re: have you done something before that is unforgivable?

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BS. If a pedophile got ahold of one of my kids and I caught him before the cops did and killed him, t's murder but it should be forgiven.

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Get me on that jury and you walk.

I've never done anything unforgivable to myself and that's all that matters. Any bad things I've done have been validated to either further the human race or myself or family. I don't do sh!t I can't live with. It's pretty simple honestly. I don't allow people in my life who will freak out over petty crap and have a problem. If I care about you, then it's only because you've been properly vetted and can be called upon to hide the body and I will be there shovel in hand if I get the call.

Nobody is perfect, but exercise some self control and don't interfere with others and you can go far feeling no remorse. I couldn't care less about the petty Karens or easily offended idiots of the world. Not only that, but once I sense you aren't worth it, then I write you off. I don't have to 'forgive' you because I won't ever deal with you again. It doesn't eat on me, it's just how I weed out unnecessary people.

My only exception is my wife and kids. I figure any of their shortcomings is really on me in the first place anyway.

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On one hand, I screwed up, I just didn’t think that was the case of keeping it a secret 5 months later. On the other hand, who hides their pregnancy from their parents for 5 months?

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They ended your friendship over that? I wouldn't lose any sleep over losing a friend who would get that worked up over keeping a pregnancy secret after 5 months

Probably but never got caught doing it and I have no conscience so I’m all good

My unforgivable transgression was flaming the board.

I did with one friend and I am not sure it was so bad. We were in a text thread and it got political... I jokingly sent a text of a photo with a close up of David Duke and a rebel flag as a background. It was his work phone and he got all pissed, saying I could have cost him his job. But he had months of texts he sent to the group that were equally as bad. Some of which were jokes and statements he actually typed out, not just random memes and photos.

One of my best friends for 20+ years and quit talking to me over night because of it. What a pussy. He never even came close to getting in trouble for anything cell phone related. He's a software programmer and has only gotten promotions since then.