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Do kids that are held back in elementary/middle become successes later in life?

Posted on 10/31/16 at 4:31 am
Posted by DupontsCircle
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Posted on 10/31/16 at 4:31 am
I knew three kids who were held back. They became a janitor, a hair dresser and a painter in the plant. Early indications are that it kind of leads to certain professions. But kids can change right?

My biggest fear as a parent would be having to deal with a child that was held back and having to recover that confidence. That's got to be a tough spin for some parents.
Posted by Iron Lion
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Posted on 10/31/16 at 4:38 am to
A janitor, hair dresser and painter are income earning jobs. At least they aren't sitting on their arse collecting a check due to mental anguish from being held back.
Posted by DupontsCircle
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Posted on 10/31/16 at 4:41 am to
Gran Torino, slow your tires. I'm just asking questions over here.
Posted by Iron Lion
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Posted on 10/31/16 at 4:43 am to
I didn't mean that in any way. I was just saying that having a job is better than no job. My 14 year old is gonna push me to my brink just trying to get his arse out of high school
Posted by DupontsCircle
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Posted on 10/31/16 at 4:47 am to
Alright because I had a pictured an old man in suspenders shaking a fist for a moment there.
Posted by Iron Lion
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Posted on 10/31/16 at 4:49 am to
Shaking my fist screaming Get Off my lawn
Posted by McCaigBro69
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Posted on 10/31/16 at 4:56 am to
My girlfriend's twin brother was held back in first grade and he played football and graduated from Harvard.

He's a douche, but it breaks your trend I guess.
Posted by DupontsCircle
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Posted on 10/31/16 at 4:57 am to
I figured you'd be too busy working to be sitting around on a lawn.
Posted by vengeanceofrain
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Posted on 10/31/16 at 5:14 am to
I was held back in the second grade. I had a serious speech impediment and was so shy I would never ask questions so I didn't get laughed at . I refused to read out loud in class as well. Then I accidentally sipped some gas thinking it was sprite (long story) and my parents though I was a retard lol. I mean I would shut down at the sight of anything containing an s.


They transferred me to a school with a real speech therapy program the next year and by the time I was in forth grade I was back with my normal class and in alpha.


Kids are odd. its funny now bcause I have zero trace of a speech impediment now and one of my best friends in the same grade as I was who had a speech problem still stutters to this day.
Posted by Carson123987
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Posted on 10/31/16 at 5:15 am to
I know that I always looked down upon the held-backs. If your kids require it, make sure they switch schools or keep their mouths shut, may as well throw a scarlet letter on them.
Posted by Iron Lion
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Posted on 10/31/16 at 5:16 am to
I've stuttered all my life. It sucks but it is what it is. My oldest son stutters also and he's pretty successful for a 22 year old. Things only hold you down if you let them.
Posted by TulaneFan
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Posted on 10/31/16 at 5:21 am to
The answer to this thread would be yes, kids change. I think that goes without saying. So what if your child gets held back? Just be supportive. You know, be a fricking parent.
Posted by TulaneFan
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Posted on 10/31/16 at 5:31 am to
quote:

my parents though I was a retard lol.


I still think you're a retard.










Jk lol
Posted by vengeanceofrain
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Posted on 10/31/16 at 5:36 am to
I have nothing against stutters, my friend is pretty successful real estate guy and played college football. Im simply stating...mi e was literally debilitating. There were kids in my class I started 1st grade with that thought I was mute until the 3rd grade when I started to come out of my shell.


I was in NA for along time and what....the last weekend in in July 2014 being the secretary for my home group I had to go to all regional meetings and on that day I gave a 1 hour speaker meeting in front of shite I don't know 800 people or so it was a full basketball gym, didn't break stride once. I went from stutters to having the gift of the gab . The first thing I thought about afterwards was speech class in 1st grade.


IMHO rarely are their ignorant kids? Just kids that are different for some reason and need specialized attention. Some are dyslexic, some have add issues some have issues with attnority, etc
Posted by mauser
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Posted on 10/31/16 at 5:45 am to
Keep it simple. If the child can't read at a first grade level at the end of the year, why would you promote him to the second grade where he will be behind from the start. Maybe you can catch him up with a Summer program, but if not, he should repeat. I would hold back a 'D' students. After school mentoring is probably the best route for students falling behind.
Posted by vengeanceofrain
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Posted on 10/31/16 at 5:47 am to
Also I have always had extremely bad eyes. I was squinting in first grade and could not see the chalk board from the front of the class so not only could I not talk I couldn't see but because i was shy id sit in tne back somi would just zone out in class. Glass's changed my life.


Just got to figure out what is keeping your child from doing their best. Glasses and the ability to speak without getting laughed at took me from resource to talented and gifted in a span of three years
Posted by Iron Lion
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Posted on 10/31/16 at 5:49 am to
quote:

vengeanceofrain

I upvoted your post. My reply was meant to be complimentary and I apologize if it didn't come off that way. Stuttering can be debilitating. Mine was also. Couldn't talk in class. Couldn't talk to girls. I hated going to school. Then I met my wife and she didn't care that I stuttered and she changed my life.
Posted by DupontsCircle
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Posted on 10/31/16 at 5:55 am to
Now I read all your posts in a stutter
Posted by Iron Lion
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Posted on 10/31/16 at 5:56 am to
It's gonna take you 10x longer
Posted by Tiger Nation 84
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Posted on 10/31/16 at 6:07 am to
Very cool.story bros from both of yall

Not being sarcastic. I never had those type of problems, but in school what I did have was ADD, and my parents refused to admit or even look into it. They just didnt want me to be a kid that was different I think. But hell I would think about everything else in the world instead of whatever the hell was in front of me in school. I am not as bad about it today. Should have been put on medicine in school it would have helped me to focus more, because I couldnt study. Long story short I became a construction worker mostly in the plants, and I hate every day of it, but it pays the bills...

Eta:I was held back in 6th grade
This post was edited on 10/31/16 at 6:13 am
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