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re: Dilemma: Let's say you have a job offer

Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:07 pm to
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:07 pm to
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But I know they depend on me. I'm the one that takes them to their games and is always there, while their mom is off somewhere with shithead and can't be bothered with being a mom.



So you're going to leave them behind and move back to Alabama to be with your cumdumpster chick?
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:08 pm to
Rouge, you're a cool dude.
Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
20872 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:10 pm to
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just realize that it makes you a shitty father


Are you a father? How good of a father are you if you're freaking miserable?
Posted by musick
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:10 pm to
wow just read the backstory thread. frick you jvilletiger25 you are a disgusting piece of shite and that 17 year old is going to burn you in more ways than one.
Posted by DeathValley85
Member since May 2011
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:11 pm to
Just take the job bro. You can make new kids.
Posted by MontyFranklyn
T-Town
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:11 pm to
yeah, he's moving back for that young piece
Posted by Nado Jenkins83
Land of the Free
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:11 pm to
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nd that 17 year old is going to burn you in more ways than one.





pics?
Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:12 pm to
If you believe those dumbasses and think it has anything to do with a female, Idk what to tell you. That chick would still be 5 hours away from where I'd be moving to.
Posted by ThatMakesSense
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:12 pm to
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Are you a father? How good of a father are you if you're freaking miserable?


I have this very real feeling that you're going to be the next weird Florida news story on the OT.
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:12 pm to
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Are you a father? How good of a father are you if you're freaking miserable?



You cant find any other job options in the area? Instead of moving to another state?

Just think if you do move to bama you will have a lot more money, nice things, and then no one to share them with who you actually care about except for the random lady friend you keep around bc you get lonely.

all the time wishing you could go back to eating ramen if you could just take your kids to soccer on a regular basis and see them score a goal.
This post was edited on 4/12/17 at 3:14 pm
Posted by Rouge
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:12 pm to
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Are you a father? How good of a father are you if you're freaking miserable?
Miserable or not, your job is to be the best parent that you can be. Being there for your kids is a big part, if not the biggest part, of that job.
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:13 pm to
So much real shite being posted in this thread.
Posted by Titus Pullo
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:13 pm to
When you decided not to pull out of the slut you knocked up not only once, but twice, your happiness became secondary to your sons.

How do you think they will feel when they aren't able to do any of the shite you said you take them to do because their mom is out getting fricked up and fricked?
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33963 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:14 pm to
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Are you a father? How good of a father are you if you're freaking miserable?


There are no guarantees that taking this job will make you any happier. It may only make things worse.

Fake it until you make it, for the sake of the kids.
This post was edited on 4/12/17 at 3:15 pm
Posted by FLObserver
Jacksonville
Member since Nov 2005
16091 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:14 pm to
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They're 9 and 6. If they were close to college age, I would be okay with moving. But I know they depend on me. I'm the one that takes them to their games and is always there, while their mom is off somewhere with shithead and can't be bothered with being a mom.



Dang son! So Now this shithead could be their full time dad without you in the picture. Wow tough one there! Maybe you can get them a few months out of the year so they know you exist. After you get settled at the new job. Could you have them live with you for half the year? No other job prospects in this area for at least a couple more years so you could help steer them in the right direction in life.
This post was edited on 4/12/17 at 3:18 pm
Posted by S1C EM
Athens, GA
Member since Nov 2007
11594 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:14 pm to
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I would have so much more job satisfaction and life satisfaction as well.


Really? You think you're better off without your kids being around as much? Do you think they're better off without you? For anyone with half a brain and half a heart, this isn't even a question.

If you're really trying to justify this in your mind, you're fricked up. You had sex. You made babies. YOU have a responsibility.

Suck it up, do the right thing and stop being a bitch.
Posted by Titus Pullo
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Member since Feb 2011
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:15 pm to
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5 hours away


Unless you live on one state line and she lives in the opposite she's not that far.

Florence to Orange Beach is just a little over that.
Posted by Breesus
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:15 pm to
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But, my ex probably won't let me take my sons with me


You made a decision to have a kid. So you do what's best for that kid. You don't matter anymore.

Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
20872 posts
Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:15 pm to
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You cant find any other job options in the area? Instead of moving to another state?


Been trying

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all the time wishing you could go back to eating ramen if you could just take your kids to soccer on a regular basis and see them score a goal.

And you're probably right. The most screwed up thing about it is, they love it back home. They love seeing their cousins and grandparents. They ask me if we can move there all the time. The only thing that would stop that is my ex.
Posted by musick
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Posted on 4/12/17 at 3:15 pm to
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If you believe those dumbasses and think it has anything to do with a female, Idk what to tell you. That chick would still be 5 hours away from where I'd be moving to.


you mentioned in that other thread "how different alabama and florida girls are"..

do you not live in FL now and are pondering moving to AL where she lives?
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