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Do Your Views Or Any Of Your Family Members Views Cause Animosity Within The Family

Posted on 12/17/17 at 10:11 pm
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
122548 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 10:11 pm
Today was my immediate family's Christmas party, which was at my mom's. It is just me and my two half-siblings (brother & sister) so it is only 13 people. Anyway, I talked about my BIL on here before. He has some insane views. For example, several years ago he told me and my brother he stopped watching the NFL because the players started wearing pink (For breast cancer awareness). He said he didn't care what it was for, grown men should never wear pink.

Most of us are sports fans. It's just automatic, when we get together, whatever sporting event is on we will be watching and with the Saints playing at noon, there is no question the Saints game would be on. Well when my BIL got there, he stayed away from the living room.. Actually he probably stayed outside by himself for most of the time. He is one of these "i protest the NFL because the players disrespected the flag and some players said some bad things about Trump" types, but it was like he was really angry that it was on and he didn't want to be around it and he didn't talk to me and my brother because we were watching it.

Anyone else deals with family members who let their political views get in the way of family gatherings, etc?
Posted by Roman Candle Tag
Member since Mar 2016
1550 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 10:13 pm to
Move halfway across the country and only visit once every few years.

Problem solved.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Mackinac Island
Member since Jul 2009
38578 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 10:13 pm to
quote:

For example, several years ago he told me and my brother he stopped watching the NFL because the players started wearing pink (For breast cancer awareness). He said he didn't care what it was for, grown men should never wear pink.


Legitimate point. I like this guy.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
122548 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 10:14 pm to
Thanks Roman Candle Tag.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
108752 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 10:14 pm to
My wife's family all shares the same exact views yet every conversation they have sounds like an argument. Lol. I always throw out a few loaded comments to get things rolling. Just take whatever side is not in the ballgame.
Posted by JetFuelTyga
Born in desert,raised in lion's den
Member since Feb 2016
1799 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 10:17 pm to
Some of my family thinks Bush had no hand in 9/11. So yea. It gets pretty awkward
Posted by ibldprplgld
Member since Feb 2008
27903 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 10:17 pm to
Not an issue with my family luckily. We are generally conservative with a few liberals, but politics really never come up. It was never discussed or outlawed, it just doesn't come up.

It's nice honestly.
Posted by Grim
Member since Dec 2013
12489 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 10:19 pm to
Username checks out
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
122548 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 10:20 pm to
quote:

My wife's family all shares the same exact views yet every conversation they have sounds like an argument. Lol. I always throw out a few loaded comments to get things rolling. Just take whatever side is not in the ballgame.





We don't really get into talking politics. When there have been times when an issue comes up and things end up getting really heated so it's best for everyone to avoid talking politics.. It's just that BIL was really angry about being around people watching the NFL.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
39573 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 10:27 pm to
Some of my in laws are the moronic liberal types that lately have gotten more political and soak in fake arse news like its gospel, somehow ignoring or missing when the lib bullshite is exposed inevitably.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
47765 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 10:51 pm to
While it was your mom's house and not yours you could have gone to the door he was hanging outside of and given him a glass of water. Locking the door once you closed it is just a little accident.

Is this the BIL that touches your private parts when you are sleeping?
Posted by momentoftruth87
Your mom
Member since Oct 2013
86110 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 11:00 pm to
No, but had a count cousin yesterday try to show her nastiness when at the dinner table. Her kid and my brothers kid are a few months apart. My brothers son is quiet and reserved. Her daughter is watched all day by her mother in law who is a retired teacher. She also has our grandmother (great grandmother to our kids) drive an hour and 40 mins to watch her kids.

Anyways, yesterday she said he daughter has a vocabulary or 300 words compared to my brothers son's, five words. I was in shock that someone would even do that, let alone, Christmas Dinner.

I didn't know what to do. I got up, threw my plate away and walked outside in complete disbelief. While this was going on my brother started pounding more beers.

For the record my brother is trashy compared to her liberal arts degree, and she was favored as a grandchild compared to us. I don't care about how we had it, were better people and know what right and wrong is. Also, this bitch has 2 kids and uses fiji water in formula and let's everyone know her parenting, even though her oldest is 2.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
122548 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 11:18 pm to
quote:

For the record my brother is trashy compared to her liberal arts degree, and she was favored as a grandchild compared to us. I don't care about how we had it, were better people and know what right and wrong is. Also, this bitch has 2 kids and uses fiji water in formula and let's everyone know her parenting, even though her oldest is 2.



Her kids will probably end up being failures because the mom will convince them they are "better" than everyone, but then one day they will have to face reality that they are not as smart as they were taught they were and end up being frickups.
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
70143 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 11:20 pm to
He didn't
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
70143 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 11:20 pm to
Nice username
Posted by momentoftruth87
Your mom
Member since Oct 2013
86110 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 11:24 pm to
Yeah. Ill take my kids (3 & 7) any day, the way I'm raising the. Didn't feel like ruining dinner or making a scene in front of everyone. I will not be going back to another family event until things change and she publicly apologies to my brother.

Just disgusting. What if something is wrong with my brothers kid? Dear lord, I know she won't ever care, but why say a negative attack when the poor kid can't even defend himself. Fwiw his vocabulary is just fine. He's just a boy, and both his parents are quiet.
Posted by BananaHammock
Member since Aug 2011
13150 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 11:26 pm to
In short, yes.
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
42521 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 11:27 pm to
quote:

he probably stayed outside


Sounds like ole baw has his coat
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
26348 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 11:28 pm to
DGAF a frick and enjoy your life baw
Posted by northshorebamaman
Mackinac Island
Member since Jul 2009
38578 posts
Posted on 12/17/17 at 11:33 pm to
quote:

Her kids will probably end up being failures because the mom will convince them they are "better" than everyone, but then one day they will have to face reality that they are not as smart as they were taught they were and end up being frickups.

They're little kids, dude. No need to wish ill will on them because their mom acted like a cunt at the dinner table once when they were kids. Get a grip.
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