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re: Have you ever been the person who someone is cheating with?
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:25 am to whitetiger1234
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:25 am to whitetiger1234
I’ve shared the story before that I dated a married woman, she actually left her husband, sold her 18000 dollar wedding ring, and we got an apartment together. He started purposely neglecting their kids though (not getting them to school/practice on time, and other little things) and she eventually went back for their sake. They still ended up getting a divorce but by that time I had moved on. Since then she’s been in rehab multiple times so looks like I dodged a bullet.
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:26 am to Jack Daniel
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That’s how women validate cheating
A lot of em do. In my case it was absolutely true. I ended up moving up there for a bit and getting an apartment not too far from her place.
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:28 am to whitetiger1234
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Did you know that they had a SO?
Yup
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And did you feel bad afterward?
Nope. Not even a little bit
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:29 am to whitetiger1234
Yes. Not exactly proud of it at this point in my life.
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:30 am to whitetiger1234
Pretty much all of us posting in this thread are virgins so probably not
I’m 37 and hope to lose my virginity by 40
I’m 37 and hope to lose my virginity by 40
This post was edited on 7/21/19 at 10:31 am
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:32 am to windshieldman
I always enjoy threads like this
Cheaters are the pieces of shite, but the other person gets so much of the blame as well
Sorry that Jody gave your ole lady what you couldn't provide
Cheaters are the pieces of shite, but the other person gets so much of the blame as well
Sorry that Jody gave your ole lady what you couldn't provide
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:32 am to whitetiger1234
Not physically, but emotionally yes. I was talking with this girl who was dating another guy. She wanted to get with me, but I made it clear to her that she had to 100% break it off with her current SO for me to engage with her physically, which she did. 8 months later... happened again, this time on the receiving end. Thought I was being a decent guy by refusing to do anything physical before she broke it off, but I guess I learned my lesson on that. 
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:32 am to athenslife101
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I hooked up with a chick for a few weeks in college who was in a more serious long distance relationship. Didn’t feel bad at all. I technically didn’t know she was in a relationship. Also we weren’t having sex. Just like good ole come “hey let’s chill and watch a movie and chill hookup sessions.”
Congrats on the not sex. Question though: why did you even bother posting?
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:35 am to InwardJim
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Congrats on the not sex. Question though: why did you even bother posting?
If it's just blowys and handys, is it even cheating?
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:37 am to whitetiger1234
Yes.
I don't feel bad.
At 19 years, that 42 year old sex starved married woman taught me things I needed in life
I don't feel bad.
At 19 years, that 42 year old sex starved married woman taught me things I needed in life
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:38 am to whitetiger1234
I dated a girl in high school who's ex never accepted the break up. So technically no, but I've experienced the bullshite that goes with it. Stalked us/me for a year and it came to a head when he started badgering me about my dad's cancer. Ended up in a courtroom where he exclaimed he couldn't wait to get my dead dad's money. Crazy guy. Think he sells hydrating mouthpieces now.
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:40 am to OMLandshark
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Not physically, but emotionally yes

Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:46 am to whitetiger1234
She was early 30's and married. I was 23 and fresh out of college. Her husband was focused on opening his dream restaurant and paid her not attention.
She was one hot fricking number. Jesus, haven't thought of her in twenty years easy. The first time we broke her vows was behind Ruth's Chris steakhouse on Constitution. The last time was when we ruined some poor girls wedding. Drunk dirty dancing was the end. We were seconds away from fricking right there on the dance floor at the girls wedding.
What a turd I was huh?
Back to the question. Yes and nope. No feel bad.
She was one hot fricking number. Jesus, haven't thought of her in twenty years easy. The first time we broke her vows was behind Ruth's Chris steakhouse on Constitution. The last time was when we ruined some poor girls wedding. Drunk dirty dancing was the end. We were seconds away from fricking right there on the dance floor at the girls wedding.
What a turd I was huh?
Back to the question. Yes and nope. No feel bad.
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:46 am to whitetiger1234
I was a whore, pos for many years. I've cheated with tons of people.
I've always said that if you let me meet a husband, I could sleep with his wife. I'm wired like a bitch, so bitches are easy for me.
I've always said that if you let me meet a husband, I could sleep with his wife. I'm wired like a bitch, so bitches are easy for me.
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:50 am to Athos
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No. He was an emotionally abusive
That’s where these ladies justify cheating. They amplify the bad traits without disclosing why he’s acting that way. Like she spends more than the family haves or yells at everyone when they do the slightest thing wrong. Meanwhile she’s sucking your dick and telling you how bad her awful husband is.
Posted on 7/21/19 at 10:59 am to whitetiger1234
Plenty girlfriends. No wives
Never felt bad
Never felt bad
Posted on 7/21/19 at 11:02 am to whitetiger1234
I was Jody a few times...I didn't know any of them were in relationships...
I quickly moved on when I found out.
GIs can be NJP'd if they knowingly smush the puss of a married gal, it rarely happens though.
I quickly moved on when I found out.
GIs can be NJP'd if they knowingly smush the puss of a married gal, it rarely happens though.
Posted on 7/21/19 at 11:03 am to whitetiger1234
Yes
It ended in a divorce, but not by the husband finding out. There were much deeper issues. I was 19 bartending, she was the mom of a kid I graduated with and had recently lost a lot of weight. Marriage was on the rocks because the dude had constant put her down when she was heavy. We started talking as friends and things progressed. Things took off from there.
It ended in a divorce, but not by the husband finding out. There were much deeper issues. I was 19 bartending, she was the mom of a kid I graduated with and had recently lost a lot of weight. Marriage was on the rocks because the dude had constant put her down when she was heavy. We started talking as friends and things progressed. Things took off from there.
Posted on 7/21/19 at 11:04 am to whitetiger1234
That was 50% of my hook ups when I was young and in real estate. 20-25 year old me didn’t give two shits. 43 year old me sees 20-25 year old me for the a-hole he was though. I did learn a valuable lesson though, don’t “tend” to your women, someone will.
Posted on 7/21/19 at 11:07 am to wasteland
How in the hell dies a 19 year old run across a 42 year old?
This can’t be Baton Rouge. You can’t even get into the Cadillac at that age.
This can’t be Baton Rouge. You can’t even get into the Cadillac at that age.
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