re: For my fellow gentlemen who are less than aesthetically stellar

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How do you get past such a horrible first impression with the ladies?

i have to be somewhat funny, or i have zero chance.

how do you do it?

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It may sound cliche but I always just took the approach that I have a chance with every single girl that I find interesting.

Yeah you end where you miss on occasion but so what? I mean I can see worrying about it when you're in high school or something and you have to see the girl every day afterwards. But as far as I'm concerned once I became an adult so what if she says no. My only response to that is........ next

I can tell you that most of my life I have definitely paired up not down. It's almost some sorta joke. I don't even mind I'll take it as a compliment when somebody asks how I ended up with my wife or any woman before her.

The problem most of you Young Bucks have isn't your lack of looks it's your complete lack of confidence and your fear of rejection

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just stare at the them until they break

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This works but you have to pull off a deep stare into their eyes and it requires a certain look that you can only pull off with the proper combo of whiskey, Percocet, and Xanax

A lot BS here. Just stick with what is in your league, be yourself, forget about putting on "airs". You may not pull the hots in the "NSFW" photos but in my experience, most are worthless as a partner anyway. I learned the hard way and kept going for the hottest women I could find.... plus 3 "trophy wives" that I eventually couldn't stand to be around, no matter how hot they were. Forget using money, any kind of act or manipulation. You may get a few that way but that always turns to shite. Be realistic about your expectations, be yourself, offer respect, kindness, honesty, and waste no time with any women that don't offer the same back. I guarantee in the long run you'll have much more respect for yourself, peace of mind, and contentment each night when your head hits the pillow.

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how do you do it?

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Chicks dig guys with Big Black Dix!!!!






















Meet Dix...

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For my fellow gentlemen who are less than aesthetically stellar

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i'm not in that category, but i can sorta help you out... chicks dig confidence... even if you look like an extra from the Hobbit, if you have a certain air of confidence (not arrogance/cockiness, as this is a turnoff), women tend to like that...

be innocuous...

don't try to be suave, or smooth with one liners and shite... that never works.... just make small talk, no matter how uncomfortable you may be at the moment, and just have that self-confidence going... it will come across, and will be received positively by the chick you are talking to.... it may lead to something more, and it may not, with that particular chick, but gaining that experience and practicing it will make it easier in the future, as you are more comfortable and confident in yourself to be able to just talk to women, no matter what you look like....