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re: Have you ever been the person who someone is cheating with?

Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:25 am to
Posted by the paradigm
Moon Township, PA
Member since Sep 2017
5417 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:25 am to
I’ve shared the story before that I dated a married woman, she actually left her husband, sold her 18000 dollar wedding ring, and we got an apartment together. He started purposely neglecting their kids though (not getting them to school/practice on time, and other little things) and she eventually went back for their sake. They still ended up getting a divorce but by that time I had moved on. Since then she’s been in rehab multiple times so looks like I dodged a bullet.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
293053 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:26 am to
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That’s how women validate cheating
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A lot of em do. In my case it was absolutely true. I ended up moving up there for a bit and getting an apartment not too far from her place.
Posted by BowlJackson
Birmingham, AL
Member since Sep 2013
52881 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:28 am to
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Did you know that they had a SO?


Yup

quote:

And did you feel bad afterward?


Nope. Not even a little bit
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
52854 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:29 am to
Yes. Not exactly proud of it at this point in my life.
Posted by windshieldman
Member since Nov 2012
12818 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:30 am to
Pretty much all of us posting in this thread are virgins so probably not

I’m 37 and hope to lose my virginity by 40
This post was edited on 7/21/19 at 10:31 am
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138110 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:32 am to
I always enjoy threads like this

Cheaters are the pieces of shite, but the other person gets so much of the blame as well

Sorry that Jody gave your ole lady what you couldn't provide
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
119977 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:32 am to
Not physically, but emotionally yes. I was talking with this girl who was dating another guy. She wanted to get with me, but I made it clear to her that she had to 100% break it off with her current SO for me to engage with her physically, which she did. 8 months later... happened again, this time on the receiving end. Thought I was being a decent guy by refusing to do anything physical before she broke it off, but I guess I learned my lesson on that.
Posted by InwardJim
Member since Dec 2018
656 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:32 am to
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I hooked up with a chick for a few weeks in college who was in a more serious long distance relationship. Didn’t feel bad at all. I technically didn’t know she was in a relationship. Also we weren’t having sex. Just like good ole come “hey let’s chill and watch a movie and chill hookup sessions.”


Congrats on the not sex. Question though: why did you even bother posting?
Posted by rowbear1922
Houston, TX
Member since Oct 2008
15750 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:35 am to
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Congrats on the not sex. Question though: why did you even bother posting?


If it's just blowys and handys, is it even cheating?
Posted by wasteland
City of peace
Member since Apr 2011
5913 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:37 am to
Yes.

I don't feel bad.

At 19 years, that 42 year old sex starved married woman taught me things I needed in life
Posted by Tigerbiscuits
Mid-City
Member since Nov 2011
1102 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:38 am to
I dated a girl in high school who's ex never accepted the break up. So technically no, but I've experienced the bullshite that goes with it. Stalked us/me for a year and it came to a head when he started badgering me about my dad's cancer. Ended up in a courtroom where he exclaimed he couldn't wait to get my dead dad's money. Crazy guy. Think he sells hydrating mouthpieces now.
Posted by BowlJackson
Birmingham, AL
Member since Sep 2013
52881 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:40 am to
quote:

Not physically, but emotionally yes


Posted by stapuffmarshy
lower 9
Member since Apr 2010
17507 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:46 am to
She was early 30's and married. I was 23 and fresh out of college. Her husband was focused on opening his dream restaurant and paid her not attention.

She was one hot fricking number. Jesus, haven't thought of her in twenty years easy. The first time we broke her vows was behind Ruth's Chris steakhouse on Constitution. The last time was when we ruined some poor girls wedding. Drunk dirty dancing was the end. We were seconds away from fricking right there on the dance floor at the girls wedding.

What a turd I was huh?

Back to the question. Yes and nope. No feel bad.
Posted by TSLG
Member since Mar 2014
6724 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:46 am to
I was a whore, pos for many years. I've cheated with tons of people.

I've always said that if you let me meet a husband, I could sleep with his wife. I'm wired like a bitch, so bitches are easy for me.
Posted by AtlantaLSUfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2009
26508 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:50 am to
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No. He was an emotionally abusive

That’s where these ladies justify cheating. They amplify the bad traits without disclosing why he’s acting that way. Like she spends more than the family haves or yells at everyone when they do the slightest thing wrong. Meanwhile she’s sucking your dick and telling you how bad her awful husband is.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98708 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:59 am to
Plenty girlfriends. No wives

Never felt bad
Posted by IceTiger
Really hot place
Member since Oct 2007
26584 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 11:02 am to
I was Jody a few times...I didn't know any of them were in relationships...

I quickly moved on when I found out.

GIs can be NJP'd if they knowingly smush the puss of a married gal, it rarely happens though.
Posted by rsbd
banks of the Mississippi
Member since Jan 2007
23122 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 11:03 am to
Yes
It ended in a divorce, but not by the husband finding out. There were much deeper issues. I was 19 bartending, she was the mom of a kid I graduated with and had recently lost a lot of weight. Marriage was on the rocks because the dude had constant put her down when she was heavy. We started talking as friends and things progressed. Things took off from there.
Posted by go_tigres
Member since Sep 2013
5421 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 11:04 am to
That was 50% of my hook ups when I was young and in real estate. 20-25 year old me didn’t give two shits. 43 year old me sees 20-25 year old me for the a-hole he was though. I did learn a valuable lesson though, don’t “tend” to your women, someone will.
Posted by Lickitty Split
Inside
Member since Apr 2017
4120 posts
Posted on 7/21/19 at 11:07 am to
How in the hell dies a 19 year old run across a 42 year old?

This can’t be Baton Rouge. You can’t even get into the Cadillac at that age.
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