re: Have you ever approached the cheater's lover?

Had a girl I was serious with right after college and came back from an out of town trip a day early. Went straight to her condo to surprise her and a guy from BR was there (saw his parking pass hanging from mirror in my spot). This was in Laffy.

Walked into her room (midnight) and they were sleeping naked in her bed. I woke em up . Somehow, when she and I were arguing he slipped out the side door naked carrying his pants.

Fast forward bout 6 mnths...Im coming back from a party trip in Vegas and that dude was across the isle from me on the plane! small plane (Southwest) I was isle seat, then the isle, then a hot woman, then him by the window. Im talking to the woman and I could tell he was flat out freaking out, extreme discomfort. She was married 2 yrs and had a 1 yr old together and kept giving me info on them...lol I asked him if he was a nurse and she answered yes for him and asked how did I know.

I gave her my card and told her to call me for any further info she needed.

She called and after 2 sentences knew I was telling the truth. She had found a # at the time, etc He was a student so told her he was working graveyards,etc

Get this, she was paying for EVERYTHING...school for him, bills, home, childcare....she owned a store there in BR...damn, I just remembered the store. I wish I knew his name, maybe he posts here, lol last I heard he was a financial guy, maybe one of those Stanford guys.

1 year later, I'm at the Station in BR and get introduced to a race horse of a woman. It was her! She came back to the pool party with us and stayed the night and justice was served, several times over. We actually casually dated for a while so there's more to the story, but trust me, he knew about it all and was trying feverishly to get back with her the entire time.

So I never touched him, but KARMA beat the frick out of him for a long time, maybe still.

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some weird responses...

1) don't confront the dude..he was just being a man

2) the anger should be directed towards your girl, whom you will not be taking back

3) No showers inside the home taken with any man under any circumstances

4) It was wack to "snitch" on the airline passenger just because you got played. You were mad that he was discreet with his extra affairs and your girl was sloppy with it. (again, you're not directing the anger towards your ex. You're directing it at the man for being a man. She threw it at him and he caught it).

5) "You know the name of the game...your bitch chose him" -Pretty Tony

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It was wack to "snitch" on the airline passenger just because you got played. You were mad that he was discreet with his extra affairs and your girl was sloppy with it. (again, you're not directing the anger towards your ex. You're directing it at the man for being a man. She threw it at him and he caught it).

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Not how everything went down, as I said, there is more to the story. But too much to type. Let's just say the guy did some things, said some things, and ABSOLUTELY was deserving of some bad going his way. For whatever reason, after that night, he went overboard and out of his way, to take shots at me (why? No clue) and continue chasing the ex.

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You're directing it at the man for being a man.

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Guy was married with a toddler and living off of his working wife, all the while running around banging others....and you think he was "being a man"?

No need describing yourself any further...loser

My lil bro did this like a boss. He found out the chick he was chilling with for a while had a boyfriend, so he told her to piss off and called up her bf and was basically like "Bruh, keep your bitch on a leash. She's stepping out on you."