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re: Divorced members of the OT

Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:38 pm to
Posted by Titus Pullo
MTDGA
Member since Feb 2011
28567 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:38 pm to
That motherfricker is going to kill you, her, and then himself. Hope it's some good pussy.

I couldn't even read it all without cringing.
Posted by dbeck
Member since Nov 2014
29454 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:39 pm to
If a man cheats it's because "he's a pig and can't keep it in his pants".
If a woman cheats is because "he wasn't meeting her needs".

Gotta love reverse sexism
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:40 pm to
quote:

Most all divorces are directly related to the woman just deciding she isn't happy.


I wonder how many of those women had unrealistic expectations of marriage? Or they just got so wrapped up in planning the wedding/getting engaged that they overlooked massive red flags that would have let them know marriage with that person is a bad idea.
Posted by TigerstuckinMS
Member since Nov 2005
33687 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:40 pm to
quote:

Apparently he drove by and threw a rock at the window yesterday so she called him at work and informed him she's starting the restraining order process.


HOLY shite. Someone change the thread title to indicate this nugget.

The restraining order is the trigger from "unstable" to "unstable and homicidal".

:itshappening:
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
57349 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:40 pm to
Trust me it took me a good 4 years to get out of the financial hole divorce left me. The emotional part about 1 week after my crazy ex left. Trust me 7 years later I am happier than ever. Got a gf and doing great financially. frick getting married again. Stray strong it's gonna be ok.
Posted by Titus Pullo
MTDGA
Member since Feb 2011
28567 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:41 pm to
I know.

That's why I dont love no hos. And I damn sure aint putting a ring on it.

I will take my chances going to hell over divorce court, because the latter actually exists.
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:42 pm to
quote:

I wonder how many of those women had unrealistic expectations of marriage? Or they just got so wrapped up in planning the wedding/getting engaged that they overlooked massive red flags that would have let them know marriage with that person is a bad idea.



My question is...how many women at the age of 28-32 get married and settle down because its what society dictates they do. Then have a baby 2-3 years later. Then wake up one day and is unhappy where they are and leaves. I think marriage is a sham and something that society force feeds us thinking that we all should do it.
Posted by Titus Pullo
MTDGA
Member since Feb 2011
28567 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:43 pm to
If say 95%
Posted by Mouth
Member since Jan 2008
22058 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:43 pm to
should of let your lawyer go for her throat. family law is dog eat dog brah. nice guy always gets rail roaded.
Posted by MSCoastTigerGirl
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2008
35525 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:43 pm to
A LOT

Eta: sorry...didn't read the thread before posting
This post was edited on 5/19/16 at 12:45 pm
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
105870 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:44 pm to
I think people choose very poorly far too often when it comes to marriage...both men and women. They often come from divorced homes themselves and have no sense of commitment. Plus you have SJW mentality that has trumpeted individual personal happiness above the safety and security if the family unit (the backbone of a thriving and safe society)
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
68191 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:44 pm to
quote:

I wonder how many of those women had unrealistic expectations of marriage?

Probably 85%; I think it's that high because pretty much all women think they can change their man and when it doesn't happen.....well you know what happens
Posted by tigahfromtheham
On your left
Member since Jun 2005
5854 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:44 pm to
Financially a long time if you have kids. When mine turn 18 I'm gonna be balling like a mofo
Posted by Wolfhound45
Member since Nov 2009
121678 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:44 pm to
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He went silent after SFP put the atomic drop move on him.
Spill breh. I don't have time to dig through all of it.

Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
57349 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:44 pm to
U nailed it dbeck!
Posted by Brisketeer
Texas
Member since Aug 2013
1559 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:45 pm to
Took me about 5 years financially. Still working on the emotional angle. Where you are is not the new normal. It gets better as time goes by.
Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:47 pm to


The emotional stuff may take a long time.

seeing the signs too late. feeling the pain I did not allow myself to fully feel.

forgive yourself. forgive her.

forgive yourself tomorrow. forgive her tomorrow.
every day, for a long time.
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
57349 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:47 pm to
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when mine turn 18



My oldest is graduating HS next month

One done +500
Middle- daughter is senior next year +500
Youngest 16-+500

+1500 per month in 2 years
Posted by Sparkplug#1
Member since May 2013
7352 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:47 pm to
Ex and I were together for 14 years. I never signed a marriage certificate.

Took about two years to get semi normal. Don't think I'll ever get over my kids having to deal with that. But, it's not about me, it's about my kids.

Hang in there, it gets better.
Posted by btnetigers
South Louisiana
Member since Aug 2015
2315 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 12:48 pm to
Divorce is like dealing with the death of your partner - especially if you're the one not wanting the divorce. Unfortunately, there's no easy fix. Find a good support group, focus on the kids, and have a cold beer every once in a while. Good luck.
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