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re: Dilemma: Let's say you have a job offer
Posted on 4/12/17 at 2:51 pm to jvilletiger25
Posted on 4/12/17 at 2:51 pm to jvilletiger25
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That girl lives in north Alabama. I'm from the wiregrass area, so that has nothing to do with it.
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 2:52 pm to TheCaterpillar
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I would think nothing else matters besides being with your kids as much as possible.
Posted on 4/12/17 at 2:52 pm to jvilletiger25
Were you married in Florida or do yall just live there?
Posted on 4/12/17 at 2:53 pm to Titus Pullo
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So do I. Want me to keep it warm for you?
I'll ask, but she's not into baby dicks. Sorry bro
Posted on 4/12/17 at 2:53 pm to jvilletiger25
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I would have so much more job satisfaction and life satisfaction as well. But idk how happy I would be without them.
and how sad would they be without you? how would you now being basically a true part time parent effect their lives? take that into consideration too. how old are they? job satisfaction does not equal life satisfaction IMO. a job and career is one thing, but your kids well being should trump all IMO.
To put it into perspective i turned down a job offer recently that was almost double my salary, bc at the job im at now, I get tons of time off with the kids and wife, and it means more to me than extra cheddar. But again, im not struggling so you have to take it into perspective.
This post was edited on 4/12/17 at 2:55 pm
Posted on 4/12/17 at 2:54 pm to CoachChappy
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Were you married in Florida or do yall just live there?
No. We married in Alabama, divorced in Florida.
Posted on 4/12/17 at 2:54 pm to Titus Pullo
quote:Back story please
Moving back for that young pussy huh?
Posted on 4/12/17 at 2:56 pm to jvilletiger25
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No. We married in Alabama, divorced in Florida.
Could you not go see them every weekend? We're not talking California to Florida..'Tard State and Deaths Waiting Room are next-door neighbors.
This post was edited on 4/12/17 at 2:56 pm
Posted on 4/12/17 at 2:56 pm to jvilletiger25
Take the job.
Posted on 4/12/17 at 2:56 pm to jvilletiger25
quote:all of this makes me cringe
It would pretty much double my salary. I would have so much more job satisfaction and life satisfaction as well. But idk how happy I would be without them.
I would never even consider the offer if it meant leaving kids behind
Posted on 4/12/17 at 2:57 pm to jvilletiger25
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No. We married in Alabama, divorced in Florida.
Hmmm, I'm not sure divorcing in bama would've been much better.
Any chance you could have her declared an unfit mother and get full custody?
Posted on 4/12/17 at 2:57 pm to Rouge
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I would never even consider the offer if it meant leaving kids behind
same.
Posted on 4/12/17 at 2:57 pm to jvilletiger25
simple. Could you luge your life happy without your kids in it???? The answer to that question will give you your answer
Posted on 4/12/17 at 2:57 pm to jvilletiger25
Maybe try to make a deal with your ex to get her to move back to Alabama too. Break her off some of that doubled salary. 
Posted on 4/12/17 at 2:57 pm to tke857
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how old are your kids? are they almost college aged or sub 12yrs old? Kids need their dad man and I know it already tears you up that some other dude is raising them every other week. just think if you left. HE would become their "father figure" you would be the guy they get to see one wkend a month.
They're 9 and 6. If they were close to college age, I would be okay with moving. But I know they depend on me. I'm the one that takes them to their games and is always there, while their mom is off somewhere with shithead and can't be bothered with being a mom.
Posted on 4/12/17 at 2:57 pm to musick
Take the job.
Use skype every evening.
Negotiate more and better.
How old are they?
Ask ex to let you have joint custody when they get pubic hair. They live with you for junior high and high school.
Shes not going to like it when she has to be dad for young males 12 and up.
Discuss.
Use skype every evening.
Negotiate more and better.
How old are they?
Ask ex to let you have joint custody when they get pubic hair. They live with you for junior high and high school.
Shes not going to like it when she has to be dad for young males 12 and up.
Discuss.
Posted on 4/12/17 at 2:58 pm to jvilletiger25
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But idk how happy I would be without them.
frick me. I hope your kids never find this.
Posted on 4/12/17 at 2:58 pm to jvilletiger25
It's both respectable and understandable that you have your own aspirations, and I'm sorry your ex is so toxic, not allowing you to see your own sons as much as you should probably should be allowed to, I am not entirely aware of the entire situation. But I personally think, for now, your main priority should be seeing your children as much as possible.
Posted on 4/12/17 at 2:58 pm to oleyeller
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Could you luge your life happy
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This post was edited on 4/12/17 at 3:06 pm
Posted on 4/12/17 at 2:58 pm to jvilletiger25
Are you struggling financially? That's the only way I'd consider the job offer. Once you have kids they're the #1 priority.
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