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re: "I wanted my son to reject masculine stereotypes. Then he fell in love with tractors"

Posted on 4/25/22 at 2:34 pm to
Posted by IAmNERD
Member since May 2017
24251 posts
Posted on 4/25/22 at 2:34 pm to
That dude did not wear that at his fricking wedding...

He looks like a pimp straight out of a blacksploitation 70s movie yet he's going on and on about feminism and masculinity?

This might be a troll...
Posted by LordSaintly
Member since Dec 2005
43202 posts
Posted on 4/25/22 at 2:34 pm to
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Like she expected me to catch something on fire in the process.



There are men who refuse to change a single diaper.
Posted by prplhze2000
Parts Unknown
Member since Jan 2007
58219 posts
Posted on 4/25/22 at 2:49 pm to
Too bad they don't live down here. I'd sneak a BB gun to that kid when he turned 10.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
134660 posts
Posted on 4/25/22 at 2:51 pm to
He’s got the whole Shaun King thing going on
Posted by BayouBengal51
Forest Hill, Louisiana
Member since Nov 2006
9784 posts
Posted on 4/25/22 at 2:52 pm to
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That first "real man" handshake from your grandfather or father can mean just as much, if not more, than a hug to say goodbye or something.


My grandfather started shaking my hand when I was 12 instead of just saying high or or how you doing son? I had been working on the farm with my dad a few years at the point and had begun to take on more and more responsibilities including some duties with the cattle, which was my grandfather's domain.

His handshake became his standard greeting for me up until the day he died and meant a lot to me to earn that handshake. I'd give anything to see him today and get one more handshake. He passed away in 2015 and I miss those greetings.
Posted by RT1941
Member since May 2007
32090 posts
Posted on 4/25/22 at 2:53 pm to
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I think it's crazy that guys don't help. I never even had the thought to sit back and not do a damn thing.

This is a generational shift IMO. My grandfather's would've never changed a diaper. Fast forward a generation and my dad would've reluctantly helped with a baby. Fast forward another generation and I was a very hands on father up to the point of explosive diarrhea, then I had to bow out and give it to the wife.

Things change, ideals change and to make assertions that all men are frigid or distant and cold in this day and age is asinine. To intentionally "nudge" your son to reject masculine stereotypes while you urge him to walk through the park pushing his baby doll in a toy stroller and act like a proud dad is idiotic.

Posted by BayouBengal51
Forest Hill, Louisiana
Member since Nov 2006
9784 posts
Posted on 4/25/22 at 2:54 pm to
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Too bad they don't live down here. I'd sneak a BB gun to that kid when he turned 10.




Hell feed him a real steak too. He has probably never had one with his upbringing. Might make him grow 2 feet taller and he'll go home and smack some sense into his old man.
Posted by RT1941
Member since May 2007
32090 posts
Posted on 4/25/22 at 2:59 pm to
quote:


My grandfather started shaking my hand when I was 12 instead of just saying high or or how you doing son? I had been working on the farm with my dad a few years at the point and had begun to take on more and more responsibilities including some duties with the cattle, which was my grandfather's domain.

His handshake became his standard greeting for me up until the day he died and meant a lot to me to earn that handshake. I'd give anything to see him today and get one more handshake. He passed away in 2015 and I miss those greetings.
I had a similar relationship with my grandfather. They made impression we'll never forget.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
105316 posts
Posted on 4/25/22 at 3:11 pm to
If you read all the way to the end he accepts his son's typically masculine traits. The guys bubble may be a little off center but he's not totally out to lunch. Anyway, he knew how to get clicks by writing an article that pisses people off. It may or may not reflect his real family dynamic.
This post was edited on 4/25/22 at 3:16 pm
Posted by Pepperoni
Mar-a-Lago
Member since Aug 2013
4277 posts
Posted on 4/25/22 at 3:21 pm to
And you left out the best part, the image caption.....


quote:

The author and his son as a baby. Courtesy Jay Deitcher


This post was edited on 4/25/22 at 3:26 pm
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
84759 posts
Posted on 4/25/22 at 3:40 pm to
quote:

If you read all the way to the end he accepts his son's typically masculine traits.


Still a sad article assuming this isn’t a troll. Sad that such people exist. This guy does social work, whatever that specifically means. He’s the type who should not be around children and his type is the reason Florida even had to pass a law.
Posted by HonoraryCoonass
Member since Jan 2005
20204 posts
Posted on 4/25/22 at 4:37 pm to
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she's very pretty, wasn't expecting that. wtf is she doing with that fool?


There’s no way she could be attracted to that loser unless she had some whacko ideas of her own.
Posted by Bubb
Member since Mar 2010
4295 posts
Posted on 4/25/22 at 7:39 pm to
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Dollar General Blippi


This post was edited on 4/25/22 at 7:49 pm
Posted by jrobic4
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2011
13299 posts
Posted on 4/25/22 at 7:43 pm to
quote:

cut my hours at my social work gig


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