re: Do I Have To Tell My Fiancé If A Former GF Wants To Meet Up With Me?

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Either tell your ex to frick off or smash her while your fiance is out of town. But dont lie to anonymous people on a message board saying nothing will come of it. Either way dont tell the fiance.

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Yep.

Why are you lying to us, OP? We are just some assholes on a message board and you can’t even be truthful. You’re lying to yourself and your fiancée, too

This is so awkward, I’m not convinced that we aren’t being trolled



How old are you, and how long have y’all been together?

Yes you do

So ex works out of town and will only be in town this one time?

I say smash if for old times sake and never speak to her again.

Probably wouldn’t tell the fiancé though

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Then I’ll have to listen to her questions asking me why and accusations that fiancé is insecure, why wouldn’t she trust me, blah blah blah.

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Why do you fricking care? Oh right, because you’re still actually in love with her and she’s likely coming in to frick with you. You’d put your dick in this ex in a fricking heartbeat. I have a feeling she’s the one that got away for you, she recently broke up, and she knows you’re still obsessed over her. This is an evil bitch and stupid man coming together.

And women who read/post on this site, feel bad for people like the OP. That’s how stupid our dicks make us.

In all sincerity break up with your “fiancé”. You’re clearly not ready for marriage nor do you love her if you’d ever consider this. The only way this is remotely acceptable is if she has your kids and you want an amicable divorce, which your girlfriend should have known about on Date 1. Best advice I have is break up with your fiancé, go on the date, bang her once, and then see her with another guy in 2 months and breaking your heart again. Clearly the best path forward. Keep being a dumbass and see how that works out.

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You’re absolutely right. Which is why I keep dragging out this engagement.

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Break up with your fiancé then. That’s your answer.

Either don’t tell her Or don’t go

is it too late to suggest a 3 some?


tell each one she was the best sex ever
and the new one needs to learn , the old one needs to know how good youve got it.

profit

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I’m not talking to her in secret.

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Maybe it’s because you’re engaged and your “fiancé” trusts you? I don’t look through my girlfriend’s messages nor does she look through mine since the thought of us cheating on the other is unfathomable. I seriously doubt you’ve told your fiancé that you regularly text with your ex.