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re: How can you help a child make friends?

Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:24 am to
Posted by Dorothy
Munchkinland
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Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:24 am to
Is he short like you?
Posted by TexasTiger01
Lake Houston
Member since Nov 2013
3215 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:24 am to
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trying to get him in flag football if mom let me. I need to see how he interacts with other kids.


Solid move
Posted by GeeOH
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2013
13376 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:24 am to
Is your father still in your lives?

Read my prior post, if something isn't done, he will attach to any loser who tries to befriend him.....probably drugs-type
Posted by Black n Gold
Member since Feb 2009
15822 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:25 am to
Throw up a basketball goal in your driveway. Kids will flock to it like flies to garbage.
Posted by The Goon Squad
Member since Jul 2014
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Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:25 am to
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Is your father still in your lives?


No
Posted by Jack Daniel
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Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:27 am to
The signing up for organized sports will only work if he's good and athletic. If he has never played sports at age 11 it may backfire
Posted by TXGunslinger10
Houston, TX
Member since Jun 2011
18122 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:29 am to
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The signing up for organized sports will only work if he's good and athletic. If he has never played sports at age 11 it may backfire


Exactly why I said this...

quote:

Organized sports is a great idea.

Is he any good? Be prepared to work with him to get to where he's decent. He may have the same problem if he's on a sports team and the kids are jackasses and outcast him because he sucks. Do whatever you can to help him
This post was edited on 7/8/14 at 11:30 am
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
22281 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:35 am to
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Our neighbor kids are weird, and his classmates ( he goes to a gifted school in BR) are kinda weird too.


Here's a hint: If you think everyone around you is weird, you're the weird one.
Posted by The Goon Squad
Member since Jul 2014
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Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:37 am to
Believe me, theyre weird. SOme of the asian and white kids in class cry everyday and like to create drama. They steal food and dont give it back until you tell another kid you wont talk to him again. Our neighbors just sit inside all day. they go to private school.
Posted by trom83
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2013
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Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:39 am to
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
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Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:40 am to
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He likes sports


Get him involved in some sort of club ball.
Posted by Black n Gold
Member since Feb 2009
15822 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:40 am to
Sounds to me like there is plenty of room at the top of that throne. Convince him to use their weirdness to his favor. Weird friends are betetr than no friends.
This post was edited on 7/8/14 at 11:41 am
Posted by CanShakersDecayedNut
Member since Sep 2006
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Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:44 am to
honestly, when it comes to making friends on the sports teams and really becoming close friends, the parents need to take an active role. If you're a parent who just drops the kid off then comes back and picks them up then it's unlikely the kid will be invited to hang at other kids house because the parents don't know each other.
Posted by Black n Gold
Member since Feb 2009
15822 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:45 am to
Very true. Coach one of his teams if you have enough time. All the kids will think he's cool by association.
Posted by Jack Daniel
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28626 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:45 am to
Start beating up the weird kids. Everybody likes a bully
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
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Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:46 am to
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If I was 11 and you were my older brother and you tried making me read. I would tell you to suck a bag of dicks

It simply was not optional in my home. Neither was playing outside.
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
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Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:47 am to
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honestly, when it comes to making friends on the sports teams and really becoming close friends, the parents need to take an active role. If you're a parent who just drops the kid off then comes back and picks them up then it's unlikely the kid will be invited to hang at other kids house because the parents don't know each other.



A lot of truth right here. If you treat a kid's sports team like a babysitter, you'll generally get the same results you would from dropping them off at the babysitter's.
Posted by Brageous
Member since Jul 2008
107724 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:47 am to
get him to play as many different organized sports and see what happens

boy scouts isn't a bad idea, either

probably the best ways to interact with other kids his age
Posted by Black n Gold
Member since Feb 2009
15822 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:52 am to
I wouldn't call other kids weird around him. He'll be much more inclined to make friends, even the weird ones, if he doesn't think you're judging him by who he hangs out with.
Posted by tigersownall
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2011
16639 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:57 am to
Do people make fun of him? I find it hard to believe not making friends at school. I went to a high school where I knew absolutely no one. By the time I graduated I was essentially friends with everyone in my class. Even the ones that looked like they might bring a gun to school and start blazing. Tell him to start working on his 6 pack and focus on the hoes.
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