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re: Guy Only In It for Hookups/Girl Falls in Love Type of Relationship Question

Posted on 12/23/24 at 12:39 am to
Posted by MasterKnight
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2016
1982 posts
Posted on 12/23/24 at 12:39 am to
It happened to me. It was after my divorce and I was just looking for a FWB. She said she was divorced and looking for same thing. She would come over after her job and we go out sometimes and then have sex or just have sex and she leaves.

Took her to an event and we spent a weekend together. She said she loved me. Like she fell in love with me. I did not know what to say so I said thank you. I told her I liked her but not like that.

We stayed FWB for awhile. But shite happened in her life and she admitted she was married. Her husband was a truck driver. Then he got arrested for some heavy shite. She needed go clear her head. We did not speak for about 6 months. She and I reconnected. Tried to make it work. Could not. She has since remarried.

Don't know who to give advice to but if one is not feeling it and only staying in to not hurt the other person, that is doing more damage and won't end well.
Posted by TripleBarrelBluff1
Sin City
Member since Aug 2024
2430 posts
Posted on 12/23/24 at 12:42 am to
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There are never no strings attached, especially for women. Someone ALWAYS wants more.


This is true. It can be either party though. It's not unusual for the guy to be the one wanting more.
Posted by sta4ever
Member since Aug 2014
16934 posts
Posted on 12/23/24 at 1:28 am to
This is why you don’t have sex until you’re married.
Posted by justaniceguy
Member since Sep 2020
5796 posts
Posted on 12/23/24 at 12:39 pm to
One of my best friends was in this situation (for the 100th time)

The girl got pregnant and moved back home to Kentucky. She gave him a ton of chances but he fricked then all up. I don’t think his name is even on the birth certificate.

The kid isn’t even 1 yet so this is still a developing story.
Posted by PerplenGold
TX
Member since Nov 2021
1852 posts
Posted on 12/23/24 at 12:44 pm to
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Have you ever been in a relationship where it wasn’t exactly a serious relationship, it was more of a physical relationship that initially started with no strings attached, but the girl involved fell in love and wanted more?


Of course, duh.

The last one stuck. Been happily married 18 years. We both knew it was supposed to be a summer fling. Joke about it whenever people ask- 'how did you meet?'
Posted by lepdagod
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
4293 posts
Posted on 12/23/24 at 12:48 pm to
Make sure ole gal ain’t on TD homie…
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
14231 posts
Posted on 12/23/24 at 12:49 pm to
Stage 5 clinger.

Dude, you can't frick a girl over long periods of time. You can frick her a lot and as much as you want in a short period of time, but you cannot prolong the dick to months on end. This never ends well for the man.

If you knocked her up, grab your sack and man up but do not marry because of the child, especially if you have any negative discernment regarding the female.

Also, if were in this situation how many other dudes do you not know about?

Just keep it in the back of your head.



This post was edited on 12/23/24 at 12:51 pm
Posted by ultratiger89
Houston, Tx
Member since Aug 2007
3308 posts
Posted on 12/23/24 at 12:50 pm to
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it was more of a physical relationship that initially started with no strings attached, but the girl involved fell in love and wanted more?


I quit seeing her.
Posted by OKBoomerSooner
Member since Dec 2019
4063 posts
Posted on 12/23/24 at 12:52 pm to
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Hell no, abortions are cheap these days

The only cheap thing here is this bait… but it’s still hooking em left and right
Posted by Auburn1968
NYC
Member since Mar 2019
23026 posts
Posted on 12/24/24 at 5:49 pm to
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A long time ago I met an incredibly beautiful girl at the beach. She was on vacation and I was on a 4 day pass from the military. Things happen at the beach you know…

33 years later she’s sitting about 4 feet away from me and we’ve been happier than two people ever really deserve. I married her 10 months after we met.

Sometimes no matter how it starts it just works out.


Same here, but it took the third time to be that kind of charm.
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