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re: How can you help a child make friends?

Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:14 am to
Posted by LSUTygerFan
Homerun Village
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Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:14 am to
teach by example. my kids have seen me make friends and they have no problem making friends of their own.
Posted by Geauxld Finger
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2005
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Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:15 am to
get him in some organized sports, soccer, baseball, etc
This post was edited on 7/8/14 at 11:15 am
Posted by The Goon Squad
Member since Jul 2014
43 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:15 am to
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Yes. Get him involved in little league or boy scouts.



Can you do Boy scouts if you never did cub scouts? And he is going to middle school next year. Hopeflly he makes friends. Hell, even I had 2 best friends at his age.
Posted by Turkey_Creek_Tiger
Member since Dec 2012
12343 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:15 am to
There are dozens of tips I could give him as I struggled with the same problem during my childhood. The most important thing you can do is ALWAYS smile. His default look is probably not very happy looking, and most people wont assert themselves in conversations with people who dont look very happy. This may sound stupid to most of you, but for some people such as myself this can be a lifesaver.
Posted by lsufanintexas
Member since Sep 2006
5098 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:16 am to
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Maybe he doesn't want to make friends.


Some people just want to watch the world burn.
Posted by rondo
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Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:17 am to
when I was 11 I knew I would only be friends with the neighborhood kids due to proximity...I was a little too cerebral.
Posted by Black n Gold
Member since Feb 2009
15822 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:18 am to
Do you have a neighborhood pool. My son seems to make two or three new friends everytime he goes for a swim.
Posted by OlGrandad
Member since Oct 2009
4310 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:18 am to
Joining the Boy Scouts might be an ideal place.

Click the link for various merit badges and see if some of these pique his interest. LINK

Edit to add: guess I should read all the replies before posting. I second or third the scouting suggestion.

This post was edited on 7/8/14 at 11:22 am
Posted by dawg4lyfe
Member since May 2012
11662 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:19 am to
Get him a flatbill and a manziel t-shirt
Posted by The Goon Squad
Member since Jul 2014
43 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:19 am to
trying to get him in flag football if mom let me. I need to see how he interacts with other kids.
Posted by GeeOH
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2013
13376 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:19 am to
Go in his room and throw away any electronics in the except for his phone.

Sign him up for a summer camp, any camp...basketball, baseball, soccer, etc

Whatever it takes! Get him in situations where he is forced to be social and exposes to others his age with similar interests
Posted by Black n Gold
Member since Feb 2009
15822 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:20 am to
quote:

teach by example. my kids have seen me make friends and they have no problem making friends of their own.


This is the best answer. Let kids know that being outgoing and making new friends and acquaintances is the norm.
Posted by Jack Daniel
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Member since Feb 2013
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Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:20 am to
Flat bill and tall Nike socks. Every color possible
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32980 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:21 am to
how much of an age gap is there between you two?

Posted by WeBleedCrimson
Member since Mar 2008
21967 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:21 am to
take him to summer camp
Posted by hoopsgalore
Chicago, IL
Member since Nov 2013
9031 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:21 am to
quote:

get him in some organized sports, soccer, baseball, etc



At the age the OP brother is, this is the best way for a child to make friends.
Posted by The Goon Squad
Member since Jul 2014
43 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:21 am to
10 years.
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how much of an age gap is there between you two?

Posted by Black n Gold
Member since Feb 2009
15822 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:22 am to
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Flat bill and tall Nike socks. Every color possible


My seven year old son has countless friends that wear this crap. One kid came over the other day with red socks and Nike slippers.
Posted by dawg4lyfe
Member since May 2012
11662 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:23 am to
Nevermind, kind of skimmed the OP and thought it was your son.
This post was edited on 7/8/14 at 11:25 am
Posted by TXGunslinger10
Houston, TX
Member since Jun 2011
18122 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 11:23 am to
Organized sports is a great idea.

Is he any good? Be prepared to work with him to get to where he's decent. He may have the same problem if he's on a sports team and the kids are jackasses and outcast him because he sucks. Do whatever you can to help him
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