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Guy Only In It for Hookups/Girl Falls in Love Type of Relationship Question

Posted on 12/22/24 at 9:52 pm
Posted by SaintlyTiger88
Louisiana
Member since Apr 2013
2142 posts
Posted on 12/22/24 at 9:52 pm
Have you ever been in a relationship where it wasn’t exactly a serious relationship, it was more of a physical relationship that initially started with no strings attached, but the girl involved fell in love and wanted more? Or, ladies, on the flip side, the guy fell in love? How did you deal with that? If the girl got pregnant, did it change the whole situation or not?

God’s honest truth, this is not about me, but two people that I both know. Kind of a messy situation, just trying to get some advice on how to give advice. Thanks
Posted by TheRouxGuru
Member since Nov 2019
11740 posts
Posted on 12/22/24 at 9:53 pm to
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If the girl got pregnant, did it change the whole situation or not?


Hell no, abortions are cheap these days
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
144369 posts
Posted on 12/22/24 at 9:54 pm to
Delete this thread

Posted by Spankum
Miss-sippi
Member since Jan 2007
58363 posts
Posted on 12/22/24 at 9:55 pm to
Too many different questions for you to get meaningful answers.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
144369 posts
Posted on 12/22/24 at 9:55 pm to
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Hell no, abortions are cheap these days
it's always warm in hell
Posted by beerJeep
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2016
36469 posts
Posted on 12/22/24 at 9:55 pm to
She was a girl. He was a boy. Can I make it anymore obvious.
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
67850 posts
Posted on 12/22/24 at 9:56 pm to
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God’s honest truth, this is not about me, but two people that I both know


Posted by TXLSUCHE
Houston, Tx
Member since Sep 2005
573 posts
Posted on 12/22/24 at 9:56 pm to
In!
This post was edited on 12/22/24 at 9:57 pm
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
8700 posts
Posted on 12/22/24 at 9:59 pm to
Something something, don’t try to turn a whore into a housewife.
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
188567 posts
Posted on 12/22/24 at 10:01 pm to
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Have you ever been in a relationship where it wasn’t exactly a serious relationship, it was more of a physical relationship that initially started with no strings attached, but the girl involved fell in love and wanted more?


all the time

Posted by eitek1
Member since Jun 2011
2612 posts
Posted on 12/22/24 at 10:01 pm to
A long time ago I met an incredibly beautiful girl at the beach. She was on vacation and I was on a 4 day pass from the military. Things happen at the beach you know…

33 years later she’s sitting about 4 feet away from me and we’ve been happier than two people ever really deserve. I married her 10 months after we met.

Sometimes no matter how it starts it just works out.
This post was edited on 12/22/24 at 10:04 pm
Posted by TheBoogeyman
Covington
Member since Apr 2020
313 posts
Posted on 12/22/24 at 10:03 pm to
Yeah I know some people that the girl was basically friends with benefits with her ex husbands cousin. At first it was something that she knew couldn’t go anywhere because she has 2 kids with the ex husband. Now I think this girl is fully in love with this dude and is thinking it could possibly work out. I think the guy is just using her until someone else comes along. They both hate the ex husband but the kids are what’s going to make this messy as hell.
Posted by WonPercent
BATON ROUGE
Member since Aug 2023
766 posts
Posted on 12/22/24 at 10:07 pm to
I think I'll work on making the best of my life and not worry about everyone else's.
Posted by Northshoretiger87
Member since Apr 2016
4853 posts
Posted on 12/22/24 at 10:08 pm to
“Hell no, abortions are cheap these days”

Pathetic. Absolutely grossly pathetic.
Posted by TheRouxGuru
Member since Nov 2019
11740 posts
Posted on 12/22/24 at 10:58 pm to
Relax pal, I’m a lesbian
Posted by HagaDaga
Member since Oct 2020
3119 posts
Posted on 12/22/24 at 11:36 pm to
Many of my relationships have been like this minus the pregnant piece so don't know how to speak to that part.

Minus the pregs piece though it seems the girls decide to take it to the next level with out telling the guy (ie me) and so I never make that emotional movement but they have. Once you realize it then break up. I tend to prefer the "get them to break up with me" approach, so it's an easier separation long term since they made the decision. If the guy does it the girl never truly moves on and gets cray.

This is why I don't believe guys can be just friends with chicks. Going back to another thread the other day.
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
19558 posts
Posted on 12/22/24 at 11:40 pm to
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Have you ever been in a relationship where it wasn’t exactly a serious relationship, it was more of a physical relationship that initially started with no strings attached, but the girl involved fell in love and wanted more?


There are never no strings attached, especially for women. Someone ALWAYS wants more.
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
27852 posts
Posted on 12/22/24 at 11:40 pm to
quote:

it was more of a physical relationship that initially started with no strings attached, but the girl involved fell in love and wanted more? Or, ladies, on the flip side, the guy fell in love? How did you deal with that?


Well, if you keep having sex then you are essentially in a real relationship, because knowing she loves you and continuing to screw means strings are attached. At that point, you either move forward or breakup.
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
80051 posts
Posted on 12/22/24 at 11:55 pm to
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Hell no, abortions are cheap these days


Wire coat hangers are cheap
Posted by LRB1967
Tennessee
Member since Dec 2020
21122 posts
Posted on 12/23/24 at 12:05 am to
This type of situation usually doesn't end well.
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