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re: How are people able to just up and move states like it’s nothing and why

Posted on 4/9/26 at 8:43 am to
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
16117 posts
Posted on 4/9/26 at 8:43 am to
I was a military brat, starting over was routine. Pay me 30% more, and I've done shite like moved from Baton Rouge to Greenville, SC in a weekend, started work on Monday.

You can love family, but it's your job to protect your immediate family, not get trapped in a shithole so you can have a BBQ with your second cousin every quarter.
Posted by Riseupfromtherubble
You'll Never Walk Alone
Member since Jun 2011
39995 posts
Posted on 4/9/26 at 8:45 am to
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My story looks nothing like that. I wasn’t connected to Nashville at all.


quote:

I still had to take a huge risk leaving family and friends whom I had known my whole life


which is it mate
Posted by Galloglaich
Member since Apr 2026
108 posts
Posted on 4/9/26 at 8:48 am to
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which is it mate


Is nuance that hard?
Posted by Riseupfromtherubble
You'll Never Walk Alone
Member since Jun 2011
39995 posts
Posted on 4/9/26 at 8:58 am to
Your story contradicts itself. If I hadn't read the last part I would think you were a nashville transplant that had been there for 3-4 years and wanted out.

You can't say you have no connection and then say it's a risk because you're leaving your friends and family

The whole done with it on an emotional and psychological level reads more like you're running from something or someone, not a place on the map. Would guess a woman is involved
This post was edited on 4/9/26 at 9:02 am
Posted by BunkieWrench
Katy
Member since Nov 2008
5713 posts
Posted on 4/9/26 at 9:03 am to
Corporate escort twice.
On our own accord once.

Experiencing different locales is great. Highly recommend.
Posted by OzzunaFromTheBraves
Member since May 2025
56 posts
Posted on 4/9/26 at 9:16 am to
Tennessee doesn't have state income tax either
Posted by redstick13
Lower Saxony
Member since Feb 2007
40879 posts
Posted on 4/9/26 at 9:23 am to
Changing states is pretty easy, it's more of a hassle than anything. I have moved to more countries than most people have states. I am living in my 5th different country now. Hoping Germany is my final stop. Love it here.
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
84716 posts
Posted on 4/9/26 at 9:26 am to
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realized f’d up LA politics was nothing compared to f’d up blandness spirit (or lack thereof) of people and place in many other places.


This is such an abstract concept that I only hear from Louisiana people. I’m from Louisiana and I still don’t know what it even means
Posted by BK Lounge
Member since Nov 2021
5336 posts
Posted on 4/9/26 at 9:26 am to
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This sounds like a reddit post from someone that has anxiety.



Not sure about the reddit part since I never go there.. but you say ‘anxiety’ like it isnt incredibly common .. Matter of fact, look around in 2026- i would say that anyone who isn’t hugely anxious just isnt paying attention, or has their head buried in the sand , or just has a brain that’s not wired right .
Posted by DmitriKaramazov
Member since Nov 2015
5635 posts
Posted on 4/9/26 at 9:27 am to
Are you an AI chatbot? That post reads as if were meant to be a response to some ongoing conversation, or a rejoinder to some challenge to the legitimacy of your move to Texas, not an original post.
Posted by Gee Grenouille
Member since Jul 2018
8057 posts
Posted on 4/9/26 at 9:28 am to
If I hadn't gotten married I would've gone full Dick Whitman and moved, changed my name, etc. Gone completely MIA. By now they would've hunted me down. Instead my wife has me stuck in Louisiana working offshore, when I could easily move somewhere else, make the same money or more, and be home every night.
Posted by Riseupfromtherubble
You'll Never Walk Alone
Member since Jun 2011
39995 posts
Posted on 4/9/26 at 9:34 am to
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This is such an abstract concept that I only hear from Louisiana people. I’m from Louisiana and I still don’t know what it even means


It's a way to cope.Over highlighting the perks, perceived or otherwise, to diminish the negatives that are far greater in number
Posted by Galloglaich
Member since Apr 2026
108 posts
Posted on 4/9/26 at 9:39 am to
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Your story contradicts itself. If I hadn't read the last part I would think you were a nashville transplant that had been there for 3-4 years and wanted out.


No it does not. It’s not uncommon to live in a shite hole but still have family there holding you back.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
60666 posts
Posted on 4/9/26 at 9:40 am to
I just skimmed this post and say this as someone who has lived in several states, but I do think the way people here talk about moving away from home/family is pretty weird
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
19485 posts
Posted on 4/9/26 at 9:40 am to
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It was easier to stay off my company’s radar because of the no state income tax


What the frick does this even mean?
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
38052 posts
Posted on 4/9/26 at 9:43 am to
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Very easy. Just find job opportunities at like companies in your industry located elsewhere, apply, interview, move. Be marketable makes it easier (engineer by trade here)

It’s not that hard. Have done it multiple times esp early in my career.


god damn it.... the OP is so bad and he is such a douche he has me agreeing with Baby Tac.

the ot is fricking me up today. first i have to defend jeff landry and now im agreeing with Babytac....whole universe is fricked up today
Posted by Riseupfromtherubble
You'll Never Walk Alone
Member since Jun 2011
39995 posts
Posted on 4/9/26 at 9:47 am to
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It’s not uncommon to live in a shite hole but still have family there holding you back


So...a connection to the place. You just worded it weird. I'm not going to argue with you about how you personally feel, I'm just telling you that your wording was contradictory.

I've lived in 3 states in my 20's and 30's, moving for career advancement each time.

You're talking about leaving your hometown at 25 years old, honestly it happens a lot sooner for most of the people that do it. If I was working remote and could just move anywhere in the country I wanted I would probably prioritize it around my hobbies. I'm sure you had a good reason to choose wherever in Texas you chose. I hope you chose wisely, but if you don't have a family of your own it's not that huge of a deal.
Posted by TheDeathValley
Louisiana
Member since Sep 2010
20613 posts
Posted on 4/9/26 at 9:52 am to
I ain't reading all that. You do what you need to do for your family.

My wife and I lived in Georgia when I was in grad school and first the first few years of our professional career. We made the most out of it, made a lot of great friends and memories.
Posted by Galloglaich
Member since Apr 2026
108 posts
Posted on 4/9/26 at 9:54 am to
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What the frick does this even mean?


I lived in a state with no state income tax, so my employer paid me like that. If I moved somewhere with state income tax without telling them, that is literally tax fraud because they would be reporting the wrong withholding for me. So instead of dealing with that mess, I moved to Texas and avoided the whole issue. The whole game was my employer not knowing that I moved in the first place.
This post was edited on 4/9/26 at 9:55 am
Posted by oldtrucker
Marianna, Fl
Member since Apr 2013
3502 posts
Posted on 4/9/26 at 10:03 am to
As a former trucker, we picked up and moved on every morning
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