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re: How to handle a jealous person?

Posted on 8/14/15 at 12:33 pm to
Posted by bird35
Georgia
Member since Sep 2012
13736 posts
Posted on 8/14/15 at 12:33 pm to
A person is not jealous because they care about you. A person is jealous because they are selfish.

RUN!!!!!
Posted by LSU8654722
Member since Apr 2014
1495 posts
Posted on 8/14/15 at 12:33 pm to
Tell them to grow up

Or ask what experience, be it in the past or with you, caused them to be so mistrusting.
Posted by CoachChappy
Member since May 2013
34343 posts
Posted on 8/14/15 at 12:34 pm to
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I need something, I'll bang your wife for it.

Net is the new Tyrone
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
85586 posts
Posted on 8/14/15 at 12:35 pm to
Have you tried anal?
Posted by Paige
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Member since Oct 2010
85640 posts
Posted on 8/14/15 at 12:35 pm to
I agree. I guess my question is can these people get better and how do you help them do it?
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
68469 posts
Posted on 8/14/15 at 12:35 pm to
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Never. But I've been trying to give my friend advice and I just keep telling her to say get over it and don't bring it up again or it's over


My advice? Tell your friend not to date people that know every intimate detail of "her" past. If she's a known slut to the school, she'll still be known as a slut at her 20th Class Reunion... Get my drift?
This post was edited on 8/14/15 at 12:36 pm
Posted by Slinky
Member since Dec 2013
3118 posts
Posted on 8/14/15 at 12:35 pm to
quote:

Killing yourself is the only answer.


:kige:
Posted by DaTroof
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2015
992 posts
Posted on 8/14/15 at 12:36 pm to
Is it your husband or your boyfriend, and why is he so suspicious???
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
85640 posts
Posted on 8/14/15 at 12:36 pm to
not me. I took a dating hiatus while in therapy

And ty gent
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 8/14/15 at 12:37 pm to
I'm not gonna read this whole thing, but did anyone suggest a facial tattoo? I've heard those can help.
Posted by CoachChappy
Member since May 2013
34343 posts
Posted on 8/14/15 at 12:37 pm to
quote:

by Paige
I agree. I guess my question is can these people get better and how do you help them do it?



No they can't. Jealousy is due to insecurity generally. RUN
Posted by Titus Pullo
MTDGA
Member since Feb 2011
28567 posts
Posted on 8/14/15 at 12:38 pm to
I wouldn't.

I don't go thru my bitch's phone or purse, etc and she doesn't go thru my phone/wallet/pockets. My phone stays locked anyway.

If she does find out about something I didn't tell her about then I don't discuss it with her period.

Posted by tigerdup07
Member since Dec 2007
22268 posts
Posted on 8/14/15 at 12:39 pm to
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trying to give my friend advice and I just keep telling her to say get over it and don't bring it up again or it's over


sounds to me that your friend fricked up and he actually might have a reason to be jealous.
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 8/14/15 at 12:40 pm to
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Jealousy is due to insecurity generally.


Wrong, jealousy is the most primal form of love. Just go with it, he's only concerned because he cares.

Hell, I hook Mrs P up to a polygraph every other month to see if she's cheating. It's just prudent.
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
68469 posts
Posted on 8/14/15 at 12:40 pm to
quote:

sounds to me that your friend fricked up and he actually might have a reason to be jealous.


Yup. These "two" will never make it.
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
85640 posts
Posted on 8/14/15 at 12:40 pm to
I completely agree. I've never experienced this. I'd never let anyone go through my phone or email. But she's trying to prove that she has nothing to hide.

I don't think giving into and enabling him is the most effective way to curb the behavior. Just wondering if y'all ever dated a jealous person and had any success with getting them to chill out
Posted by chRxis
None of your fricking business
Member since Feb 2008
28276 posts
Posted on 8/14/15 at 12:41 pm to
if i were you, i'd email nudes of myself to random strangers on a message board... that'll show 'em...
Posted by Jakesonaplane
Denver
Member since Nov 2010
7313 posts
Posted on 8/14/15 at 12:42 pm to
if i were you, i'd email nudes of myself to random strangers on a message board... that'll show 'em...
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 8/14/15 at 12:42 pm to
quote:

I've been trying to give my friend advice

quote:

I'm quick to break up


The best advice you could give your friend is to find someone else to get advice from.
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
68469 posts
Posted on 8/14/15 at 12:42 pm to
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This post was edited on 8/14/15 at 12:44 pm
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