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re: Holding the household together since the hurricane but I’m a piece of shite

Posted on 9/8/21 at 9:49 pm to
Posted by DrSteveBrule
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2009
12515 posts
Posted on 9/8/21 at 9:49 pm to
quote:

This.

Don't make it more complex than it needs to be.

I think of my marriage (conceptually) as two folks back-to-back...


This is an oversimplification. There are plenty of people who change after marriage, after kids, etc. You can't project those things out. At the end of the day, if you have a successful marriage, your sample size isn't particularly large.
This post was edited on 9/8/21 at 9:51 pm
Posted by WeagleEagle
Folsom Prison
Member since Sep 2011
2620 posts
Posted on 9/8/21 at 9:53 pm to
How old is the baby? Women can be insane after spitting one out. I also feel like these days they are taught to be so damn independent that they almost spite you for handling shite.
This post was edited on 9/8/21 at 9:56 pm
Posted by LSUDAN1
Member since Oct 2010
11206 posts
Posted on 9/8/21 at 10:04 pm to
OP needs to frick the bitchyness out of his wife. Woman are some of the most ungrateful living things on earth.
Posted by TDcline
American Gardens building 11th flor
Member since Aug 2015
9503 posts
Posted on 9/8/21 at 10:07 pm to
Been occasionally checking this thread since LN.

Got your pipe smoked yet, baw?

Edit when you do.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 9/8/21 at 10:15 pm to
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Woman are some of the most ungrateful living things on earth.


A woman can be too easily spoiled. They go insane when denied daily routine, or luxury. Its our fault, we usually allow them to get entrenched just to keep the peace.
Posted by TchoupitoulasTiger
NOLA
Member since May 2011
1328 posts
Posted on 9/9/21 at 12:55 am to
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The People


Putting this here for you... You've already got an attorney which is one of the hardest things for most people to do. Cheers baw.

TchoupitoulasTiger's Divorce Checklist

Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
177373 posts
Posted on 9/9/21 at 1:27 am to
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Add to that a wife who’s growing less and less patient with the power outage by the hour

Shouldn’t a woman from Africa be used to not having power?
Posted by pioneerbasketball
Team Bunchie
Member since Oct 2005
139098 posts
Posted on 9/9/21 at 1:28 am to
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Getting Divorced Checklist

Retain an attorney. Again...
Retain an attorney.

Immediate action items:
1) Secure and/or change all passwords. End all open sessions of social media. Make all of this private.
2) On your cell phone bill-if you have a joint account- pay the extra $ for detailed billing. Document communications with Jody.
3) If you are a W-9 employee and have direct deposit- change this. Open a new account at a different bank and deposit your salary there.Transfer money for shelter, transportation, children as necessary. Establish a new checking account with an address that is not your home address. (If she has access to your mail then you don’t have control)
4) Have a detailed copy of your tax returns going back 4-5 years.
5) Change mailing address/ enable paperless documents w/ new passwords for financial accounts.
6) Reduce/eliminate 401k contributions until judgement of divorce. IRA’s are ok to continue.
7) Inventory your home like you would for homeowners/flood insurance.
8) She has a window of opportunity to wreck your credit. Don’t let her.
9) Document, Document, Document Jody...even if it’s simply location tracking of her whereabouts. This will come into play for spousal support payments.
10) File first. Establish the date of separation... every day does count.

This list is a 4:30 in the morning checklist and is put together from my own and friends experiences...it’s not meant to be complete- just a starting point. Divorce is about property, money and control. You gotta be on your toes or else you’ll get screwed.

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