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re: Guys, gals. A broken man is humbly asking for prayers and assistance.
Posted on 12/13/20 at 7:50 pm to LSUBFA83
Posted on 12/13/20 at 7:50 pm to LSUBFA83
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see a lot of people calling CD and his family junkies. What proof do we have of that?
Call him and ask him.
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apologize for starting another thread but I wanted to say a couple of thanks and give an update for those that believed me and are worried. First, I am still heartbroken. No sleep, no water etc. it hurt to ask help from anyone but I needed money to pay for funeral and burial. I wasn’t able to keep up the thread or provide updates. I noticed my go fund me removed and I had a pm from chicken requesting that I email him because he questioned my motives and honesty. I sent the email even though it hurt my feelings. I forgive anyone that didn’t believe me and I thank you so much to those that asked for address so you could send my kids something for Christmas, The go fund me I set up on Facebook is rapidly losing money because people are skeptical and encouraging folks to get refunds since it is a lie, It really hurts that anyone would believe I am capable of lying about something like that in order to scam money. Lastly, there have been some of you who have sent emails to find out my address so you can send presents to my kids. Oh yeah, it is ok to anyone that was skeptical of my story. It’s human nature. I want you to know that I am imperfect but it’s so important to me that you guys believe that I am really a broken man just looking for reasons to live that I am offering my real personal phone number in case anyone wants to question or meet me to see that this is real. I am heartbroken and last night offered to fight Satan himself just to know my wife is ok. Eric Carroll 256-919-6143
Posted on 12/13/20 at 7:52 pm to Indiangensing
Maybe I’m missing something, if so point it out.
I don’t think this is a ‘scam’, assuming:
It has been verified that this poor woman did in fact pass away after what should have been a routine procedure.
CD, started a GFM. Generous OT Ballers contributed.
That’s not a ‘scam’.
GFM total explodes to levels never expected by CD. Family from all reaches of the country get wind of the $22k, swarm in like a coyote on a wounded dachshund. Questionable posts by CD, and others that have since gotten access to his account. OTBs start requesting refunds... family vultures then panic at the losses, use bad judgment and technique trying to stop the bleeding.
Maybe it wasn’t well thought out. Someone (with a lot of time ) could have volunteered to be an executor of the funds. That would have been the smartest thing to do...but “smart” isn’t what this place is about thankfully
I don’t think this is a ‘scam’, assuming:
It has been verified that this poor woman did in fact pass away after what should have been a routine procedure.
CD, started a GFM. Generous OT Ballers contributed.
That’s not a ‘scam’.
GFM total explodes to levels never expected by CD. Family from all reaches of the country get wind of the $22k, swarm in like a coyote on a wounded dachshund. Questionable posts by CD, and others that have since gotten access to his account. OTBs start requesting refunds... family vultures then panic at the losses, use bad judgment and technique trying to stop the bleeding.
Maybe it wasn’t well thought out. Someone (with a lot of time ) could have volunteered to be an executor of the funds. That would have been the smartest thing to do...but “smart” isn’t what this place is about thankfully
This post was edited on 12/13/20 at 7:56 pm
Posted on 12/13/20 at 7:55 pm to X123F45
You know this makes junkies audibly wince
Posted on 12/13/20 at 8:01 pm to Zapps4Life
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Zapps4Life
You’re the dude that has the most skin in the game, right?
Posted on 12/13/20 at 8:01 pm to MillerLiteTime
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Commander's wife dies and he asks for money for her funeral. The OT raises 22k on gofundme in 5 hours. The OT night crew researches him and discovers he is an addict with long arrest history. Commander goes silent until the next day revealing he got admitted to the ER for "dehydration" and doesn't remember making the gofundme. Posters start requesting refunds and gofundme locks the account for withdrawals. Two relatives of the deceased wife start posting to confirm the story. The aunt is very nice and thankful but has limited involvement with the family. The sister logs in under Commander's profile and yells at us for getting the account locked and demands we apologize with no gratitude. The sister (Sonya)'s facebook reveals that she has been seeking a medium to contact her dead sister. Another relative on facebook tells Sonya to instead seek the counsel of their cousin Brian who is a "visionary." The aunt says that she has decided to pay for the funeral with her credit card while gofundme clears things up. Shortly after, the obituary is posted online. The rest is mostly conjecture.
Are we even sure the wife died of post-surgery complications at this point? Maybe she OD'd after popping a handful of pills when she got home? OP went to get "prescriptions" for himself, not her. What a shitshow.
This post was edited on 12/13/20 at 8:03 pm
Posted on 12/13/20 at 8:02 pm to LSUBFA83
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I see a lot of people calling CD and his family junkies. What proof do we have of that?
Why don't you read a little bit before you come in demanding anything. You aren't doing anything anyway.
Posted on 12/13/20 at 8:08 pm to tiggerthetooth
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Are we even sure the wife died of post-surgery complications at this point?
