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re: How far is too far?

Posted on 10/6/14 at 1:00 pm to
Posted by LSU1NSEC
Member since Sep 2007
17243 posts
Posted on 10/6/14 at 1:00 pm to
pack her shyt and bring it to the guy's house. tell him she's his problem now
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136980 posts
Posted on 10/6/14 at 1:01 pm to
quote:

Check text messages on here phone when she is not around every now and then
oh hell no

dont mess with my phone
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
30191 posts
Posted on 10/6/14 at 1:01 pm to
Be a calculating adult and not an emotional child. Get a PI and then an attorney. Life is a game. Play to win.
Posted by SouthOfSouth
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2008
43480 posts
Posted on 10/6/14 at 1:03 pm to
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Yeah, certainly don't confront the dude who is scummy enough to shoot ropes in your wife/GF/Sister


Why confront some random that you THINK is "shooting ropes" into your SO without even knowing?
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
36791 posts
Posted on 10/6/14 at 1:05 pm to
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Do you confront the guy or girl to confirm your suspicion? How do you confront them if so?


yes. you walk right up to them and ask them if they are cheating. Because they will certainly give you an honest answer.

as suggested, hire a PI. If you can't afford one, look for spyware/apps you can load on the person's phone.

Or just say frick it, let this shite play out. you'll get an answer soon enough.

What do you plan to do if said people are cheating?
Posted by Mootsman
Charlotte, NC
Member since Oct 2012
6025 posts
Posted on 10/6/14 at 1:05 pm to
Send them a fb message.
Posted by The People
LSU Alumni
Member since Aug 2008
4221 posts
Posted on 10/6/14 at 1:08 pm to
Send her some flowers at work with a message along the lines of "thinking of you today".

If she doesn't mention the flowers when she gets home, you will have your answer.
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
58064 posts
Posted on 10/6/14 at 1:09 pm to
They will always project. Admit something small to her like you fantasized about another woman and act really torn up about it, then gauge her reaction. Hell she might even just come out and say she's cheating.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84091 posts
Posted on 10/6/14 at 1:09 pm to
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Send her some flowers at work with a message along the lines of "thinking of you today".

If she doesn't mention the flowers when she gets home, you will have your answer.


Muhahahaha sneaky
Posted by DawgCountry
Great State of GA
Member since Sep 2012
30620 posts
Posted on 10/6/14 at 1:10 pm to
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Don't confront some dude that isn't cheating. Confront the cheater.

Posted by Chaz95
Dallas, Texas
Member since Nov 2007
19503 posts
Posted on 10/6/14 at 1:10 pm to
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You suspect Your wife, SO, mistress, or whatever other label of cheating


Obviously, each of these need to be handled completely differently.

I know it sounds macho to confront the dude, but it's the woman who needs to be confronted...
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 10/6/14 at 1:11 pm to
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Hire a PI.


Why would you wait til after you're suspicious to hire a PI? By then the damage is done, you might already have a VD. You should have hired the PI at the beginning of the relationship and had peace of mind the whole time.
Posted by Spaulding Smails
Milano’s Bar
Member since Jun 2012
18805 posts
Posted on 10/6/14 at 1:11 pm to
Because it shows dominance and sets the tone with your SO that you aren't a coward and will take on anyone, headstrong
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 10/6/14 at 1:12 pm to
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Those guys are a scam.

concur
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136980 posts
Posted on 10/6/14 at 1:12 pm to
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Why would you wait til after you're suspicious to hire a PI? By then the damage is done, you might already have a VD. You should have hired the PI at the beginning of the relationship and had peace of mind the whole time.

the Voice of Reason strikes again
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 10/6/14 at 1:13 pm to
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Send her some flowers at work with a message along the lines of "thinking of you today".

not bad, not bad at all

ETA: disregard
This post was edited on 10/6/14 at 1:14 pm
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 10/6/14 at 1:13 pm to



Reddit did it!!
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84091 posts
Posted on 10/6/14 at 1:13 pm to
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Why would you wait til after you're suspicious to hire a PI? By then the damage is done, you might already have a VD. You should have hired the PI at the beginning of the relationship and had peace of mind the whole time.



I would be a billionaire by now if you were my life coach.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 10/6/14 at 1:13 pm to
quote:

Why would you wait til after you're suspicious to hire a PI? By then the damage is done, you might already have a VD. You should have hired the PI at the beginning of the relationship and had peace of mind the whole time.



Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84091 posts
Posted on 10/6/14 at 1:14 pm to
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concur


They're awful. "Oh, the light wasn't that great. I couldn't get close enough to catch them this time, but NEXT time we'll get them. By the way, I need another $5,000."
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