed it and asked her and she said yes. 100% true story too
This has to be the trashiest Alabama shite i've read all day
Posted on 11/30/18 at 1:13 pm to Wayne Kenoff
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Message I was 100% sure my wife was going to say "yes" when I proposed
I had already booked the venue with my husband’s credit card before he proposed. I was that sure he was going to propose.

Posted on 11/30/18 at 1:16 pm to tiggerthetooth
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There are honestly a decent amount of good dudes in good relationships that get turned down. Why you ask? Because women are nuts. They dont really have a clue what they want.
They change their mind from day to day, then settle for the jackass who’s unemployed and has a kid. Seen it more times than I can count.
Posted on 11/30/18 at 1:23 pm to Wayne Kenoff
Grandpaw used to always say that it's hard for them to say "No" when they are wrapped up and bound inside a roll of carpet and gagged with duct tape.
He served life for doing that.
But, after Grandmaw got run over by a reindeer, Grandpaw went off his rocker just a bit.
He served life for doing that.
But, after Grandmaw got run over by a reindeer, Grandpaw went off his rocker just a bit.
This post was edited on 11/30/18 at 1:31 pm
Posted on 11/30/18 at 1:32 pm to Godfather1
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Yeah. None of this ever happened
But it did.
Posted on 11/30/18 at 1:33 pm to Wayne Kenoff
That's funny. I just had this conversation with my 13 yr old daughter and it went pretty much like that. "Yea, that is just for movies babe. In real life no man is going to ask you to marry him unless he knows you're going to say yes." And just among guys, what kind of man asks any question he doesn't already know the answer to? I must qualify that with When questioning a woman..
This post was edited on 11/30/18 at 1:34 pm
Posted on 11/30/18 at 1:43 pm to Cump11b
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I asked my ex wife right after fricking and I was still I her. Had the ring under the bed and pulled grabbed it and asked her and she said "Did you ask dad first?". 100% true story too
This has to be the trashiest Alabama shite i've read all day
FIFY. NOW it's the most Alabama thing you've read all day.
Posted on 11/30/18 at 1:54 pm to jcaz
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It’s wrong to put a girl on the spot like that.
A proposal should be a pleasant surprising formality.
Isn't a surprise putting someone on the spot as well?
Posted on 11/30/18 at 2:12 pm to Wayne Kenoff
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"Did you ask dad first?"
Posted on 11/30/18 at 2:23 pm to Wayne Kenoff
People lie or not completely honest.
I suspect a lot of the no’s happen because the time of truth is at hand and they really are not ready to make that commitment. I don’t think it’s as cut and dry as you are suggesting.
I suspect a lot of the no’s happen because the time of truth is at hand and they really are not ready to make that commitment. I don’t think it’s as cut and dry as you are suggesting.
Posted on 11/30/18 at 2:25 pm to DavidTheGnome
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But it did.
No it didn’t.
Posted on 11/30/18 at 2:30 pm to Wayne Kenoff
My wife picked out her ring so I really didn't propose.
Posted on 11/30/18 at 2:32 pm to Wayne Kenoff
well i did it in the ice rink at rockerfeller center wired up knowing we were going to be featured on '30 rock' in prime time on NBC the thursday before christmas so yeah, i had to be pretty confident she was going to say yes 
This post was edited on 11/30/18 at 2:37 pm
Posted on 11/30/18 at 2:34 pm to udtiger
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It’s wrong to put a girl on the spot like that.
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Considering my wife told me it was about time I proposed to her,
Yet this is totally acceptable.
Posted on 12/1/18 at 9:49 am to Wayne Kenoff
Here's my easy fix: present your Proposal as a hypothetical question OR the venerable "Asking for a friend".
"Hypothetically speaking, if I were to Propose to you right now, what's your best guess WRT your answer?"
"A friend of mine would like to know what your answer would be if I were to Propose to you right now. So, what's your best guess WRT what your answer would be?"
Too easy. Problem solved.
PS I always use these techniques when I Propose.
"Hypothetically speaking, if I were to Propose to you right now, what's your best guess WRT your answer?"
"A friend of mine would like to know what your answer would be if I were to Propose to you right now. So, what's your best guess WRT what your answer would be?"
Too easy. Problem solved.
PS I always use these techniques when I Propose.
Posted on 12/1/18 at 9:50 am to Wayne Kenoff
same - I had no fear my wife would say anything other than yes. but we also got to know each other for 3 years prior to me proposing and we both knew by that point we were going to be together.
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