I dunno. That’s what their Facebook page said. Who knows.
Posted on 12/13/20 at 8:09 pm to tiggerthetooth
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Are we even sure the wife died of post-surgery complications at this point? Maybe she OD'd after popping a handful of pills when she got home?
Possible, but i seriously doubt it, may sound morbid, but I really hope we get to hear the autopsy report. Although, I seriously doubt that anyone involved could relay the results with any accuracy, short of scanning/posting the documents.
It’s rare but with any type of surgery there is a risk of death. I assure you, she signed an acknowledgment of such. Doesn’t excuse negligence if that was the case.
This post was edited on 12/13/20 at 8:10 pm
Posted on 12/13/20 at 8:10 pm to CrownTownHalo
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coyote on a wounded dachshund
I got a mini dachshund weird phrasing.
Posted on 12/13/20 at 8:11 pm to thelawnwranglers
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I got a mini dachshund weird phrasing.
You have an arsehole, but a pretty cool pup. Still an arsehole, though.
Posted on 12/13/20 at 8:15 pm to LegendInMyMind
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You have an arsehole, but a pretty cool pup. Still an arsehole, though.
Lmao
If you are a male 50/50 you get warning bite if you visit my house
The biggest areshole ever- I see how his ancestors went after badgers. Sleeps under the covers though.
So different from my lab.
Posted on 12/13/20 at 8:15 pm to CrownTownHalo
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That would have been the smartest thing to do...but “smart” isn’t what this place is about thankfully
You know, a lot of people say that...but it's actually not accurate at all.
There are a TON of smart people on here that have, and are more than happy to help people through things. People have provided help on and off the board over the years from words of encouragement, physical help, financial help, and by developing friendships that will last a lifetime.
It's what truly makes this place great - that fact that it IS smart, and that many people care about those on here. Those that can't or choose not to see it are either new here, closed off, or potentially sociopaths.
Taking the story at face value - I have no clue how I would react if my wife unexpectedly passed. That said, if he felt so strongly about this place and the people here as to share that news with us and ask for financial help, then maybe he should have also sought help on how to best secure the funds needed.
The fact that multiple family members have now come to the site inquiring about the money (one using the same account as Data), obviously casts a a bit of a long shadow on the whole ordeal, unfortunately.
Posted on 12/13/20 at 8:18 pm to thelawnwranglers
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got a mini dachshund weird phrasing.
There’s a thread on the outdoor board about coyotes/dogs...so it came to mind.
Posted on 12/13/20 at 8:19 pm to RummelTiger
I get it RT..my comment about “smart” was a bit in jest
This post was edited on 12/13/20 at 8:21 pm
Posted on 12/13/20 at 8:20 pm to CrownTownHalo
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There’s a thread on the outdoor board about coyotes/dogs...so it came to mind.
Figured something came to mind - dachshunds have taken some bad beats bc they will fight anything
Posted on 12/13/20 at 8:21 pm to thelawnwranglers
Ps sorry for OP loss
Hope he gets needed help
Hope he gets needed help
Posted on 12/13/20 at 8:48 pm to RummelTiger
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You know, a lot of people say that...but it's actually not accurate at all.
There are a TON of smart people on here that have, and are more than happy to help people through things. People have provided help on and off the board over the years from words of encouragement, physical help, financial help, and by developing friendships that will last a lifetime.
It's what truly makes this place great - that fact that it IS smart, and that many people care about those on here. Those that can't or choose not to see it are either new here, closed off, or potentially sociopaths.
Taking the story at face value - I have no clue how I would react if my wife unexpectedly passed. That said, if he felt so strongly about this place and the people here as to share that news with us and ask for financial help, then maybe he should have also sought help on how to best secure the funds needed.
The fact that multiple family members have now come to the site inquiring about the money (one using the same account as Data), obviously casts a a bit of a long shadow on the whole ordeal, unfortunately.
Bravo sir
Posted on 12/13/20 at 8:51 pm to DomincDecoco
Update from the other thread. CD’s name but grammar like the trashy sister.
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Actually The Visitation is tomorrow night and the funeral is Tuesday and I have been grieving so bad and haven’t been on here my sister in law tried to fix things didn’t realize she was still under my name it was all just a lot of things that can be proven tomorrow I will have pictures and proof I have had people trying to help explain and people don’t wanna listen to the truth but it’s ok cause I have family helping me with everything and the MONEY is going to Funeral then my aunt will be the beneficiary and help me along with Sonya helping me make it thru all this grief and heartbreak ..... Just give me time to prove to you how wrong some of u are
Posted on 12/13/20 at 8:53 pm to Zapps4Life
Imagine if the end result of this thread is Zapp’s bringing back the Creole Tomato flavor.
Would easily make this a top 10 thread of all time
Would easily make this a top 10 thread of all time
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